(1) Introduction
Celebrities have suffered a lot since ancient times. Celebrities become celebrities, mostly through the hardships of adversity. In the face of adversity, they don't complain, and they don't sigh; Grit your teeth and fight hard, overcome adversity with indomitable spirit of struggle and become a winner.
We should all face adversity bravely, use it to temper our wings and finally make ourselves successful.
(2) factual arguments
Su Shi, who had an eventful life.
Su Shi was a famous writer, painter and calligrapher in Song Dynasty. He was accused by some "reformists" at that time of "mocking political affairs" and "having ulterior motives", and was arrested and tried, almost losing his life. History is called "Wutai Poetry Case". After exile in Huangzhou. 1085, Song Shenzong died, Zhezong succeeded to the throne, and the empress dowager was the regent. Empress Dowager Gao was dissatisfied with the new law and immediately used the old party summons. Sima Guang and others were also in power, and Su Shi was transferred back to Beijing as a Scheeren, with a bachelor's degree in Hanlin and a patent in Zhi Zhi, Ren Zhongshu. Later, there was a disagreement with the old party. He attacked the corruption exposed after the old Party came to power, which aroused strong opposition from conservative forces and was falsely accused and framed. 1089, Su Dongpo was once again demoted to Beijing and became the magistrate of Hangzhou. 1093, the Empress Dowager died, Zhezong came to power, the reformists were recalled to the imperial palace, and the political situation changed dramatically. In June of the following year, Su Dongpo was further demoted, and was demoted as the deputy envoy of Ningyuan Army, and settled in Huizhou (now Huiyang, Guangdong). Living in exile in his later years. This is another heavy blow to Su Dongpo. On July 26th, A.D. 1 1, the 66-year-old man finally passed away with grief and indignation, ending his ill-fated life.
Many of Su Shi's masterpieces were written when he was demoted. Such as: nuwa word? In Chibi, the essays before and after Gu Yan Collection, Biography of Fangshan Zi, Night Tour in Chengtian Temple and Fu on Chibi.
Bakenko, life is rough.
On August 2 1850 and 2 1 day, at Balcon's funeral, Hugo wrote the following words: "Among the great figures, Balcon is the greatest one; Among these outstanding figures, Balconk is the best. ... what a pity! This strong and never-ending philosopher, thinker, poet and talented writer. Among us, he has lived a life of ups and downs, and met fierce struggles and misfortunes that great men of any era have encountered. Now, he is gone. He walked out of confusion and pain. "
Yes, Balzac had a rough life. Lack of maternal love since childhood. His family and mother are indifferent to him, and he seems to be a superfluous person in the family. Balzac later recalled this life and said angrily, "I never knew what maternal love was." "I experienced the most terrible childhood in my life."
When I grow up, I am determined to engage in simple literary creation. Be a "king of literature". I have been writing at my desk in the attic all day since the summer of 18 19. The attic is just around the corner. His residence is very shabby. It is hot in summer and cold in winter. He has no day, no night, no entertainment, and always keeps writing. As a result, I was cheated in the process of dealing with booksellers and was heavily in debt. The debt is as high as 65438+ ten thousand francs. He moved six times to avoid debt. He said to his friend, "I often worry about bread, candles and paper." Creditors persecuted me like rabbits. I often run around like a rabbit. "
Bakenke, a diligent writer all his life, often works continuously 18 hours. In less than 20 years, he wrote 9 1 novels. He has a wide influence in the world, but he has spent his life in poverty and pain. He once summed himself up in one sentence: "All my life's labor was spent in pain and poverty. Often not understood. "
Cervantes in trouble
Cervantes,/kloc-a famous Spanish writer in the 6th century. His masterpiece Don Quixote is popular all over the world. Known as an immortal work.
Cervantes suffered a lot in his life. He was born into a declining noble and poor family. He went out with his father to make a living since he was a child. Joined the army at the age of 22, and in the naval battle with Turkey, his left hand was disabled. Later, he was captured by pirates and sold to Algeria as a slave. He went through a lot of hardships. After being released by his parents, he worked as a quartermaster in the navy and was unjustly imprisoned. At that time, a family of seven people lived a life of hunger and cold. In this predicament, he wrote a number of influential works such as Don Quixote, Numancia, The Story of Punishing Evil and Promoting Good, Galatia, Bahners's Travels, eight new comedies and eight new inter-act farce.
(3) Theoretical argumentation
Talent is honed.
Cai e
The knife is grinding on the stone, the knife is getting faster and faster, and Shi Yue is getting thinner and thinner.
The two sides of Mao Dun's problem
Nothing in the world can be done overnight.
Zou Taofen
Only real gold is not afraid of fire, and it can be turned into pure gold after some exercise.
Xu Teli's Wish for the Birth of Science Park
Literati cultivated in an environment of hard struggle are always stronger than those who grew up in a warm and pleasant environment.
Yu Dafu's The Poet's Poverty
Things cultivated in the greenhouse will not have strong vitality.
Mao Zedong's Theory on Correctly Handling Contradictions among the People
Struggle in the most difficult situation and never dream of "satisfaction"
Zheng Zhenduo's The Last Lesson
Difficulties can not only temper our will, but also exercise our bodies.
Xie Juezai's How Young People Exercise themselves.
Difficulties make heroes.
Xu Teli's "Hope in Memory of the May 4th Youth"
If you don't sharpen the sharp knife, it will rust and your chest will camel.
Preface to Wen Yiduo's Collection of Wind in Southwest China
There is no freedom if you covet stability, and you always have to go through some dangers if you want freedom.
Lu Xun's "the same tune"
It is only an illusion that we will always be smooth sailing and easy to succeed without going through difficulties and twists and turns and making great efforts.
Mao Zedong's view on correctly handling contradictions among the people.
Adversity makes people struggle.
Tao Xingzhi on the Construction of Normal Education in China
Iron is tougher after being tempered.
Wen Yiduo's Viewing Chinese and Western Styles from Religion
Although it is hard, it is difficult to blow out crazy sand when it is not golden.
Don? Liu Yuxi's Langtaosha
Without fire, are you familiar with the essence of gold?
Don? Meng Jiao "ancient meaning for Liang Su to fill the vacancy"
It's not frozen, how can plum blossoms smell?
Ming? Feng Menglong's Awakening the World
There are natural brave people in the world, all of whom are trained.
Mao Dun, erosion? seek
The ancients became great entrepreneurs, all from the beginning of suffering.
Qing? A gift from Ada.
Failure is a step towards success.
Cloud's How to Build Young People in China
Grinding is a good thing, no songs and no satellites.
Qing? Cui Nianling's broken sentences
The successful history of any career is bound to have a sad history.
Zou Taofen's Ability and Action
When you are poor, you will gain strength.
Song? Ouyang Xiu's "Send Huang Tong and Yun Xiang"
Worry increases wisdom, and difficulties make you successful.
Guo Moruo's "Four Southern Poems"
Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, and leisure can die.
Song? Preface to Ouyang Xiu's Biography of Shi Ling Guan in Five Dynasties
How can we learn from the past without suffering?
Qing? Cao Duan's Home
Bitterness is the price of sweetness.
Xie Juezai's view on "sharing weal and woe"
The greater the ability, the less difficult it is.
Hui Daiying, "Come to Hong to Roadshow?" A letter to the tiger.
Setbacks and tribulations are good opportunities to exercise will, growth speed and ability.
Zou Taofen's irrelevant hat
The stronger the will, the stronger it becomes. Faith is getting stronger and stronger.
Mao Dun's The Future of Creation
Hard iron is not refined into steel, and beautiful jade is not solidified and refined.
Master Hongyi's Cold Collection
Hunger has been a strange strategy since ancient times.
Kim. Yuan Haowen's Collection of Mr. Yishan? Daughter Hill avoids soldiers.
In this world, people will encounter difficulties.
Old Testament? Job
Fire makes real gold; Adversity tests the strong.
[Ancient Rome] Seneca's On the Will of God
It's not a bad thing to become smart through suffering.
[Ancient Greece] Aeschylus "The God of Revenge"
Suffering has tempered some people and destroyed others.
Fuller's words of wisdom
Misfortune may be a bridge to happiness.
Japanese proverb
People should make their appearance change with each passing day, and stand the exercise of any struggle like hard and tough metal.
[Russia] Leskov's Father in the Lobby
Iron has become harder after refining.
Gorky's Italian Fairy Tales
People have to go through some hardships to become talents.
Finnish proverb
Exercise when you are young is more valuable than yellow.
Korean proverb
As a human being, the sky will drop to a great post, so we must first suffer from its mind, its bones and muscles, its body and skin, its body empty, and its behavior chaotic, so we must be patient and gain something but not do it.
"Mencius? Gaozixia "
Traditional virtue-frugality
(1) Introduction
There is no doubt that human society is always developing, material life is getting richer and richer, and people's lifestyle and consumption concept are also changing. However, this is not contradictory to the introduction of thrift. Thrift is to cherish the limited resources of human beings and the fruits of human labor, and to absorb the spirit of hard struggle from the fine traditions of our ancestors.
(2) factual arguments
Mao Zedong's frugal life
The TV documentary "Mao Zedong" shows a scene in which a health care doctor in Mao Zedong picked up a towel and blanket used by Mao Zedong before his death, which was covered with patches. He said that he had repeatedly suggested replacing the new main flag, but all of them were rejected. This is a portrayal of Mao Zedong's real life. When Mao Zedong was in Yan 'an, an old military uniform was washed white with 16 patches. His old slippers, with holes in the soles and wired uppers, have been mended and are still being worn.
He once said: "I can afford towels and blankets, but I can't afford to lose the hard-working spirit of the producers."
Xu Teli's chalk poems
Xu Teli, word teacher Tao, is from Changsha, Hunan. Proletarian revolutionist and educator. There is an anthology of Xu Teli's handed down education. He pays attention to moral cultivation and lives frugally. When he was the principal of Hunan No.1 Women's Normal School, he wrote a poem "Chalk Poetry", copied it on the blackboard and published it on campus:
Half chalk should be cherished, and public property should be cherished forever.
The students don't understand Yu Zhongqu, but they think Yu is a good man.
When he visits the whole school every day, he always picks up the discarded chalk heads and puts them in his pocket for his own class. In the years of Hunan No.1 Women's Normal School (also known as Paddy Field Normal School), he hardly used a new piece of chalk. Some students don't understand, but think he is too stingy. So Xu Teli wrote poems to educate students.
Feng Yuxiang praised Tong.
Feng Yuxiang, a native of Chao County, Anhui Province. Born in the military, he has served as commander and division commander of Beiyang Army, overseer of southern Shaanxi, commander-in-chief of the national army, commander-in-chief of the second Kuomintang army, and foreman of the military commission of the Kuomintang government. Although he is in a high position, he leads a simple life.
1932 to 10, from Taishan, Shandong to Zhangjiakou, to find his old subordinate (Tong was then the police chief of Chahar Province and the public security chief of Zhangjiakou) to discuss the organization of the anti-Japanese Coalition forces. Because of Feng's sudden arrival, Mrs Tong was unprepared and asked how to receive Feng Yuxiang. Tong Gelin said, "It's still the same as the old millet noodles. We'll treat him with more radishes and pickles." Feng Yuxiang eats very well. Praise the child and say, "You are really my good subordinate. You haven't lost your true colors as a farmer when you become a big official.
Lenin's coat
Vladimir? Ilych? Lenin, a Russian, is the mentor and leader of the world proletarian revolution. Simplicity accompanied his legendary life. He was often seen wearing a faded old coat at that time. There are three bullet holes in this coat.
19 18, Lenin wore this old coat to give a speech at the factory. He was assassinated by opposition forces, leaving three bullet holes in his coat. He refused to change his new coat after leaving the hospital, and patched up his old coat before wearing it until he died in June 1924+0.
His motto is: "Save every penny for the socialist revolution and construction."
(3) Theoretical argumentation
A porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think, and it is difficult to think.
Qing? Zhu Bailu's housemaster motto
Anyone who can't be frugal with himself takes it from others.
Qing? Words in Wei's Catalogue
Be famous for thrift and lose your virginity for luxury.
Song? Sima Guang's "frugality to show health"
Thrift is enough, frugality is scarce, frugality can get married and frugality can be established.
The fusion of ancient and modern books? family pattern
Diligence is a cash cow and frugality is a cornucopia.
A collection of ancient and modern couplets Rural alliance
Everything is frugal, making a living is easy; If it is easy to make a living, there will be no struggle for others and no demand for others.
Qing? Qian Yong's Lu Yuan Cong Hua? thrifty
Those who are frugal at the end use enough, and those who are light at the end are safe.
Song? Lin Bu's "Peace of Mind"
Virtue comes from thrift.
Song? Sima Guang's "frugality to show health"
Work diligently for the country and frugally for the family.
"History? Yu Shu? Da Mo Yu
Frugality can help others with few camps, and frugality can help others with good deeds.
The fusion of ancient and modern books? family pattern
Thrift is respect for virtue, and luxury is the greatest evil.
"Zhou Shu? Biography of Wei Xiaokuan
For the sake of politics, this is fair and clear. The way to get married is thrift and thrift.
Song? Lin Bu's "Peace of Mind"
Benevolence is generous, and frugality is enough.
Sub-appraisal volume 89
Jin Jixi
Thrift is the promise, and promise is the prosperity of all virtues; Luxury is arrogance, and arrogance is evil.
Qing? Jin Ying, "Is the motto a link?" Take the bow
It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal.
Song? Sima Guang's "frugality to show health"
Look down, I'd rather be frugal with less.
Master Hongyi's "Apologism Not Recorded"
Only thrift can cherish happiness, and thrift can keep honesty.
Qing? Qian Yong's Lu Yuan Cong Hua? Mr. An An "
Only frugality and morality have diverted people's hearts.
"Tong Mingjian" Volume 6, Taizu language.
Frugality and simplicity are human virtues; Luxury and luxury are the great evils of human beings.
Ming? Xue Xuan's Reading Record Volume 7
Lazy and extravagant people are poor, and thrifty people are rich.
"pipe? Solution to the situation "
It is better to save money than to ask more questions.
Song? Sima Guang's "Word Recruitment"
Corruption and waste are great sins.
Mao Zedong is our economic policy.
Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay overnight.
Qing? Zhu Bailu's housemaster motto
The harm of debauchery is greater than poison.
Tong Ming Wu, in Taizu.
Thrift is the source of happiness, and luxury is the omen of poverty.
Shu Wei Volume 62 Biography of Li Biao Gao Daoyue
Thrift leads to less desire, while luxury leads to more desire.
Song? Sima Guang's "frugality to show health"
Save money to prevent disaster.
"Once"? Su Zongxiao's Zhang Di Ji
Thrift, virtue * * * also; Waste is a great evil.
Zuozhuan? In twenty-four years, Zhuang Gong quoted an old saying.
The disadvantage of frugality in customization is luxury.
Song? Wang Anshi's custom
Clothes are not extravagant, but you can't get tired of eating vegetables.
Song? Epitaph of Wang Anshi, Taijun, Chang 'an County
Without thrift, people are not considered to be good.
Hey? Wangtong, Wenzhong? Guanlang
Live within your means.
Book of rites? Wang Zhi
A rich life can be frugal, and a rich life can be poor.
Jin Shu? Lu Yun Shu
People don't understand what big income thrift is.
[Ancient Greece] Cicero's Strange Stories of Stoicism
The sky is also very frugal, so put out the lights and candles together.
Shakespeare and Macbeth.
It is more appropriate to reduce sporadic expenses than to grovel for petty profits.
Bacon is spending.
No one can be rich without thrift; Thrifty people seldom suffer from poverty.
Johnson is a rambler.
Savings equals considerable income.
[Netherlands] Erasmus's Dialogue
Thrift is a reliable guardian of our virtues.
Brahmin proverb
I am really rich, because my income is greater than my expenditure and my desires are equal.
Gibbon's memoirs
Diligence can make money, and thrift can make money.
Chinese proverb
Diligence is the gold on the hoe; Thrift is silver in a rice jar.
Chinese proverb
Thrift is the art of making full use of life, and advocating thrift is the basis of all virtues.
Bernard Shaw's revolutionary motto
Diligence is like mud, and waste is like water rushing to the embankment.
Chinese proverb
Frugal, waterless, diligent, waterless.
Chinese proverb
He who spends the least is the richest.
The Diary of Thoreau 1856 March 1 1
There are two kinds of people in the world: those who are frugal as if they want to live forever, and those who are profligate as if they will die the next day.
[Ancient Greece] Aristotle, quoted from diogenes? Larsho's Notes on the Words and Actions of Famous Philosophers
It's not worthwhile to increase production, and the golden bowl is broken.
Chinese proverb
Diligence and thrift, Man Cang is extravagant and wasteful.
Chinese proverb
Greed is the enemy of thrift, not profligacy.
Laroche Foucault's Proverbs
Look at the countries and families of sages before, and you can go from frugality to luxury.
Don? Li Shangyin's epic poems
Diligence and thrift, no laziness and no lack.
Yuefu poetry? Song of Music and Dance in the Temple of Liang Tai.
Luxury is not extravagant, frugality is not shabby.
Han? Zhang Heng's Xijing Fu
To start a business, we must be diligent and thrifty.
Chinese proverb
There are fertile fields and rocks at home, but we also have to eat simple meals.
Chinese proverb
A drop of water, a drop of oil, don't let a drop flow away in vain.
Chinese proverb
A porridge and a meal are all hard work, and half a silk should be saved.
Chinese proverb
1。 Gain and loss coexist
We are always afraid of losing things, because we think losing things means bad things, and we have nothing. Others always say, "You don't know how to cherish until you lose it. Although you lost it, didn't it make you learn to cherish it? " So, in my opinion, gains and losses coexist.
An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. According to legend, Sai Weng has an excellent white horse. One day, the horse disappeared. Neighbors came to comfort him, and Sai Weng said, "It's not necessarily a bad thing to lose the horse." A few days later, the horse not only came back, but also brought a good horse outside the Great Wall. Neighbors came to congratulate Sai Weng, but Sai Weng said, "This may not be a good thing." A few days later, Sai Weng's son fell off his horse and broke his leg. The neighborhood came to comfort Sai Weng again. Sai Weng said, "This is not necessarily a bad thing!" " "A week later, the country joined the army to fight, and Sai Weng's son stayed because of leg problems, so as not to die in battle. Sai Weng treats things with gains and losses, and loss is not necessarily a bad thing in his view. Losing doesn't necessarily mean being sad, and getting it doesn't necessarily mean being too happy. Because the two coexist.
Isn't it the same with things around us? In the face of poor performance, there is no glory of certificate, but there is an opportunity to reflect; Facing the person who hurts you, although there is no love, it makes us stronger; Facing the difficult high school life, without comfortable environment and delicious food, we learned to be independent. Is all this wrong and gain and loss? In the face of life, we have to throw away the traces we have found, such as the small oasis in the desert, but it has always supported us.
What should I do if I lose what I am looking for, and what should I do if I get it?
Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, was complacent after making great achievements. I think my job is very high in the world. He didn't listen to his father's advice, missed three opportunities to kill Liu Bang, and finally ended up committing suicide in Wujiang River. At the same time, he lost his ambition to be a man and the love of others. Therefore, to prevent and control losses, he must "learn from his reputation", find losses from his gains, constantly improve himself and renew himself.
So, the next time you lose it, don't cry, because you have to wait by your side, don't complain, because the gain and loss are between thoughts.
If you get it, don't be complacent, because the loss may be approaching you unconsciously.
Remember, there are gains and losses, and gains and losses coexist.
2。 A good life comes from hard work.
We have too many feelings about life and too many words to describe it, because life is really too broad a concept and too colorful. If life can only be summed up in one sentence, maybe I will choose that famous saying: life is a mirror, and if you smile at it, it will also smile; If you cry at it, it will cry too. Throughout the ages, people with lofty ideals have a common feature-courage to struggle and never give up.
Since the birth of human beings, sports has been a part of life, challenging ourselves and nature. The word "struggle" can be interpreted when athletes fight bravely on the runway and on the field. It is because of this belief that the following touching moments were born: in the table tennis team competition between China and South Korea, Liu broke his opponent's five match points and reversed Gan Kun; Bayern Munich competed for the Bundesliga title and finally sealed the victory with 10 second; After Zhang Jun/Gao Jun fought to the death in the mixed doubles of badminton in the Olympic Games, a big reversal was staged. As the saying goes, "the brave win in the narrow road". Facing difficulties and opponents, only by working hard can we win and create a better life.
Artists are the envy of many people and feel relaxed and happy to perform on the stage. In fact, they don't have "ten years of work under the stage". How can they have "one minute on the stage"? A six-year-old child, who plays the Monkey King in The Journey to the West, began to learn the basic skills of Shao Opera at the age of three. Twenty years of hard work and dozens of scars have finally achieved his brilliant image in front of the screen. Pavarotti, a world-famous tenor, just sang in a restaurant at first, but he never gave up, practiced hard day after day and finally achieved something. If the ideal points out the direction for you, then struggle is the tool for you to cross the road.
Science is rigorous and mysterious to some people, but it is actually more difficult. Mathematician Chen Jingrun struggled for more than ten years to prove Goldbach's conjecture. I don't know how much sweat he spilled and how much rest time he sacrificed. He was frustrated several times, cheered up several times and finally succeeded. Madame Curie, with her indomitable will and after several years' efforts, finally extracted a few centigrams of radium from several tons of uranium waste. It seems that fighting spirit is the fundamental difference between successful people and mediocre people.
3。 Stick to one's beliefs
Ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, how many great men have adhered to their beliefs all their lives: Zhu Ziqing starved to death and refused to eat American food; Wen Tianxiang wailed before he died, and Zhuge Liang's legendary life was exhausted in order to realize his ambition. From this, we can draw such a truth: if we stick to our own beliefs, we will have a rich and beautiful life and acquire noble and pure character.
Faith is a wise man's diligent attitude towards life. Laozi, a world-famous ancient thinker, insists on never dying to learn. We know that his Tao Te Ching is the crystallization of his wisdom and is undoubtedly priceless. However, how many people have dug deep into the background of his music study and need a great spiritual belief, a self-control ability that is willing to be lonely, single-minded and diligent to support this long life!
Faith is the persistent spirit of the brave in the face of truth. I can't forget Bruno, a teenager who was burned to death in the Rome Flower Square. He really watered the shameful flower of science in the dark with his own flesh and blood. Science can't be complete and life can't be perfect, but this soul that gives up everything but insists on faith is perfect. I can't think of a more decisive and thorough force to destroy this belief. How dare I say that faith is not the most precious wealth in life?
Faith is the love of a better life. What is valuable to animals is that people can have love for everything else. Li Shizhen is a typical philanthropist. A compendium of materia medica made him travel all over Chengchuan, suffering from bitter cold and setbacks. If you don't have awe and love for life, how can you have unshakable faith to practice this ideal?
Didn't the ancients learn this and this belief? Stick to your own beliefs, break through all excuses and difficulties, and create a beautiful life and a legendary life.
4。 Life is wonderful because it helps.
There is a flower on a windowsill, and this room is alive; A flower blooms on a tree, and this tree has the hope of golden autumn; A flower blooms on a road, which is sentimental and lingering; One person sends a bunch of flowers to another, and these two people become poetic; A healthy person sent a handful of flowers to the patient, and the patient had the courage to fight the disease. ...
Let your life bloom a flower for others, make it brilliant for others, add a ray of warmth, add a reason to live, be more tenacious and persistent, and improve your quality of existence. Use your heart to make a nursery for others, weave a green field for others and dye a color, which is cheering for your life.
The heart that can bloom for others is kind, and this kind flower will certainly give off the fragrance of love; It is great to be able to work for others, and this great work will surely bear the fruit of good thoughts. Blood donation without compensation is a flower, rescue after injury is a flower, well-intentioned criticism is a flower, caring greetings are a flower, a well-intentioned smile is a flower, and a helping hand after falling is a flower-helping others, loving others, caring for others and contributing others. ...
Bai Juyi, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, said: "People are happy when they are happy; Worried about the people, the people are also worried about the people's worries. " Hua, a famous contemporary mathematician, said: "I will never forget the time when people helped me;" I help people, remember. "Einstein, the giant of science, said:" The meaning of life lies in putting yourself in others' shoes, worrying about others and enjoying their happiness. Gorky, the founder of Soviet proletarian literature, said: "Giving is always much more than asking for happiness from others. "-ancient and modern Chinese and foreign great men's interpretation of help is how subtle and profound! Help is spring rain, which moistens your heart when you are thirsty; Help is the summer wind, which brings you coolness when you are hot; Help is the chrysanthemum in autumn. When you are lonely, it opens silently for you. Help is the fire of winter. When you are cold, it brings you warmth.
People are not only a single independent individual, but also a closely linked and flesh-and-blood group, which can never be separated from mutual support and help. In the long and short life, we constantly accept the help of parents, teachers, friends and others, but also learn to repay and help others! Because the song of our life is beautiful because of help, the river of our life does not dry up because of help, the light of our life never goes out because of help, and the poem of our life is full of color because of help.
5。 A wise life with detours is like a mountain. Everyone is looking forward to the moment of reaching the top, and they are constantly working hard. On the mountain of life, there are stumbling blocks full of setbacks and difficulties everywhere. Faced with this invisible obstacle, some people choose to go on the rampage, but despite great courage and strength, the result is black and blue. Others choose to take a detour and find another way, which increases the length of the journey, but greatly reduces the difficulty of going up the mountain. This is the wisdom of circuitous.
Isaac asimov, the world's top science fiction writer, once engaged in biochemical research, but in research and teaching, he found that he failed to give full play to his own strength, so he made a calm and objective analysis of himself and found that he had the talent to create science fiction. Asimov resolutely decided to bid farewell to college classes and experiments and specialize in writing, thus finding another road to success for himself. Asimov's clever choice made him create 480 sci-fi works in his life.
Asimov's case tells us that if you don't have an advantage in one aspect and always want to turn your disadvantage into an advantage, you will probably accomplish nothing. Therefore, facing the invisible obstacle of his own shortcomings, he calmly bypassed this straight road that did not belong to him and resolutely chose a detour that suited him. On this road, he gave full play to his advantages, which is also one of the important factors for him to reach the peak of his life.
Taking a detour is a kind of wisdom and requires great courage.
Qu Yuan, a great patriotic poet, was born in a lost aristocratic family. He devoted himself to helping Chu Huaiwang. However, due to the sharp contradiction in internal affairs and diplomacy and the jealousy of Shangguan Doctor and others, Qu Yuan was later framed and alienated from Chu Huaiwang. After being released three times, he was a little insulted by his life and ideals and resolutely jumped into the river. For the sake of his ideal and dignity, he explained the cruelty of reality and his fragility at the cost of his life, which was for future generations.
Faced with the hardships of life, Qu Yuan gave up his life, saved his chastity and dignity, and left deep regret in history. He knew that he still had a way to go, but he lacked the courage to pave a way for himself. This does not waste his wisdom, so even if he has the wisdom to take a detour, he must always be smart. Only by determining the right direction and increasing great courage in the face of danger can he create the true wisdom of detouring.
In the journey of life, there are twists and turns, and there are also opportunities for twists and turns. Faced with challenges and opportunities, we need to think carefully and make choices. We can't give up a forest for a small tree. In fact, sometimes detours are a kind of real wisdom!