A mental patient broke into the doctor's house and shot and killed his three daughters in the mood for love; He cured the mental patient after all. This is also forgiveness.

It is not difficult for us to forgive others, but it is not easy either. The key is how the mind chooses. When a man

Man chooses hatred, so he will spend the rest of his life in darkness; If a person chooses to forgive, then he can make the sun shine on the earth. As the old saying goes, "It's good to know your mistakes and correct them." In that case, why can't we forgive a person's unintentional mistake?

When our hearts choose forgiveness for ourselves, we get the freedom we deserve. Because we let go of the burden of hatred, we can give our friends or enemies a sweet smile. Destiny is often emphasized in Buddhism and Taoism. Among all sentient beings, it is fate that two people can meet and know each other. When you get to know each other because of hatred, it is undeniable that you have already remembered each other's names in your hearts. If you think about how to get back at each other all day and feel extremely depressed, you might as well let go of your hatred and forgive each other. Maybe, so you can have another good friend to talk to. Everyone needs a friend, and more forgiveness can make us have one more friend.

Former US President Lincoln worked in a grocery store as a child. Once, because the customer's money was taken away by the previous customer, the customer had an argument with Lincoln. The owner of the grocery store fired Lincoln for this. The boss said, "I have to fire you, because you make customers dissatisfied with the service in our store, so we will lose a lot of business." We should learn to forgive customers' mistakes. Customers are our god. Many years later, Lincoln became president. After becoming president, Lincoln said, "I should thank the owner of the grocery store, who made me understand how important forgiveness is." "

To learn to forgive others is to learn to be kind to yourself. Hatred can only keep our hearts in darkness forever; On the other hand, forgiveness can make our hearts free. Forgiving others can make life easier and happier. Forgiving others can make us more friends.

Forgiving others means liberating yourself and restoring the purity and peace of mind.

Learning to tolerate others is an understanding of others, a magnanimity, and a good relief for others, while forgiving yourself is an open-minded, calm and rational one. Forgiving yourself is not indulgence. People should learn to be tolerant. More tolerance means less spiritual separation; More tolerance means more understanding, more trust and more friendliness. I think tolerance means accepting others in your heart, understanding their way of doing things and respecting their principles. Although tolerance is not that simple, we should do our best. Starting from scratch, you will get closer and closer to tolerance. After continuous accumulation, you will eventually achieve your goal-tolerance. Tolerance is an extraordinary bearing and broad mind. It is a noble quality, a lofty realm, a mature spirit, a rich and inclusive mind, a light of love, a supreme blessing, a release to others, that is, being kind to yourself. Tolerance is a wisdom of survival, an art of life, and calmness, self-confidence and detachment gained after seeing through social life. A big belly can hold you, the sky and the ground. Why can't people tolerate it! "This is how tolerance and mind! The value of tolerance lies not only in the recognition of the same kind, but also in the respect for the different kinds. -this is also the embodiment of everyone's demeanor. There are three realms of forbearance, which can be described as fish farming: the most elementary realm is to enjoy fish in a glass jar and let it exist and move only within a certain range; The middle layer is pond culture, which benefits from the land, guides the situation and uses each other. The highest state is that there are many kinds of fish in the rivers and seas. Let them live and swim, which makes the sea broad and rich. How big your mind is, how high your realm is; How high the realm is, how big the career can be. Tolerance is when Sun wrote this topic, and I thought of many related words. The philosopher Kant said: "Anger is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. "Elegant Kant probably won't have a storm, and his mood will always be clear. If someone else makes a mistake, we will be furious about it, so it is our own fault. Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "The only way to really hate others is. That is, give full play to each other's strengths. "Hate each other, don't be ruthless. As a result, you will only be overwhelmed and exhausted. Carnegie's hate is another form of tolerance. Hating others is not a gnashing and greedy opponent, but absorbing each other's strengths and transforming them into calcium for strengthening the body. How does the wolf play "kind grandma"? When two tigers fight, they are at odds, but once the hero is lonely, they don't need to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance. President Lincoln was famous for his tolerance of political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The congressman said, "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become me. "In short, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend. Who made the greatest contribution after the successful closure of the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project. "The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges and generate the potential to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge. Although I don't agree with your point of view, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. There is a saying that three winters are warm, and tolerance is the warm sun on the snowy mountains in winter; Bad words hurt people in June. If you have tolerance, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer. Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms can it be clear. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Rivers can only become big if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is a river and lake that accommodates all rivers and seas. Among friends, tolerance is the gold given to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness, but he can also understand Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss. Tolerance with others is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang. He insulted Liu Xiu and even plotted to kill Liu Xiu's letters. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. He put the past behind him, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength, and finally became emperor. The fire burned the bad blood and forged a solid foundation for his career. You should tolerate other people's different opinions, exclude or even frame them. Because you know, exactly. The little shoes given to you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; A blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Well-meaning words are a double-edged sword, and eventually they cut themselves; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" are falling off; Blood boiling is the most likely cause of "hypertension". "One foot crushed the violet, but it left a fragrance on the heel, that is forgiveness." andrew matheus said in "The Heart of Tolerance" that people who come and go in life are far and near, close and strange, and everyone is like a boat in the sea. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. Everyone will "commit crimes", which is a misunderstanding. In life, many people will be flushed and waste their time because of a little thing. I think it's best to put it on your career, work and study ... to make these things more perfect and give others a tolerant smile and tolerance. If everyone in the world knows tolerance, I think the wars in the world will also be "extinct"! From ancient times to the present, people's lives will have greater changes. This is the power of tolerance. Tolerance is a happy thing. Take me for example! Once, I was walking in the street when suddenly a man walked past me and stepped on my foot. He quickly said, "I'm sorry …" and gave me a smile, pleading for tolerance and forgiveness. However, because of the pain, I shouted and said, "You are blind!" " "I am surrounded by audiences, so I deliberately said loudly to these" audiences ":"Look! This blind dog stepped on my foot and tried to escape ... "I thought people around me would be angry about it, but it backfired." Suddenly someone jumped out and asked me, "Young man, what is your status?" "Student", I quickly answered. He added, "Did your teacher teach you tolerance?" "Yes," "Then why don't you tolerate him?" "I clearly heard him say' I'm sorry'. "I don't know where to put my face, but I quickly told myself that I can't show it now. After a while, I looked down and said to the person who stepped on my foot, "I'm sorry!" "He said to my critics," Thank you! " Then I quickly turned and ran away. With this lesson, I dare not be like before, and my life begins to be happy. A year later, I was waiting for the bus at the train station and was trampled by my peers. The man smiled and said to me, "I'm sorry." I also quickly smiled and responded to him and said, "It doesn't matter." I said, "Never mind." I feel so relaxed after that! On my way home, the tall figure of the man who criticized me a year ago flashed through my mind. He taught me tolerance, and "tolerance" is priceless. Since then, I have been very happy and comfortable every day. In a word, tolerance will give people incomparable strength. He can at least make people happy.