Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Renyi Hu tong

Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.

Legend of Liuchi Lane

During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.

Peng measures magnanimity.

More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. Manager Peng immediately told him to go back to the Great Xia, knowing that he was in trouble. He's scared. He was deeply moved to see Peng Zong's indifference. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"

Passenger's "caring person"

Li Suli is the conductor of Bus No.21of Beijing Public Transport Corporation. For more than ten years, she has been warm and considerate to the passengers, thinking for them everywhere, and building a bridge of mutual understanding with her true feelings, which is called "caring person" by the passengers. She has made extraordinary contributions in ordinary posts. He has been rated as "National Excellent Conductor", "National Professional Ethics Model" and "National Excellent Young Post Expert".

Dickens, a former child laborer.

Dickens, a famous British writer, was born in a poor family of clerks, had no formal education and worked as a child laborer. His works include A Tale of Pickwick, Oliver Twist, American Notes, Dombey and Son, Bleak House, A Difficult World, A Tale of Two Cities and david copperfield. David copperfield, in particular, is autobiographical. Through the experience of the orphan David, it exposes the hypocrisy, selfishness and ruthlessness of the bourgeoisie and expresses deep sympathy for the misfortunes of the poor and child laborers. Only by living an ordinary life like him can we have such a profound life experience.

Ordinary life, extraordinary achievements

Whitman,/kloc-an outstanding American poet in the 0/9th century, dropped out of school in his early years and worked as a carpenter, compositor, teacher and nurse. He wrote many poems in his life. Among them, the main collection of poems, Leaves of Grass, contains nearly 400 poems. Among the famous poems are Song of Cowards, Wounded at a Friend's House, My own Song, Europa and Ah! Captain! My captain! "oh! Star of France! " "Mysterious Trumpeter" and so on. Another group of poems, Ya Gu Ji, etc. His creation has made extraordinary contributions to the development of European and American poetry.