There is nothing absolutely fair in the world, and it is inevitable that one side will feel that it has suffered and the other side will take advantage. In the face of similar things, do you choose to lose or take advantage?
The ancients said, "Learn from mistakes". According to this sentence, it is a blessing to suffer. If you lose money on something, you will wonder where you are wrong, so that you can exercise yourself and make progress in the process.
There is an ordinary rural woman, with a low education level, who sets up a stall on the street and earns only a dime for selling a film. She turned a deaf ear to people who said she was stubborn. Later, her business grew bigger and bigger, and she opened a photographic equipment store. She still earns only a dime from a movie. Once, a foreign customer lost her wallet, and she spent a lot of long-distance telephone charges to find the owner. Sometimes, she overcharged others and was anxious to find someone to pay back the money. In doing so, she seems to have suffered, but in fact she has won the trust of others. People love to shop in her shop. Although a dime is small, many a mickle makes a mickle. In this way, she made a lot of money. Isn't suffering a blessing?
There is also an owner of a gravel yard, who has no education and no prominent background, but his business is surprisingly good and has been booming for many years. Everyone who has worked with him once is willing to cooperate with him again, because when distributing profits with each collaborator, he insists on taking it. Spend less and give more to each other. But this little money has won him a lot of customers. Isn't it a loss and a blessing?
These two things sound like a fable. Is it possible that two ordinary people defeated many powerful opponents? Maybe! Because these things often happen to us. These things fully illustrate a truth: it is a blessing to suffer!