Love after first love is substitution. Love after the first love is always beautiful. Many people can't forget their first love. The feeling of first love is still fresh in my memory. Share the love after the first love with you.
Love substitution after first love 1. Otherwise, everyone is unique. If two people can't be together in the end, it can only be said that you are not suitable ... Maybe she is not the right person. People should have confidence. There is only one you in this world, and no one can replace anyone, let alone who is willing to replace anyone.
Why is first love always irreplaceable?
First love usually refers to a person's first love experience or the first love object in life. Perhaps because of this, as the first love that evokes the initial emotional ripple, it always seems irreplaceable in your life. "irreplaceable", these four words are enough to highlight its high status.
As one of the eternal themes of human development, scientists have never stopped studying the phenomenon of love. We may be able to explain psychologically why first love makes people feel irreplaceable.
In a memory experiment, Genik, a Soviet psychologist, once found that people's impression of what has been done is far less impressive than that of what has not been processed. Therefore, it is hard for people to forget their Bai Yueguang. In fact, it is hard to forget their fruitless first love.
The Frontier of Human Neuroscience published an academic paper entitled "Brain Changes Caused by Love", to the effect that positive and romantic love will have a certain impact on our brains.
First love, as the first love people experience, is likely to affect your later emotional experience, which is why people can always find the shadow of first love in their present position.
According to the survey, people's first love mostly occurs between the ages of 13 and 17, including junior high school and senior high school, and each stage presents different characteristics. With the psychological and physical maturity, teenagers begin to pay attention to and approach the opposite sex, and the consciousness of first love begins to sprout.
Compared with the more secular and material love of adults, the first love in adolescence is more inclined to the love between mind and soul, pure and pure. Youth is unforgettable, not to mention the first love full of innocence and ideals.
The film Falling in Love with Dust shows the beauty and irreplaceable of first love.
The film tells the story of Ayun and Ayuan, two childhood friends, flatly and slowly. They went to school together and attended classes together. Ayuan, the hero, will naturally help Ayun solve the math problem, take the heavy rice bag in her hand and meet her at the chaotic railway station. In "Seeds of Love", the heroine Ayun will take care of the sick Ayuan, cut him suitable new clothes and give him his own brand of underwear (this behavior means a commitment to each other).
After the train slowly passed through the tracks and mountains, Ayuan, who had already started military service, beat his bed in the army dormitory and cried, because his Ayun finally married the postman who delivered letters for them. At the end of the film, the hero, A Yuan, returned to his hometown wearing the clothes that A Yun gave him, and listened to his grandfather's life story of "sweet potato". Ayun has married far away, but Ayuan obviously hasn't.
It is precisely because the first love happened in the special period of adolescence that it is unreal and fragile. The first love that can finish the long-distance running of love and finally enter the marriage hall is rare. Many people's first love ended in vain, and the first love object became their Bai Yueguang.
Love is endless pain until I'm sure you love me, too.
Few people have only one love experience in their life. Bai Yueguang's first love is more special than "irreplaceable". As their companions from ignorance to maturity, they can be said to be the people who taught themselves the first dance, which naturally has irreplaceable special significance for us.
Those who always miss their first love usually don't meet better people. If you can go to the end with your first love, accept the blessings of those around you; And if you don't meet your first love, you should treat it with a more sincere and warm attitude when you meet other lovers in the future, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.
After the first love, love will always be the substitute of 2 0 1. Why is first love always impressive?
In empirical research, it is difficult to define "first love" accurately in concept and method.
With the changes of the times, people have more and more understanding of first love and more and more clear understanding of romantic relationship.
Romantic relationship is characterized by paying for the happiness of the lover and gradually establishing feelings of intimacy, sex, exclusiveness, acceptance, respect, understanding, truthfulness, trust and enjoyment.
The definition of first love is a deeper relationship than the "short, passionate and shy love" called "unrequited love".
First love is always related to youth. In many cultures, the average age of first love is between 13 and 17. And youth makes this experience more profound and unique.
There are many important differences between first love and ordinary romantic love. First love is more likely to be unique and perfect, emphasizing being together, sharing and communicating. The characteristics of first love are idealism, innocence, empathy, joint participation, looking forward to the future, and longing for the lover to be with you all the time.
02. Will the first love affect the intimate relationship afterwards?
The benefits of being in love may be more than just the feeling of a racing heart.
The researchers compared the brain activity patterns of people in love with those after lovelorn.
The results show that love may affect the functional structure of the areas related to romantic love in the brain. Although this kind of research is still in the primary stage, this discovery raises the possibility that the experience of first love laid the foundation for the later love relationship, and on the physiological basis, it may affect the future intimate relationship by affecting the way the brain handles love-related emotions and behaviors.
Unlike mature romantic relationships, first love often ends with the growth of both parties. Studies show that when people no longer look at their partners in the original way, can't seek common ground while reserving differences, or the contradictions intensify to irreconcilable levels, they are likely to stop loving each other.
In mature love, not falling in love may be because it violates the necessary qualities in a love relationship, such as deception, concealment, disrespect, sexual or emotional infidelity. These signs mean that one or both parties have "changed their minds", or the relationship between them is no longer appropriate. This kind of breakup caused by betrayal will make the injured party hostile or painful.
First love is different, because young people will grow up with each other, and the object of first love will have new interests, abilities and wishes. If the relationship breaks down because of growth, there is no reason to have such a deep resentment.
The first love of adolescence is always shrouded in innocence and idealism. In our hearts, there is always a corner that is the first love. When I accidentally looked up and saw Venus, I bowed my head and recalled what it was like to be in love.
We also know that with the growth of each other, young lovers will no longer meet our new needs. But once that person was so attractive to us, at least at that moment, our hearts beat for each other.
If you are lucky enough to be with your first love, I wish you this uniqueness; If you finally part ways with your first love, don't dwell too much on the past, bless each other and look forward.
Just like Grandpa said in "Heart Beating", "Some people are superficial, and some people are happy ever after. One day you will meet someone as gorgeous as a rainbow. When you meet this person, you will feel that others are just clouds. "
After the first love, love replaced the greatness of the world. Looking around, some people can find the love of their lives as long as they meet one person. With her, others are just so in his eyes. However, some people are unlucky enough. They loved many people, but failed to find the love of their lives.
There are also men who show that even if they have a girlfriend, they still can't forget their original' unrequited love', perhaps because they regret that they didn't have the courage to express themselves, or perhaps they regret that they didn't fall in love with her vigorously.
In the lyrics of singer Eason Chan's "Red Rose": "Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are optimistic are fearless." This lyric tells the psychological state of most people in love.
In love, many people will have regrets when they are young, and this regret will accompany them all their lives, so will it always be turbulent if they can't get it? Are there many people in life who think that what they can't get is the best?
Many men still can't forget their "first love" after having a girlfriend. The "first love" here refers to Bai Yueguang in their hearts, not only the object of their first love, but also the first person they like but can't be together.
No matter how many people they will love in the future, "first love" occupies a very important position in their hearts.
However, this series of behaviors will make the wife very sad, which will always cause a quarrel between the two.
The netizen's narrative also proves that "what you can't get is always in turmoil." Her husband will always keep that purity and beauty because he has never lived with his "first love". If he had lived together and experienced family training, maybe her husband would have changed.
A talented woman, Zhang Ailing, once wrote in Red Rose and White Rose:
For men, when they love each other, they will love each other so much that they want to give everything for each other. The other person is spoiled and can hide.
But if someone who loves you more or attracts you more appears, then they will transfer their love. This is why some men love many women.
A person's life is short, and it is not easy to find the love of his life among thousands of people. Therefore, some people love many people, but they can't find the love of their lives because of insufficient fate or early arrival.
Everyone wants to find a person who suits his soul. Some people meet our external requirements, but their internal requirements are not up to standard. Others meet their internal requirements, but the external conditions are not up to standard.
So there will always be people looking for true love and people to spend their lives with in this vast sea of people.
Follow your heart and do whatever you want.
No matter how many women you have loved, as long as you can treat every relationship sincerely, be worthy of the person you love and the person who loves yourself, it is a normal life. Don't be ashamed or complacent because you haven't loved one person or a few people.
Follow your heart, do what you think is right, strive for your feelings, and do what you want.
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