Don't care about humiliation Life is a tortuous process, with gains and losses, ups and downs, which can win people's favor and be shamed by people's hypocrisy. Throughout the ages, such people and things have played a role in Qian Qian. Who can count them? Therefore, thoughtful people are indifferent to their pets and very calm about their humiliation. There has long been a saying that "it is not shocking, but it is beautiful before the court." Naturally, we should also learn to face it calmly.
Don't care about fame and fortune. Getting fame and fortune is not a bad thing, but you must never be a slave to fame and fortune. Otherwise, you will be uncomfortable and tired. What's more, grabbing by hook or by crook will cause harm and sin. We take it lightly, do what we can, fight calmly, pursue our own truth calmly, and be natural and comfortable, such as the breeze on the moon. Isn't it much easier?
Whether you succeed or not is not important. "Failure is the mother of success" and "If we don't face up to success, it may become the mother of failure". These are the words of a wise philosopher, hit floor. Knowing the dialectical relationship between success and failure, we have no reason to be depressed or arrogant because of success. In the face of success, the most important thing to remind yourself is: don't be arrogant when you win, don't be arrogant when you lose, don't be arrogant and don't be depressed.
Don't care what others say. The reason why many people dare not touch their hands, lift their feet and fear, suffer from fear of loss, and can't do great things in their lives is not so much lack of intelligence as loss of themselves. They kneel in the shadow of others all day, too concerned about the boss's face, too concerned about the boss's eyes, too concerned about the attitude of people around them towards themselves, speculating on what others say and do, and even coughing, trying to cater to them, completely losing their essence, spirit and spirit. To cure this mental "dwarfism", we must stand up, be upright and do what we should do. "Go your own way and let others talk!" As for those disputes that do not involve principles, discord between chickens and dogs, gossip, misunderstandings of relatives and colleagues and so on. They can only be regarded as episodes in life, let alone care about them. In life, things are often unsatisfactory. How to be consistent everywhere, without resentment or love, and everyone understands you? We should learn to adjust ourselves, bridge the gap and let go of unnecessary mental burdens. Saying "don't care" about those annoying little things is a kind of tolerance for others and a kind of relief for yourself.
Don't care about many things, it is cultivation, tolerance and wisdom. It can make us awake when we are addicted, indifferent when we are greedy, and can bear anything, let go, let go. When people reach this state, the spiritual sky is clear and blue, and the clouds are so charming.