I often hate myself, too, because-too impatient! Especially in my position, impatience is really bad for many things! So I often think: if I can "think twice before acting", it would be great!
Every time I walk into the classroom (self-study in the morning or self-study in the evening), all I see are noisy students, and few people are studying by themselves. The nameless fire rises; The gentle facial lines suddenly tightened; The fist slammed on the door; There was a sudden silence in the classroom, and I shouted at the top of my lungs, "What do you want? ! ! ! ! ! What time is it now? ! ! ! ! XXX, where did your book go? ! ! ! .................................................................................................................................................................................., I calmed down. Began to regret ...
Regret getting angry in front of the whole class will alienate students. Students can only be quiet for a while, but they will form bad habits. Only when teachers pay close attention to them will they behave well. Once they go away, they will lose consciousness. ...
If I can "think twice before you act" and stand there quietly, they will naturally be quiet. After we calm down, we will go to the class Committee to find out the reasons and find countermeasures. This situation may be cured in the future. ..... How I wish I could "look before you leap"!
I regret criticizing a student in front of the whole class. That will hurt his self-esteem, even if he knows his mistake, he will not admit it, and he will also have resistance to me. Then I will lose the heart of this student, and it will be difficult to control him in the future.
If I can "think twice before you act", think of a way first, and then talk to him alone after class, let him tell his story, find his mistake, admit his mistake and promise to correct it, then he may not or will not make this mistake again! ..... I wish I could "think twice before you act"!
I keep repenting, expecting that I can "think twice before acting", but when I really encounter problems, it's still me! It took me a long time to truly understand the true power of the saying "A leopard cannot change its spots".
When I am free, I can't help thinking: If everyone in this world has patience and can "think twice before acting", what will this world look like?
Boys and girls in the impulsive period will consider the consequences of this love: parents' opposition, teachers' obstruction, academic retrogression … so love is gone. True love is impulsive. Can the relationship between men and women after "think twice before acting" be as good as before?
Young people entering the society will consider: what job has the greatest income, the least risk and the most stable income? So the impulse to start a business is less, the society is calm, and it will not go forward. A society where everyone "thinks twice before acting" is calm and still alive?
If everyone "thinks twice before acting", then everyone will not do anything wrong, and there will be no regrets, pain and other emotions. Can that person really feel the feeling of joy and happiness? It will make people lose a lot of rich life experience! Think about it this way, sometimes it is "think twice before you act"