1, appreciate education, encourage and guide children to success. Appreciation education is the premise of building children's self-confidence and encouraging their success. My family has always used the method of appreciation and encouragement to educate and guide children, so that she can correctly understand her achievements and shortcomings, build up self-confidence, overcome difficulties and finally reach the other side of success. Our family has specially set up a "success box" for children to record their success stories, collect their medals and certificates, and encourage children to establish self-confidence and dare to succeed.

2. Cultivate children's good study habits. Habit is a relatively fixed behavior and tendency formed by people engaging in certain activities for a long time. Once this kind of behavior and tendency is formed, people will naturally do it, otherwise they will feel uncomfortable. Therefore, it is very important to help children develop good study habits. In the process of educating children, we should first pay attention to learning attitude and style, and often check whether children concentrate on reading, finish homework on time, write neatly, and persist in learning despite difficulties; Second, grasp the homework to see if the children consciously do their homework when they come home from school, whether to review before doing their homework, whether to check after finishing their homework, whether the mistakes and typos pointed out by the teacher are corrected, and whether the homework book is neat; Third, grasp the ability to see if children have the ability to review, preview, remember, think, write and calculate; Fourth, grasp the skills and skills to see if the child's homework format is correct, whether it is written well and quickly, whether the learning method is correct, and how the learning effect is.

3. Cooperate with the teacher. I feel that there is nothing more selfless than a teacher in the world! They always want to teach their students all their knowledge and never consider asking for anything in return. Sometimes, students whisper in class and don't listen carefully. As teachers, starting from the premise of being responsible for students, they severely criticized this. At this time, parents can't take an indifferent attitude. They should seize the opportunity to cooperate with the teacher to educate their children, sit down, talk calmly with their children, communicate, find out the facts, and understand what mistakes the children have made and what their attitude is. They couldn't say one thing at school, but when they got home, their parents said another. If they criticize the teacher, the children will be puzzled for a while. Parents should not "push them to drink water", they can put it off again and again.

4. Praise children artistically. It is true that a good boy is praised. If you really want to praise your children, you can get the art of children-oriented and boasting. Praise children with a positive attitude. Praising children is not to meet some psychological needs of adults, but to cultivate children's good thoughts and behaviors. Because some parents are busy with work during the day and housework after work, they show impatience when communicating with their children when they are tired. Because I feel too wordy, I just want to get rid of entanglement and respond to what my children like. In this way, it is easy to affirm the wrong words and deeds and cause misleading. It may also be indifferent to good behaviors that should be fully affirmed, which affects the enthusiasm of children. Therefore, to praise children, we should carefully observe their performance, patiently listen to their stories, understand their thoughts and activities under any circumstances, and then fully praise what should be affirmed. At the same time, we should also give positive guidance and education to incorrect words and deeds.