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This composition is about 1200 words in Grade Three. The topic is "Thoughts on Overcoming Jealousy by Reading". Everyone is welcome to contribute enthusiastically.
Jealousy is a negative emotional experience, which will cause resistance because others are better than themselves. When you see that others are better than yourself, you will feel sour, so you will have a complex mood including hatred and jealousy, anger and resentment, doubt and disappointment, humiliation and vanity, sadness and grief. This emotion is jealousy. Jealous people can't tolerate others to surpass themselves, and are afraid that others will get fame and status that they can't get. In his view, others should not do what they can't do, and others should not get what they can't get.
Jealousy not only affects physical and mental health, but also affects study and work. Strong jealousy directly affects people's mood, and a bad mood will greatly reduce the efficiency of study or work. Besides, jealousy may prevent us from making close friends. Jealous people tend to be competitive in everything, often trying to stop the development of others and always trying to overwhelm others. This may make classmates and friends want to avoid you and are unwilling to associate with you. So as to create a bad interpersonal atmosphere for yourself, you will feel lonely and lonely.
How to overcome it? Introduce the following methods:
Xiao Li: Analyze the harm of jealousy and point out the ways of progress.
In view of the low level of rational thinking of primary school students, teachers should pay attention to using examples to analyze the harm of jealousy to students in educational practice. On the one hand, it lists the negative examples of falling into the abyss of jealousy, slandering, slandering, and even hurting others, which lead to self-destruction: for example, Pang Juan ruined Sun Bin because of jealousy, and Zhou Yu was jealous of Zhuge Liang but took it out on himself, which made students take warning; On the other hand, list the stories of celebrities who can control their jealousy and make great achievements, such as Lian Po in Making Peace with the Prime Minister, to set an example for students, guide them to treat the progress of others correctly, treat honor correctly, correctly estimate their own advantages and disadvantages, and learn from each other's strengths. In addition, students can be organized to extract famous sayings such as "jealousy is harmful". "Jealousy is a bad emotion stronger than hatred" and so on. Combined with students' reality, we organize them to digest these proverbs in various forms to purify their spiritual consciousness, so that they can generally meet Si Qi, study hard and get along well with others.
Care: create an atmosphere of care and resolve jealousy.
Primary school students in lower grades have basically the same starting point, and the gap formed in learning and various competitions is relatively not wide. The main objects of their jealousy are teachers' preference for some students and teachers' excessive appreciation of students with excellent grades. Therefore, in the process of education, teachers should be fair and just, and teachers should be kind and loving, and they should not be partial to one another. Moreover, teachers should pay more attention to and care for those students who are temporarily backward and need improvement, and take concrete measures to help guide the underachievers to sum up their experiences and lessons, improve their learning methods, completely change their backwardness, catch up and fundamentally eliminate their jealousy.
Motivation: Fully affirm achievements, firm enterprising confidence.
In the process of helping the backward to make progress, teachers should fully affirm every achievement they have made, especially those students who are seriously backward. They should use a magnifying glass to find their "bright spots" and subtle progress submerged in problems and shortcomings, and give affirmation, encouragement and praise in time. In this way, they can rekindle the fire of self-esteem and gain the courage and confidence to overcome their shortcomings and forge ahead. Abraham, a famous American psychologist in modern times? Maslow believes that discovering and fully affirming a person's achievements in time can make him have the "best emotional experience", that is, "feeling strong joy, relief and happiness … and loving others and the whole world, and even having the desire to do something in return". For young pupils, teachers' praise, affirmation, rewards and other external means often have a greater role.
Counseling: competition, cooperation and complementarity, and optimization of interpersonal relationships.
"Competition" refers to the process that individuals or groups strive to surpass their opponents according to superior standards in order to give full play to their potential. "Cooperation" refers to the process that students help each other to complete a task for the same purpose. In the process of education, the two are unity of opposites and complement each other. Because of the cognitive deviation, we used to emphasize a little more competition on primary school students, but ignored the importance of cooperation. In fact, this is an important factor that causes students to have bad psychology such as jealousy. Therefore, in order to optimize interpersonal care among students, we must emphasize and strengthen complementary "cooperation" while organizing moderate competition among students. Cooperation helps students develop good personality, enhance group cohesion and form a harmonious educational atmosphere.