? The first story: after suffering, things change.
Lin Shuhua, formerly known as Fang Deyong, was born in 19 19, and his ancestral home is Pinghu, Zhejiang. When she was young, she lived in a wealthy aristocratic family. She was a big lady who didn't know the sufferings of the world, but this life only lasted until she was sixteen. It turns out that her so-called parents are her uncles and aunts, while her biological parents are poor uncles and aunts. In the late autumn after she learned the truth, her biological mother died of poverty and illness, leaving her with endless sadness.
In late autumn, Xu Huimin, who is three years older than her, was introduced to her as a tutor. At that time, Xu Huimin was just a poor boy studying in Shanghai Gezhi College. Perhaps it is their bitter secret that makes them have more words, perhaps their repeated contact makes them cherish each other more, and they love each other fearlessly.
Because of the disparity between the rich and the poor, their love was strongly opposed by their parents, especially Lin Shuhua's father. Afraid that his daughter would suffer after marrying Xu Huimin, he insisted on finding a suitable rich man for her, just for her carefree happiness for the rest of her life, but Lin Shuhua was unmoved and insisted on not getting married until Xu Huimin.
At this time, Xu Huimin, who is proud in her heart, struggles with the eyes of Lin Shuhua's family and Lin Shuhua's yearning for love. He studied hard only to be worthy of the woman who fell in love at first sight. This road was particularly difficult, but fortunately, eight years later, he finally graduated from Shanghai St. John's University as a doctor of medicine and began to practice medicine. They finally got married in 1942, when Lin Shuhua was 23 and Xu Huimin was 26.
After eight years of waiting, the flowers finally opened. They have a pair of daughters, but Qin Hese's harmonious marriage life is surprisingly short. In the second year after marriage, Xu Huimin died of acute lung disease, leaving only two little girls to feed. Before her death, Xu Huimin said, "I love you ... and hurt you", but there is no right or wrong in love. How many people can control their emotions when love knocks on the door?
Since then, Lin Shuhua has written a novel "Love Between Life and Death" based on his own experience of blood and tears, which is sincere and touching and deeply loved by readers.
Based on the social life in the 1940s, Love Between Life and Death describes the whole process of her acquaintance, love and marriage with her lover Xu Huimin until her lover died of lung disease. Two of them struggled with feudal forces, were steadfast in love, had the cruelty of war and the ruthlessness of the world, and died from overwork in Xu Huimin. Lin Shuhua fought back tears and shouldered the heavy responsibility of raising orphans alone.
The whole book is full of tears, and every word is blood. I can't help crying when I read it, but I can't bear to watch it.
? The second story: an irreparable miss caused by misunderstanding
Gao was party member in the early days of Middle School. He followed Sun Yat-sen's uprising and worked with Premier Zhou Enlai. But unfortunately, he died young because of illness, only 29 years old. Shi Pingmei, a talented poet, is one of the four talented women in the Republic of China. But the day envies the talents, and the beauty has a short life. Three years after Gao died, she died at the age of 26.
/kloc-in the winter of 0/920, I came to Shi Pingmei. At that time, Shi Pingmei had just finished a love affair. That love affair, Shi Pingmei was scarred, and she vowed never to believe in love again, holding the belief that she would never marry.
At that time, Gao had just struggled out of the mire of arranged marriage in feudal families. Gao is a real man. He fell in love with Shi Pingmei at first sight. Proactively and boldly expressed his love for Shi Pingmei.
But at that time, Shi Pingmei had already calmed down and no longer believed in love. Although she also likes Gao, she stubbornly refuses to accept Gao's courtship and only regards Gao as a friend and revolutionary comrade-in-arms.
But Gao stubbornly pursued Shi Pingmei.
On the shore of Taoranting Lake, Gao and Shi Pingmei met while walking. They had such a conversation.
Shi Pingmei: "You don't know my past. I had a three-year relationship, unforgettable and heartbreaking. "
G: "I don't care about your past. I only know that you are not married or single. We will be together forever. "
But this conversation didn't bring them closer.
Because Shi Pingmei always thought Gao had a wife and they would get back together.
But in fact, Gao and his wife have already broken off their engagement. They should have been Gao's daughters. All this happened after Gao's death, when Shi Pingmei returned Gao's relics to his hometown Gao, he didn't know the truth from Gao's original place.
Shi Pingmei wept bitterly and regretted not accepting Gao's courtship at an early date. Every day, she goes to Gao's grave and cries. From sunrise to sunset, she didn't want to leave until the sunset filled the sky.
She carved the following lines on the high tombstone:
"Yu Jun, I can't save your life as quickly as a comet, but I will shed tears on your grave for the rest of my life until I can't come again."
Three years later, due to excessive grief, Shi Pingmei's health became worse and worse.
From 65438 to 0928, Shi Pingmei died in Peking Union Medical College Hospital. Coincidentally, Gao also died in Union Medical College Hospital.
According to Shi Pingmei's will, friends buried Shi Pingmei and Gao in one place, which is the lake of Taoranting Park.
It is the place where Shi Pingmei and Gao used to meet for a walk and enjoy flowers, and it is also the place where they talked about literature, ideals and revolutionary cause. Shi Pingmei finally fulfilled Gao's wish to be with her forever.
Give birth to different fur and die in the same hole. Such love, such an ending, really makes people cry.
In the Republic of China, love escaped bullets and blood, but it was finally defeated by rumors.
? Nine times out of ten, love in the Republic of China was sad. In that turbulent era, life safety could not be guaranteed, and the old society was still bound by feudal ethics. Whether it is the life risk faced by the family or the helplessness of being banned by the secular family when the bosom friend meets, it all stems from the helplessness under the background of the times.