In order to survive, human beings have three instinctive evils. Of course, this kind of evil and ugliness may really be fabricated by the weak to protect themselves and frame the strong, just as a philosopher said, that is, "the so-called morality is the tool used by the weak to protect themselves", because this kind of evil itself is the best advantage for human beings to survive in nature. Of course, I think this evil is aimed at the whole society and must be suppressed in advanced societies. Since everyone has this kind of * * *, how should we treat them and what should we do against them? I look at it this way:

The first evil: greed

People's biological nature is completely selfish, so greed is reasonable, so we can get more useful things such as food, which must exist in order to survive. I can't deny that I am not greedy. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost". Of course, no matter what kind of evil it is, we must first admit its existence. Only by treating it as normal can we recognize it and deal with it. Can you get some more change? Will you spend public money easily? Do you pick delicious grapes when they grow outside other people's walls? What would you do if someone else's beautiful wife (husband) was in the same room with you? For this nature, a word: "It's not yours, don't take it!" "Of course, this is very simple. It is not easy to do it well. You can take the part of your labor income, the lucky part (winning the lottery), and the part you inherited legally, or you can take something that others invited you with a grateful heart and the idea of preparing to repay others (called Yishushan, buy you a drink). You can love your wife (husband) and appreciate the beauty of others, but you can't love others (unless divorced).

The second evil: anger and hatred

As a creature, when a person robs you of food, you endure it, he robs you again, you endure it again, and finally you starve to death, so everyone will have the psychology of anger, hatred and revenge, so when others treat you badly, you will fight back, make him pay the price and make him dare not. Some things in life will make us angry from time to time, and the result of anger is usually regret. For example, playing basketball is a bit overwhelming. An elbow knocks you down, and you instinctively stand up and give him a kick. At that time, you would never think whether he did it on purpose. Anyway, I got angry and kicked it first. You didn't know it was unintentional until you calmed down after kicking the man in the hospital. You regretted it. I didn't control my anger well. I learned to endure. It doesn't matter, but I feel a little weak. So I put up with it most of the time and vent occasionally. But I found that the word "sorry" is better than anything else. When you make a mistake, you can get rid of that guilt by sincerely apologizing. However, it really needs to be clear that when you are angry, it takes a lot of self-control and faith to control yourself. How to deal with grievances and revenge? You can swear when you think of it. What goes around comes around. If he needs help, you don't have to help him, but don't hurt him. Of course, you can make it clear to him when you have a chance to solve the contradiction.

The third evil: jealousy

A good person will take away the opposite sex around you, delicious food and everything that is conducive to survival, so you can't help him anymore. He wants to make you uncomfortable, so that you can't help him anymore, or you will be eliminated, so jealousy will come, but you will only envy people around you, not people far away, because he can't take your things. For this, first of all, you should be confident, study hard, strive for the strongest goal, and surpass it under the banner of faith, which is enviable. Of course, learn to appreciate the advantages of others, and then you will be great! Remember, don't stop others from succeeding.