Love on stage is much better than love in life. Because on the stage, love is only the material of comedy and tragedy, but in life, love often brings misfortune. Sometimes it looks like a seductive witch, and sometimes it looks like a vengeance. You can see that none of the truly great figures (whether ancient or modern, as long as their fame is forever engraved in human memory) are crazy about love. Because the great cause suppressed this feeling of weakness. Only Antony and Claudia of Rome are exceptions. The former is lascivious and dissolute, while the latter is a serious and resourceful person. This shows that love will not only occupy an open and broad mind, but also sometimes break into a heavily guarded mind-if the defense is lax. Epicurus once said a stupid thing: "Life is just a big stage." It seems that human beings who should strive for lofty causes should be like dolls, just taking part in accidental amusement. Although the slave of love is different from the beast who only cares about eating and drinking, after all, it is only the slave of eyes and colors. God gives people eyes for a higher purpose. Excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of people themselves. For example, only in love do you always need that kind of high-sounding flattery. On other occasions, the same rhetoric can only make people laugh. There is a famous saying in the ancients: "The greatest flattery is always for yourself." -only flattery to lovers is an exception. Because even the proudest person is willing to belittle himself in front of his lover. Therefore, the ancients put it well: "Even God can't stay smart in love (www.zk 168.com.cn)." This weakness of lover is obvious not only in the eyes of outsiders, but also in the eyes of the pursued-unless she (he) is also pursuing him (her). So, this is the price of love. If you don't get love, you will get deep contempt. This is the eternal law. This shows that people should be very alert to this feeling. Because this will not only make people lose others, but also make people lose themselves. As for other losses, ancient poets have long told us that those who pursue Helen give up wealth and wisdom. When the human heart is most vulnerable, love is the easiest to invade, that is, when people are proud of the spring breeze, get carried away, get into trouble and be lonely, although the latter may not get love. People are most eager to jump into the flame of love at this time. This shows that "love" is really the son of "stupid". But some people, even if there is love in their hearts, can still restrain it and let it not interfere with important undertakings. Because once love interferes with emotions, it will hinder people from running firmly towards the established goals. I don't know why. Many soldiers are more likely to fall in love. Maybe it's just like they love drinking, because a dangerous life needs more joy compensation. There may be a universal love tendency in people's hearts. If we don't focus on a single object, it will be applied to a wider public and make him a kind person, just like some monks. The love of husband and wife makes human beings multiply. A friend's love helps others. But that kind of dissolute love will only make people degenerate and destroy!