Be tolerant of others: 1
"The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." There is nothing in the world that is broader than a person's mind.
By learning tolerance, people can raise the sails of wisdom and sail into the harbor of the Chinese nation with a long history of 5 thousand years. People who have achieved great things at all times and in all countries are open-minded and magnanimous. The so-called "less is not a gentleman, more is not a husband." They can race horses on their foreheads and hold boats in their bellies, which is good for everyone around them. In the Qing dynasty, he lived next to Ye. Ye Jia's wall-repairing institute occupied three acres of land in Zhang Jia, and wrote books for the master in the court. Zhang wrote: "A thousand miles of books are just walls, why not let them go three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "Then, he ordered his servant to give up three feet of the courtyard wall. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed and retreated three feet from the wall courtyard. Zhang Ying's tolerance not only saves land at home, but also avoids conflicts with neighbors. This shows that the beauty created by tolerance is unparalleled.
Tolerance is the greatest virtue in the world. Turgenev's words show the meaning of tolerance to the fullest: "People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. But who can say that you don't need tolerance? " In life, you will make mistakes, and others will make mistakes. If you just want to be tolerant of others and refuse to be kind to others with tolerance, one day his friends will leave him and no one will be kind to him again. Therefore, being kind to others and the world means being kind to yourself.
Tolerance is also the guarantee of success in one's career. A businessman who is tolerant of others, kind enough to make money, prosperous in business and rolling in financial resources; Officials who are tolerant, accept talents, love the people and are loved by the people; Scholars who are tolerant of others make good friends and have good popularity; A tolerant country gets along well with its neighbors, without the interference of war, and its people are happy. ...
"A tolerant person often shows more love than resentment. He is optimistic, cheerful, open-minded and patient, but not pessimistic, depressed, anxious and angry. " People who don't know how to tolerate are simply asking for trouble; Tolerant people get more happiness.
Tolerance of others: Chapter 2
There will be some mistakes and disputes between people. We should learn to be tolerant when others make mistakes. Tolerance is a kind of mind. When you forgive others, others will forgive you.
I heard such a story that a person would spit in the street and be seen by the health supervisor and ask for a fine. But he just accidentally made a mistake, didn't have any money with him, and hurried to school. The supervisor saw his pity and let him go. On weekends, he and his classmates swept the floor by the roadside with brooms. When the supervisor saw it that day, he was very excited and said to him, "You are really a good boy. It was right to let you go yesterday! " He said, "This is my duty. You forgave me last time, and I will repay you this time! " "This story is about a person's gratitude, and the little tolerance of the health supervisor has created a good thing. Yes, tolerating others is likely to make others wake up, correct their mistakes and achieve a good thing. If you don't tolerate others, you won't give them a chance to correct their mistakes, and others will be trapped in pain and depression forever.
Tolerance is a kind of understanding, tolerance is a kind of trust, tolerance is a kind of mind and tolerance is a realm. Don't underestimate this infinite tolerance, maybe it can make people more harmonious and make the world more harmonious. Let's hold the hand of tolerance tightly! Give everyone a chance to correct their mistakes, and give everyone who needs understanding, care and love a chance to turn over a new leaf. Tolerance is just a matter of thought. Maybe your tolerance can make others feel happy, maybe your tolerance will make others more corrupt, but I firmly believe that only if you tolerate others, others will work harder and be better!
Tolerance of others: Chapter 3
One small step, one big step for the soul! Why be too stingy and make both sides angry?
A wooden bridge, two people before and after, entered the bridge relatively, and neither of them gave way, which led to a big fight. Both of them fell into the water and almost drowned. This is an animated short film that we often see. A few minutes of short film actually contains a great truth. Do you feel it when you laugh?
Some people often fight to the death for a little thing and dare to say for themselves: Is it worth it?
There will always be something big or small that needs us to make way. For example, someone is sick and needs to see a doctor urgently; Some people are difficult and waste a lot of time when they are entangled; Disagreement over unworthy things, etc. Don't care about these trivial things. It's time to show your generosity. Put your heart into your heart, and you will tolerate others, and eventually you will win their tolerance. The heart is wider and the world is wider. Don't always haggle over every ounce, so your heart is like an opaque hut that will never receive light.
What's wrong with Zhang Ying's "Give up three feet?" Now only Liuchi Lane exists; With the tolerance of Zhao and Lin Xiangru, Lian Po offered a humble apology. Only Lincoln's tolerance and sincerity can make his life brilliant; With Li Wenjing's generosity and gentleness, there is a story that the Prime Minister can punt in his stomach. How many people in ancient and modern times have won the respect of others and their lives with their own tolerance!
The temporary way out is for a long life. So, make way for some small things, whether on the road or in your heart.
Tolerance of others: Chapter 4
Sparrows say that swallows are cowards who are afraid of the cold, swallows say that orioles have beautiful clothes, orioles say that larks have beautiful voices and impure motives, and larks say that parrots are the most unprincipled. The parrot said that magpies are naturally servile, and the eagle said that sparrows are short-sighted. . . . . . Nothing in the world is perfect. We should not only see the advantages of ourselves and others, but also forgive the shortcomings of others. Tolerance will change many things, so tolerance is very important.
Everyone knows the truth of "taking a step back and broadening the horizon", but few people can do it. Being strict with yourself and tolerant of others will make your friendship space huge, make others respect you forever and change a person's mentality.
Bao Shu Ya gave Guan Zhong more gold; Regardless of Guan Zhong's selfishness; Understand Guan Zhong's fear of death; Also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss; His words and deeds are enough to show the generosity of Bao. Comrade Zhou Enlai coughed while having his hair cut. The barber accidentally cut Zhou Enlai, and the barber was very scared. Zhou Enlai immediately got up and said to the barber, "Sorry, I didn't remind you that I have a cough. It's not your fault. " Premier Zhou not only did not blame him, but also comforted him and apologized to him, which showed his generosity and made people have to respect him. In the Three Kingdoms, Lin Xiangru was blocked for "One Piece belongs to Zhao" and was above Lian Po. Lian Po was unconvinced and thought that his contribution to the desperate struggle on the battlefield was greater than that of Lin Xiangru, so he wanted to humiliate Lin Xiangru in public. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " Hearing this, Lian Po immediately offered a humble apology to Lin Xiangru.
To be more tolerant of others is to be more tolerant of yourself. Tolerance is an important mentality and an important step in life, which will completely change a person's life and life track; Tolerance is a virtue and a noble quality. As long as everyone in the world has this mentality, the society will be extremely harmonious and the world will be extremely beautiful!
Tolerance of others: Chapter 5
More tolerance means less estrangement, more tolerance and more friendship. The widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky. Tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance and broad mind, and it is the tolerance and acceptance of people and things.
Don't always care about other people's faults, learn to tolerate others. To err is human. Everyone needs tolerance, and tolerating others is actually tolerating yourself. Learn to understand and be considerate of others. Maybe others just didn't mean it. If you always care about other people's mistakes, you will become upset. Why not make your life simple and plain? Is it really worth getting angry and upset about this?
Tolerance does not mean weakness, but is more cultivated and stronger than others, and understands the truth that "tolerance is golden". How beautiful the tolerant world is, a castle full of love. Hugo once said, "The noblest revenge is forgiveness." Then if you are hurt mercilessly, please forgive them. Forgiving others means liberating yourself and keeping your mind pure! Don't be angry if someone accidentally steps on your foot. Smiled and said, "It doesn't matter." If someone speaks ill of you behind your back, forgive them! Maybe they just don't know you.
Everyone is born stronger than anyone, weaker than anyone, but chooses a different attitude towards other people's mistakes. Maybe some people choose tolerance. They use love and generosity to influence those who have hurt them, because they know the truth that "a prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach." On the contrary, some people choose revenge. Maybe they think that only by making the people who hurt them suffer the same pain will they regain their happiness and feel at ease at that time. But will they really be happy about it? But they were wrong. At this time, they are surrounded by hatred and will not have pure happiness. Planning revenge strategy every day, no longer relaxed and dull. Obviously, this kind of people don't understand the truth that "making friends is better than solving friends" and "taking a step back and broadening the horizon". Only those with pure hearts will have a sweet and happy life.
If someone hurts you mercilessly, please don't cry, let alone take revenge. Please forgive them for the purity of your heart! Have a heart of gold, let others' mistakes disappear!