1. In the United States, even preschool children do something for their elders, such as taking shoes or sharing their snacks, the elders will thank their children. But China won't. He thinks this is right. Gratitude is the gratitude of the younger generation to the older generation.
2. China is paternalistic and dogmatic (including kindergartens and schools), stipulating that children should behave themselves in everything they do, and what they should and should not do. But it is often not explained and guided, which completely kills the child's personality. The United States is just the opposite: let children give full play to their respective personalities, and explain and guide what they should and should not do. This is very important for children to build self-confidence.
3. The children in China fell down while playing, basically crying and waiting for their parents or kindergarten teachers to help them up; Although American children are crying, they all get up by themselves, and parents or kindergarten teachers will not help. It is really "let the child get up where he fell."
4. China's children are four or five years old, and they are still fed by their parents, even chasing children who are eating and playing with bowls. Even if American children have not learned to walk, as long as they can grasp food with their hands, their parents will not feed it, but throw it all over the floor. Therefore, Chinese and American children of the same age are more independent than China children in this respect.