When you are cornered and have to give up one of honesty, money, power, talent and knowledge, which one will you choose? Is it money, power, talent, knowledge or honesty? In today's world, I'm afraid more than half of people have given up honesty. They will think that with knowledge, talent, money and rights, they will have everything, while ignoring the intangible asset of integrity. Then I am anxious to ask you: without integrity, who will believe you and cooperate with you? Then how do those knowledge, talents, money and rights work?
Maybe you won't forget Ming Shanbin selling cattle, maybe you won't forget the story of wanting to give up?
Ming Shanbin's family is poor and he has to sell cattle to support his family. But when he bought the cow, he suddenly remembered that it was ill and forgot to tell the buyer, so he caught up with the buyer and returned some money. This matter has been well received by future generations, and Ming Shanbin has also become an example for us to learn.
And the story of Hua Xin and Wang Lang, you must have heard of it! Hua Xin and Wang Lang were chased by mutinous soldiers to the riverside ferry to escape. At this time, another man shouted for help on the shore. Wang Lang persuaded Huaxin to let the man aboard. But when the pursuer caught up, Wang Lang was afraid again and let the man get off the boat. Such a renege must make you angry again!
In our life, honesty is a bright star, which can always bring you good luck and guide you to find the right shore. Honesty is an invisible bridge, connecting people's hearts and connecting you and me. Honesty is a fortress, which consolidates friendship and is closely related to family ties. I think you must realize the importance of honesty.
Maybe you don't know much about honesty. Maybe in the long river of life, you still don't know how to have integrity. Friend, it doesn't matter, honesty is actually sincerity. Honesty is actually that you exchange your sincerity for the sincerity of others. As long as you show your true feelings and treat them sincerely, the other party will treat you sincerely. Nothing can be exchanged for sincerity.
Finally, please don't forget: gold is valuable, and sincerity is priceless.
Sincerity is priceless.
Times are changing and people are changing. The present society is terrible. If you want to stand on your own feet in society, you must have skills and good knowledge. In today's society, it is difficult for people to trust a person deliberately. Only by paying sincerity can we be believed and accepted by the society; Only by paying sincerity can we have permanent friendship; Only by paying sincerity can we lay a sky in society.
People live in the world, not alone, but should have friends, so that people can live happier and more exciting. In primary school, I had a good deskmate. At first, I liked playing tricks on people and often made her cry. But strangely, she didn't tell the teacher or do what other little girls did, but after a burst of tears, she clarified. I remember the last time I made her cry, which was also the most serious one. That day, she cried very sadly, and then I realized how serious my mistake was. I forced myself to think about the consequences. I've been thinking about it for a long time, and every one seems to be killing me. I thought I was finished, but she tolerated me.
At this point, my heart can't be calm. I think about why I want to hurt others again and again, and build my happiness on the pain of others. I felt ashamed for a long time, and finally, in shame, I uttered the words "I'm sorry" from my mouth, which is not very good at talking. Suddenly, she actually began to cry, and quickly said a few words to comfort me, which made her insomnia for several days. She made me feel the breadth of people's hearts. When people get along with each other, only by paying sincerity can they trust each other and listen to each other's voices.
After a few days, I have changed and never made her unhappy again. Instead, I changed my identity and became a good friend and confidant. We talk about everything, have troubles, share happiness and solve difficulties together.
Until now, that friendship is still on my mind. No wind can blow it away, no rain can pour it down, and no cloud can block its brilliance. Give your heart, you can live happily, and you can live more wonderfully. Go ahead and share your sincerity with everyone, and the blue and pure sky will always hang in your heart.
Friendship is priceless, and sincerity is even more priceless. -P.S.
Sincerity is priceless.
I have always believed that it is human nature to be sincere and honest with others. This nature is most fully manifested in our childhood. In childhood, most of us are carefree and innocent, with many joys and beautiful feelings in our hearts. It seems that this is the best period of our lives. Yes, it is very important to be sincere, childlike, not scheming, and not holding grudges. It expresses mutual friendship.
In the process of growing up, people will retain their sincere nature to varying degrees. But it is not difficult to see that sincerity seems to be decreasing with age. Especially for young people, especially for those middle-aged and elderly people. To put it mildly, it is an old scoundrel, slick, and to put it mildly, it is slick, sophisticated and hypocritical. They feel that this is a retrogression, so they are a little dissatisfied. There are still some people, especially women, who often "refuse to grow up" and retain more childlike innocence, so they often feel puzzled that their kindness has not been rewarded.
In my opinion, it is wrong to generalize. As far as sincerity is concerned, it is undeniable that some people have almost lost their sincerity, which is really a sad thing. But more people just add a flexible appearance to it and show it in different forms. As far as telling lies is concerned, almost everyone is ashamed of telling lies, but we still can't help telling many lies. This is because we realize that these lies are necessary and do not contradict our sincere hearts. For example, some words of comfort, praise, and some modest words that can easily be misunderstood as lies.
It is true that loyalty, honesty, sincerity to others and even selfishness are all welcome advantages. But if one overemphasizes this point, I don't think it is an advantage. As the saying goes, "honest and straightforward, there will eventually be beggars." If it really reaches the point of begging, will you still say that this is an advantage? To be alive and have the ability to stand on your own feet in society, the first thing is to ensure your most basic living conditions. Knowing this, we can understand the basic truth of being a man.
This shows that at some point, tact, sophistication and even falsehood are needed. If a person can clearly understand its meaning and express it properly, it is a sign of maturity. But there is no denying that some things are difficult for us to deal with, and we need to think carefully between saying and not saying. It is not only testing our wisdom, but also testing our character. At this point, I think the beloved Premier Zhou Enlai has set an excellent example for us, and we can get a lot of inspiration from his brilliant life.
People's sincerity should also have different performances in different growth periods. For a young man, he should be angular and used to showing his sincerity. But in the days to come, we should pay attention to grinding off some of our own edges and corners, otherwise we will inadvertently hurt others or ourselves. It should be said that just as truth is sometimes more destructive than lies, untimely sincerity will also bring us unnecessary harm.
Honesty is a precious and excellent quality of human beings, which is worth maintaining and developing. However, in the complex social environment, it is not easy to do this. Just as good thoughts are not rewarded, the result will in turn lead to misunderstanding and undermine sincerity. This situation not only exists, but also is very common, which is really regrettable. Therefore, we must have a good understanding of sincerity, especially deepen our understanding and understanding of its manifestations. This can not only keep the sincerity in my heart, but also make this sincerity play a greater role!
5. study hard, not work hard
"What's the fun of reading? Even if there is, it is singing a ditty under the Huanglian tree-having fun in pain. " Some people say this; Others simply said, "Reading is too difficult." But I think there are two different forms of reading: studying hard and studying happily. Studying hard and studying happily is not the only way of human life.
Socrates once said: "There is only one thing in the world that is a treasure, and that is knowledge." Knowledge is the only way to change human destiny. Isn't the history of human development the best example? ! The evolution of human beings from apes to today is a process of cultural development: from eating raw meat to steaming and frying today, from not knowing a word to being knowledgeable today, human beings continue to acquire knowledge, thus making themselves more and more perfect.
There are four kinds of tastes in the learning process of human beings' continuous acquisition of knowledge: ups and downs. From ancient times to the present, there are countless stories of hard learning. Bai Juyi said that studying when you are young means "studying hard" and "never resting"; Han Yu also said that he "never stopped singing in the hands of great artists, and his hands kept repeating in the editing of a hundred schools of thought." This kind of "study hard" means study hard, study hard. Look up the dictionary, there are many definitions of "bitterness", one is hard work, and the other is pain and hardship.
If you want to get good grades in your studies, this kind of "bitterness" is a magic weapon, and Song Lian, an ancient writer, is the representative of those who study hard and succeed. Poor family can't stop Song Lian's ambition to study. When he can't afford books, he borrows books from others. Even if his fingers are frozen in winter, he never stops. The couplet "There is no end to learning, and there is no end to learning" embodies the successful experience of generations of scholars.
"Study hard" is a fine tradition of learning in our country, and now there is a saying that "study hard becomes happy learning". At this time, "happy learning" is not to exclude and deny diligence and hard work, but to discover the fun of learning first. The ancients could "forget tea and rice, and linger": Tao Yuanming "readily forgot food", Confucius "did not know that the old times were coming" and Bai Juyi "had a sore tongue". As the saying goes, "Only with lofty goals and the joy of success will we feel bitter and sweet". Indeed, when you are interested in a book, you will be immersed in the pleasure of reading and forget to return. Your thoughts will follow this book through the ages, like discussing with Confucius and talking with Zhu. You will travel to the Sahara desert under the guidance of books and fly to the northern end of the world-the territory of Eskimos. How comfortable you will feel at this time! Confucius once said, "It's better to keep pace with the times, isn't it?" "Speaking" is the harvest of "learning while learning", and the harvest is sweetness. Music learning, in the final analysis, is to be able to taste the sweetness from reading.
In real life, people should not only study, but also do everything with the unity of "bitterness" and "pleasure". As the saying goes, "If you want to harvest, you must cultivate". Harvest is joy, and cultivation is bitterness. Without the bitterness of farming, there is no joy of harvesting. "Bitterness" and "happiness" complement each other, and no one can live without anyone, so people should pay equal attention to "bitterness" and "happiness".