Unfortunately, I am also a layman, and I am also running around in the world of mortals. I don't know why, life seems to have lost its goal, the road ahead is a bit vague, and the desire for yearning and hope is dim.
Over the years, I have worked hard and looked forward to God's care. However, luck always passes me by. Over time, I realized that fate is just a big dish placed on someone else's feast, which can't be tasted from a distance.
Seeing the flowers on the branches, delicate and fragrant, and the wind and rain are a remnant, I can't help but feel sad; Seeing people who are not as good as themselves is arrogant and difficult to balance in their hearts; Seeing the deterioration of social atmosphere, fraud and corruption, I can't help feeling resentful.
It is this time that people are hard and have a lot of troubles Then, I remembered a famous saying: indifferent to life, life is rarely calm. Become indifferent and lose your cool.
Become indifferent-
Advocating a simple life, it is light to come and go, and few appearances are exchanged for spiritual purity, tolerance and not demanding of life and society, and inner peace and order are obtained. Working hard for life is enough to maintain dignity, but don't get carried away, because life needs persistence, but more importantly, fate. Simply living, being kind, honest and open-minded, will have time and mood to evaluate the situation and taste of life and enjoy the fun of life. Refuse to practice that glib character and love yourself more than anyone else. Tie yourself to the world, be busy all day, steal time, decorate yourself and nourish yourself, and care for that long hair with your indifferent state of mind, showing a sunny smile in the morning, dignified tolerance and profound connotation. When the dust settles during the day, I will read some books under the lamp, repair my increasingly rough soul and make myself gentle and lovely. Be generous and cultivate a peaceful mind and a healthy mind. Love and hate, grievances and gains and losses, although we can't forget, we can forgive and let everything slowly settle in our memories, because we know that the only destination of some memories is from the soul to the grave. Stay away from meanness and vulgarity, and understand what love is and what is not; What is your own and what is not your own. Quiet beauty is like autumn leaves. Come gently, go gently, get along gently, give people peace, give people faint desire, and live simply and tastefully.
Lose one's cool-
Calm is a state of mind, and it doesn't matter to everything, whether it's money, fame and status; Calmness is a kind of calmness and calmness in the face of reality. Calm is calm, let nature take its course. It is different from the ancient wise men's "obeying heaven" and "governing by doing nothing", and it is not to ignore it and let it develop. It is a psychological state after "promising". The road of life is not all avenues full of sunshine and flowers, and sometimes there are ditches and bumps. Many successes and failures are not something we can all predict, nor can we all bear, but as long as we work hard and get a peace after giving, we will get a kind of happiness. It doesn't matter if you are criticized, correct it in time and learn from it; Be praised, don't be complacent, sum up experience and make persistent efforts; Understand, not complacent, not artificial; Lost, not decadent and depressed, self-deprecating; As long as you have a calm heart, live a real life, take it calmly, take it calmly, and laugh at the change, you will find that everything is just like this.
Fight for its inevitability-
I am determined to live for myself and do what I like in my own way. I don't care about other people's gossip, only care about the comfort and nature I want. Occasionally, I can indulge myself in doing nothing, and I have a naughty secretly pleased. Life is nothing more than dedication, dedication to yourself, dedication to the people you love, dedication to this land of life, since dedication, there is no gain or loss, no success or failure, no honor or disgrace. Many things are willing to give up, let go, know how to give up, let go. Naturally, the spring breeze is proud, and the moon is bright and noble.
Let nature take its course—
Let it be. This is a word that people prevaricate when they can't solve the problem and want to solve it, and when they are in a helpless situation. That's a good reason. This is a good reason, which can not only save face on the outside, but also comfort your heart. All unanswered questions can be explained by letting nature take its course Sometimes it's good to let nature take its course. Clothes should be stretched out, rice should be open, eat and sleep, sleep and eat, think nothing, be happy.
Yes, I was born with so many foreign things, which is very attractive. If I get it, I will handle it indifferently and won't get carried away; If you miss it, you won't feel great sadness and pain, and your body and mind won't be hurt. In this way, we will not suffer from foreign things and will not be tired of them.
Life is short, just like a meteor across the sky. If you come naked, you will go naked again. Why are you tired of worldly things in such a short life?
In this case, when we come to this world, it is better to be the host, be a generous host and design the most beautiful itinerary, regardless of gains and losses. In this way, even if the future returns to dust, it will be calm.
Think so, the in the mind has been calm. A cup of tea, sitting in a chair and listening to music, life is rarely calm, let nature take its course. ...