Adolescents who enter adolescence have weakened their dependence and enhanced their independence, which makes parents and children have a certain distance to understand things. Because of different attitudes and viewpoints, there is a psychological gap. Leading young friends to think that their parents don't understand them, don't care about them, and don't want to talk to their parents about something. They would rather talk to their classmates, and even try to get rid of the guardianship of adults or society in a dissatisfied, contradictory, rebellious and illegal way, and stick to their own ideals and standards for judging right and wrong.

Secrets of communication with parents

Move 1: communicate actively. Find some time every day, such as before or after meals, talk to your parents about your school, teachers and friends, happy or unhappy things, and share your joys and sorrows with your family.

Move 2: Create opportunities. Do at least one thing with your parents every week, such as cooking, working in the fields, playing ball games, shopping and watching TV. Communicate while doing things.

The third measure: listen carefully. When you are criticized by your parents, don't rush to refute them. Try to listen to your parents' thoughts calmly first, and maybe you will understand the reasons behind your parents' anger.

Move 4: Take the initiative to apologize. If you are wrong, don't run away, don't be silent, take the initiative to apologize, and you will often get your parents' understanding.

Move 5: considerate. Maybe it's not your fault. You have a lot of grievances, but don't argue yet. Maybe parents are too tired, or they are in trouble at work and life. Changing the time and place and communicating with parents will have unexpected effects.

The sixth measure: control your emotions. When communication with parents is not smooth, don't lose your temper, talk back at will, and avoid accidentally saying or making things that hurt others. When you want to get angry, you can take a deep breath and leave for a while, or wash your face with cold water first.

The seventh measure: take responsibility. While doing your own thing, take the initiative to share some family responsibilities, such as washing dishes, taking out garbage, cleaning windows, and taking the opportunity to chat with parents.

1. Look at the problem from the teacher's point of view, put yourself in the teacher's shoes and understand the teacher's thoughts.

2. Treat the teacher's criticism and praise correctly. Praise is love, so is criticism.

3. Forgive the teacher's mistakes. Point out the teacher's mistakes in an appropriate way.

4. Be polite to the teacher

5, pay attention to the occasion 6, don't lose your sense of proportion.