Qin Shihuang, after settling down, sent many boys and girls to find ways to live forever. Li Shimin, the saint who created my peaceful and prosperous times, finally swallowed the so-called "elixir" in order to resist death, eating bad intestines and stomach, and many toxins were also fatal; Kangxi shouted, "live another 500 years", hoping to live with the tortoise, but God is fair, so he was recruited.
These are terrible. Their death is a great event, and it is a lot of great events. They were loved by thousands of people before their death, and they were even more lonely after their death, so they had to die and be buried with them. And not everything can be buried with him, it is also chosen. That's an honor.
Those down and out emperors, such as Chongzhen, hacked to death their daughter Princess Zhaoren in Zhaoren Hall, and then hacked to death many concubines before hanging from a tree.
And ordinary people, such as us, can't be tempered. When relatives and friends become pigtails, we will cry for the land, get hysterical and cry our eyes out. This is filial piety. If you don't have enough hands, you have to spend money to cry. Otherwise, all the spittle will drown you.
The last words of Ruan Yuling, an early movie star, were: "Be awesome." As arrogant as Li Ao, it is still a minority. When his father died, thousands of pieces of solatium were sent from home, but he was in tears and speechless. What do you mean, I just don't cry, that is, "I don't burn paper, I don't chant Buddhist scripture, I don't mourn, I don't knock on mourning, and I don't shed a tear in public."
"Although I will go there in thousands of years" is not as simple as saying. Not only to bear the pressure, but also to pay the price. Unlike Li Ao, "the old man is a thief"; For example, Ruan, the fragrance disappears and the jade dies. Although it is a struggle, it is just a little talk for the mediocre. However, her death was "quiet beauty". After all, it ended the criticism, but the price was too high.
Perhaps the death of suicide is somewhat "quiet and beautiful". These people would not have died if they were not completely desperate, which also requires great courage. Ji Bolun said, "When you solve all the mysteries of life, you want to die, because it is just another mystery of life. Life and death are the two noblest manifestations of bravery. " Our father Lu Xun also said something similar, with a little provocation, "If anyone finds it easy, try it!"
Shi Tiesheng said to us in "I and Ditan": "Death is something that does not need to be done in a hurry, something that will not be missed no matter how delayed, and a festival that is bound to come." Even so, many people still dare to die. Their "quiet beauty" is our "boiling" and our loss However, for this choice, we still need to hold an understanding attitude, such as Wang Wei's last words: "Fifty years, only one death is needed. After this world change, shameless. "
There are many deaths named after "Jingmei". Marx, our great thinker and revolutionary, died quietly in his chair after his good friend Engels left the room. As Engels said, "At that moment, a great heart stopped beating ... just like he was asleep." According to us, this is also a funeral.
Great Caesar, strong woman. In the end, I chose to commit suicide. When the enemy came in, they found her sitting there as if asleep, with a beautiful face and a calm expression. After the experiment, she let a poisonous snake bite her wrist and made her dizzy. She left in this painless way.
I remember watching a movie about a criminal who got drunk for some reason and never woke up after getting drunk. When the warden saw it, he said that he had tried to die peacefully in this way, but it failed.
Our great playwright and poet, in Shakespeare's Revenge of the Prince, the death of the minister's daughter has always moved me. She finally went crazy, so crazy that she fell into the river. Because she is slim and wears a skirt, she doesn't sink fast. She just floats in the river and sings. The final result must be drowning, but this kind of death is unforgettable.
A lot of what I said before were names. In fact, "death is as beautiful as autumn leaves" is a very high realm, but it is not only high that can be achieved. The criminal who just died of drunkenness is an exception.
There was a famous poem "Yuan Mei" in Qing Dynasty. His old friend died at the age of 94, and he was crying beside him. Yuan wiped away tears for the child and said, silly child, why are you crying? Who won't die? In this way, Yuan died as he spoke.
There is another example in Li Ao's article: "Jews were persecuted by the Germans, their hair was cut off, their dentures were pulled out, women and children were stripped naked and pushed into the poison room. There is a grandparent holding her little grandson, and her armpit itches. The little grandson is laughing, and grandparents are laughing. "
Death is just a process of life. Although it is difficult to be like Zhuangzi, when his wife died, she not only stopped crying, but also "sang". However, it is nice to leave quietly when she dies.