Ability and self-confidence
What you can do, you believe you can do it, and you have the courage to show your ability. Show off when it is time to show off, not afraid of gossip. This kind of self-confidence is the premise to ensure the normal and full play of one's ability, and it is the first level of self-confidence. If you have this confidence and have no external influence, then what you show is that you can do what you can.
Non-ability self-confidence
What you can't do is what you can't do. Calm down. If you can't do it, you won't feel inferior, nor will it affect your confidence in what you can do. You are an excellent basketball player, but there is no need to feel inferior because of your poor football.
No one is perfect, everyone has something he can't do, and people are social, so there will always be people who will make an evaluation of you and even slander your incompetence. At this time, people are often hit, and they feel insecure about their abilities because they are not confident about their abilities. Think you are incompetent and can't do anything. We should avoid this halo effect.
The success of a thing often requires many factors. In fact, as long as you have the ability to do the key factors well, you may succeed, and your incompetence in non-key factors will not affect your success. But often under the influence of the outside world, the lack of confidence in non-ability will lead to the lack of confidence in the whole thing and lead to failure.
For example, you are employed in a company to be responsible for the marketing of a product. You believe in your keen sense of the market and your theoretical knowledge, but you lack work experience in this field. So many people say in front of you or behind your back that if you can't do it well, you will fail because you have no experience. When you know more about this kind of words, you may start to doubt and shrink back, and your confidence will be hit, leading to failure. But in fact, do you have to have experience? Not necessarily. The most important thing in marketing is innovation, not empiricism. You have the premise of innovation. Although you have no experience, you can learn from it, have a heart-to-heart talk or read relevant books, all of which can achieve this goal.
Potential self-confidence
People's ability has great potential. Your own ability may not be recognized by you, but people often encounter their own difficulties. There are some things you may not be able to do, but you must do it, such as the last try. At this time, you must believe that you can do it. This is confidence in the potential ability. This is also a kind of blind self-confidence, believing that you can do what you should do.
There is no difference between people, but some dare to think, some dare to say and some dare to do. You can do what others have done, so you should be confident.