At that time, the college entrance examination was our baton, attracting countless students to forget to eat and sleep, and strive for it day and night. In this regard, they can "turn a deaf ear to things outside the window and read only sage books." Little is known about other aspects. I am one of them. When I entered the university, I felt I had too much to learn. Sometimes, I feel that I have been eliminated by society and know nothing. But I don't know what to do. When I was a freshman, my major was particularly relaxed. On average, I have classes for half a day and have nothing to do for half a day. But time somehow passed. Looking back on these days, I feel a little empty and a little slim; Recalling the days when I talked and laughed with my classmates in high school, I was a little disappointed. Although I also made a general plan for my freshman life, I was gradually ignored because of the lack of goals.
Maybe you will say: after all this time, why can't you adapt to college life? I I feel that I have adapted, but I lack a kind of motivation and spiritual sustenance.
Maybe I need to change myself from now on. I used to make some small plans for myself every day, but sometimes I lacked courage. I put off my plan again and again, always looking forward to tomorrow or next time, although I also know that "success is possible only if I dare to succeed" I came to the university to better adapt to the society, to survive and develop myself, and to realize my ideals. I really need to change myself.
Nowadays, the society is very complicated, and there are views on money and interests everywhere. In a relatively complex society, a calm and colorful campus provides us with a pure land. Through this pure land, we need to see the outside world and understand the society. Out of the school gate here, you can't treat yourself as a student. We should treat ourselves like adults. Otherwise, you are easily deceived by others. In fact, in this society, we need to know a lot. Whether it is all kinds of professional information or industry information, it is worth knowing and inquiring. There are very few things that can really be learned in college, and even less things that are helpful to us. Therefore, on the basis of learning this major well, we need to be bold, go out of school and learn something really helpful.
In this materialistic and talented society, it is too difficult to find a gold. So we should learn to sell ourselves proudly to others. In the future society, interpersonal communication is essential, so interpersonal communication ability is more important than anything else. When you have a problem, don't wait for others to help you, but take the initiative to meet some new classmates, which will be a valuable asset. If you have the opportunity, go to job fairs more, get to know more managers of your related majors, and ask for some business cards if possible. Send him a blessing on holidays. But be sure to indicate your name at the bottom. This will be very helpful for us to move towards society in the future. Make one more friend, and there will be one more way.
If you find that you have shortcomings, you must make up your mind to change yourself. Change yourself, see the ground is full of gold, don't change yourself, see the ground is full of trauma. If someone gives you a prism and a sphere to choose from, you can choose a sphere. Because it is round, you don't have to worry about poking your hand anywhere. As for the triangular pyramid, we can also change it. We can choose to hit it with a hammer. The same person's personality may not necessarily change, but extroversion can certainly change. A survey once showed that the probability of a person coming to this world is one in three hundred thousand. We were born a miracle. So why do we choose mediocrity and why do we choose to be looked down upon? This is our own choice. We don't want to make any great achievements in Beijing. We want to live our lives in a down-to-earth and proud manner. Even if our mission is always exploration, it is not mediocrity. And no matter what you decide to choose, don't regret it, or you will always live in complaints.
There was an eagle who lived with a group of chickens since he was a child. One day, the hen said to it, You are an eagle. It doesn't believe it at all. He can't prove himself. Another day, mother eagle saw it and said to it, You are an eagle. It still can't confirm itself. Until one day, the mother eagle held it in the air and let go of her mouth. His instinct made it flap its wings and it flew. This time, it confirmed that it was an eagle. It proudly waved its wings and circled over the chickens, telling them: I am an eagle. This story tells us that it is never too late to change yourself, as long as you act immediately. We have many opportunities and time to change ourselves. Start from small things, start from the side.
Eliminate interference and strengthen yourself. I believe I can succeed. Don't care what others think, just recognize yourself. Many people fail in the process of self-knowledge.