Impetuousness is an evil force deeply rooted in people's minds. While leading people away from success, they are also casting a tombstone composed of regrets. Here, impetuousness is the epitaph of losers.
Impetuous people are shaped like bamboo shoots in the mountains-sharp mouth, thick skin and empty stomach. To change this image and destiny, only remember that "haste makes waste".
Regrettably, countless talents who could have made great achievements throughout the ages have been destroyed by their demons.
Because of impetuousness, Guan Yunchang was on cloud nine just because of a few compliments from others. The reckless Northern Expedition left a good opportunity for Wudong people and eventually trapped Maicheng. Because of impetuosity, China staged the tragedy of "Great Leap Forward" in 1960s. Because of impetuosity, there are unhealthy tendencies of utilitarianism and business speculation among the new writers in China, which add too much decadence to the already declining China literature.
All of the above, under the impetuous control, the eyes are blinded, the mind is distorted, everything deviates from the proper track, and even goes to the bottomless epic.
On the other hand, Confucius, Wang Xizhi, who visited my body three times a day, and Tang Taizong, who had an empty heart to be trained, all overcame their impetuous heart and hid their impetuous spirit, so success seemed so simple.
Don't worry or be impatient. It may seem that Nian takes more time than impetuous people, but if Nian does the opposite, the price will be unimaginable pain. The so-called "sharpening the knife does not mistake the woodcutter" and the so-called "a fisherman in the forest is better than quitting the net" are clear explanations of this truth.
To overcome the impetuous heart, we need four magic weapons in hand, namely, firm and clear goals, broad-mindedness beyond things, courage to stick to loneliness and perseverance to forge ahead.
A firm and clear goal is to get rid of the impetuous lighthouse. Looking at this lighthouse, you will not be shaken by the impetuousness of people around you. For example, Tao Yuanming, who sticks to his life ambition, will not be polluted by the vulgarity of seeking fame.
Transcending the broad-mindedness of things is the cornerstone to avoid impetuousness. With this cornerstone, Zhuangzi will not fall into a swamp in the materialistic era, and can enjoy its chic with the wisdom of not being too eager to fire.
The courage to stick to loneliness is to avoid impetuous walls. Under the protection of this city wall, no matter how impetuous the spirit attacks Nian's mind, Nian can follow his own path and walk at an appropriate pace. Like Ruan Ji, he sticks to a lonely life. Surrounded by this loneliness, he is quite different from that group of impetuous and noisy laity.
The perseverance of pioneering and enterprising is the wing to avoid impetuousness. Only by enriching your insatiable mind with one site after another can you shut out the impetuous wind; Only by constantly pioneering and enterprising can we be satisfied with the seemingly slow but just right pace of progress.
Friends who are still impetuous on the road of life, give up impetuous, calm down, unload the burden of the soul and let go to meet our joy. ?
Refuse to be impetuous
It is Walden Lake that yearns for Thoreau, which is a kind of tranquility and nature away from the hubbub. As a result, Walden Lake has gradually evolved into a state of mind that is not tempted by fame and fortune, a kind of green that will always make your spiritual garden lush and always warn yourself to refuse impetuousness.
A Titanic made the original Cameron, but when overwhelming honor and great fame fell on the young director, he suddenly fell into hibernation and released Avatar, which caused a sensation all over the world with decades of planning.
In today's impetuous society, Cameron's wisdom is an inspiration. Those young female writers, when they saw a beggar chatting about Zen on their way off work, hurried home to write essays and rushed to contribute within a week. Professors in those colleges and universities are busy reporting topics and putting a final stop to the final report. Art college graduates in galleries can finish painting a painting in one day, but they can't sell it in a year. At this time, please think about Cameron's wisdom.
Most works inspired by generate in a hurry will only be like a flash in the pan. Only by putting your mind in the quiet lake, shutting out impetuousness and having no distractions can you make your dreams more and more full and finally blossom gorgeous flowers.
Rejecting impetuousness is not only a personal development view, but also a social development view. From the "famous" hematologic cancer village to the barren hills where nothing grows, there are too many bloody realities in front of us, urging people to refuse impetuousness and quick success, and build a beautiful society with pure and peaceful hearts.
Rejecting impetuousness is not to deprive people of their dreams, but to face it with a down-to-earth attitude and a calm heart. Rejecting impetuousness is a self-sustaining attitude towards life and a mind that pursues the tranquility of Walden Lake.
Rejecting impetuousness, modern writer Lu Yao locked himself in a coal kiln for several years, cultivated his spiritual home in loneliness and created "Ordinary World"; Rejecting impetuousness, van Gogh, a Dutch painter, devoted his lonely life to passionate artistic creation and eventually forged into an awesome great artist.
The small ones are hidden in the mountains, and the big ones are hidden in the city. If we can reject impetuousness and yearn for green, our mood will become more ethereal and our spirit will be more detached.
"I just know that it is better to sing freely in the forest than to listen to the golden cage." In the face of the noise of the world, reserved people always maintain a noble alienation, quiet and pleasant, and always refuse to be impetuous and become a green landscape.
Refuse to be impetuous
Mania is an epidemic of modern people because people think that life is short and things are complicated. As a passer-by, it is meaningful to live nervously and clearly. However, this kind of understanding can only be self-righteous, in fact, it is completely confused. Floating people have a weak foundation; People who are impatient are impatient. Impetuous people, because their beliefs about life are not clear, do not understand the true meaning of life, even if they are busy all day, they are actually puzzling. In essence, impetuousness is a state of life at a loss. ?
Some people use the word "impetuous" to summarize today's mentality. When you think about it, you really hit the nail on the head. Have you noticed how much truth, goodness and beauty in the world are despised by impetuous people, how many values are misplaced by impetuous people, and how many clear and pure hearts are indifferent by impetuous people? Impetuousness, an abominable thing, makes many people unable to hold back their vanity and interests, makes life lose its foundation, makes people's passion degenerate, makes their emotions gaffe and lacks the pursuit of beauty. We can't bid farewell to material poverty while moving towards spiritual poverty. Therefore, while building a material home, we must pay attention to building a spiritual home in order to achieve the balance and harmony between material and spirit. In the reality of the world of mortals and materialistic desires, people must reject impetuousness, examine their true nature, guard their spirit internally, advocate civilization, and give their hearts a harmonious and moist green space.
To reject impetuousness, we must do three things: first, rely on the determination of righteousness. Righteousness comes from the right heart, which has certain strength. With this determination, you will not be anxious, distracted or even exhausted in the face of economic transition, social transformation, fierce competition and information explosion, and in the face of many temptations. No matter how big the storm is, no matter how tempting it is, as long as you are not distracted, you will always be ambitious, indifferent to fame and fortune, bear the burden of humiliation and stay away from impetuousness. Second, rely on self-cultivation. This is a kind of temperament, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of realm, and also one of the eastern wisdom. Zhuge Liang's Book of Commandments said: "A gentleman's trip is to cultivate himself by meditation and thrift. If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will be far away. " This is a famous sentence that Zhuge Liang inspired future generations. Every time I read it, it is always thought-provoking. In a tense time and space, in the face of tangible and intangible pressure, calming down can make you clear-headed, far-sighted, learn the subtlety of heaven and earth, observe the laws of all things, grasp the general trend, and "take precautions and win thousands of miles away." Third, knowledge support. Knowledge is the most powerful weapon to overcome ignorance and the cradle of self-cultivation. No matter how busy you are, you should "recharge your batteries" in time, spare time, squeeze out time and read more. The more knowledgeable people are, the broader their horizons are, the more confident they are in doing things, and their backbone remains unchanged. The more you read, the more knowledgeable you are, and the more elegant your temperament is. Those who are "self-satisfied" despise vulgarity and resist temptation. "Learning Buddhism" is the key to rejecting impetuous, clean and quiet life.
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