Impetuousness, as an epidemic of modern people, is because people think that life is short and things are complicated. As a passer-by, it is meaningful to live nervously and clearly. However, this kind of understanding can only be self-righteous, in fact, it is completely confused. Floating people have a weak foundation; People who are impatient are impatient. Impetuous people, because their beliefs about life are not clear, do not understand the true meaning of life, even if they are busy all day, they are actually puzzling. In essence, impetuousness is a state of life at a loss.
Some people use the word "impetuous" to summarize today's mentality. When you think about it, you really hit the nail on the head. Have you noticed how much truth, goodness and beauty in the world are despised by impetuous people, how many values are misplaced by impetuous people, and how many clear and pure hearts are indifferent by impetuous people? Impetuousness, an abominable thing, makes many people unable to hold back their vanity and interests, makes life lose its foundation, makes people's passion degenerate, makes their emotions gaffe and lacks the pursuit of beauty. We can't bid farewell to material poverty while moving towards spiritual poverty. Therefore, while building a material home, we must pay attention to building a spiritual home in order to achieve the balance and harmony between material and spirit. In the reality of the world of mortals and materialistic desires, people must reject impetuousness, examine their true nature, guard their spirit internally, advocate civilization, and give their hearts a harmonious and moist green space.
To reject impetuousness, we must do three things: first, rely on the determination of righteousness. Righteousness comes from the right heart, which has certain strength. With this determination, you will not be anxious, distracted or even exhausted in the face of economic transition, social transformation, fierce competition and information explosion, and in the face of many temptations. No matter how big the storm is, no matter how tempting it is, as long as you are not distracted, you will always be ambitious, indifferent to fame and fortune, bear the burden of humiliation and stay away from impetuousness. Second, rely on self-cultivation. This is a kind of temperament, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of realm, and also one of the eastern wisdom. Zhuge Liang's Book of Commandments said: "A gentleman's trip is to cultivate himself by meditation and thrift. If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will be far away. " This is a famous sentence that Zhuge Liang inspired future generations. Every time I read it, it is always thought-provoking. In a tense time and space, in the face of tangible and intangible pressure, calming down can make you clear-headed, far-sighted, learn the subtlety of heaven and earth, observe the laws of all things, grasp the general trend, and "take precautions and win thousands of miles away." Third, knowledge support. Knowledge is the most powerful weapon to overcome ignorance and the cradle of self-cultivation. No matter how busy you are, you should "recharge your batteries" in time, spare time, squeeze out time and read more. The more knowledgeable people are, the broader their horizons are, the more confident they are in doing things, and their backbone remains unchanged. The more you read, the more knowledgeable you are, and the more elegant your temperament is. Those who are "self-satisfied" despise vulgarity and resist temptation. "Learning Buddhism" is the key to rejecting impetuous, clean and quiet life.
Net choice 2:
Why do our emotions swing repeatedly between pride, ecstasy, confusion, anxiety, depression, anxiety, fear and even despair? Why are our emotions so unbalanced? Maybe that's because we are impetuous. Impetuousness is because we lack happiness, lack happiness and care too much about gain and loss. Impetuousness is caused by our unbalanced mentality. When problems such as excessive pressure, eagerness for success, too busy, too idle, lack of faith and excessive pursuit of perfection appear and are not satisfied, it will breed impetuousness.
Living in modern society, we are more and more impetuous, and often make value judgments and choices only based on the most superficial characteristics of things without patience to go deep into their core; Often just pursue gorgeous, care about the results and don't want to bury themselves in the efforts of silent content; We will be too fast-paced and full of loopholes; You will only go forward and miss the beautiful scenery around you.
Impetuousness can be said to be varied. Loneliness easily breeds impetuousness. In a sense, enduring loneliness is success, but in fact, we are often hurt by loneliness. Therefore, learning to be alone is to eliminate impetuousness. Busy can also lead to impetuousness. In a day's work and life, there must be vibrant spring and summer, butterflies flying everywhere, convergence in autumn and winter, and everything is silent, so relaxation is to eliminate impetuousness. We should also learn to forget and forget the past. Life is a kaleidoscope with diverse and complicated contents. Who can expect never to make mistakes? So learn to forget that everyone has done something wrong, and don't be immersed in regret for a long time. We should know how to forgive ourselves and be kind to our mistakes. Forgetting the past is also to eliminate impetuousness.
Watching the flowers bloom and fall, watching the clouds roll and relax, let our sleepy hearts wake up in the wind earlier, let our dull feelings be moved more by the flowers, and make love, marriage and family more rational and harmonious. Because the times refuse to be impetuous, we refuse to be impetuous.