As long as you can agree with yourself, even if everyone feels bad, you won't care, and your heart is happy.
For example, I bought a sweater, and my dad said it was too corny on the spot, but I insisted on buying it happily, and my dad paid for it happily. After returning home, my mother didn't feel very satisfied either, but I felt very good, calm and tolerant. Most colleagues can't appreciate it after seeing it, and some say; Why don't you buy a brighter one? But I don't care.
Occasionally, people say that my new sweater looks good, and it will look better without a suit. I am very happy and feel like a bosom friend.
Time always flows. Leave a relatively successful or failed result. As for whether I am relatively successful or unsuccessful in some things, it is determined by my comprehensive quality. So I think, really, sometimes, it seems like fate (maybe not accurate). I think, only by doing what you like and agree with, people will be in a better mood, will have fighting spirit, perseverance and dedication as much as possible, and will not care about the result. Only in this way can we feel at ease and have no regrets.
Maybe others don't understand, but everyone is different and has their own personality. Should be independent