Hello!

After your story was reported by the media, it aroused everyone's discussion. Everyone has his own ideas and reasons. Xiao Li, I also want to talk about my views on this matter, hoping to communicate with you.

In my opinion, Xiao Li, you still need to keep growing, because your approach is not appropriate in this matter.

Xiao Li, I know that you are a student with excellent academic performance, and you get a school scholarship every year. In this respect, you are excellent and worth learning. Of course, I also know that your family's economic conditions are not very good, and you can get subsidies for poor students every year, which also makes me feel the concern of the school for you. I believe it is also very gratifying for the school to spend this money on students with excellent academic performance like you. I also know that you bought an Apple mobile phone with your tutor's money. I am very happy for you, because you can work hard on your own. Five roommates in the same dormitory have made fun of you for the Nokia mobile phone you have used for the past three years, and I can feel the taste of being teased; It's normal to buy a broken mobile phone, but Xiao Li, I think a student with excellent academic performance like you can consider things more thoroughly and have a broader perspective.

Xiao Li, no matter how many reasons you have, you must first know the meaning of "special hardship allowance". The special hardship allowance is money provided to some students from poor families to help them tide over the difficulties. I hope that through such care, these students will be encouraged to cherish their learning opportunities and make good use of the money. And Xiao Li, although you didn't buy an Apple mobile phone with the special hardship allowance, you bought it with your hard-earned tutor money, so maybe you will take it for granted. However, Xiao Li, if you do this, people will think that since you can afford a mobile phone as local as Apple, what reason is there to accept the "poor subsidy"? Because some students who have not received the special hardship allowance may not use Apple phones, there may be more people who need this special hardship allowance. Since you can afford an Apple mobile phone, why not give this allowance to those who need it more?

And Xiao Li, I know that one of the reasons why you bought an Apple phone may be related to the teasing of your roommate. I also know that living in such a dormitory is inevitably influenced by the wind of comparison, but Xiao Li is a thoughtful reed. Although it may be fragile, we have thoughts and souls. Under such circumstances, we should especially ask ourselves, do we really need an Apple mobile phone? Do we really need to compare mobile phones with such people? Today is better than mobile phone, and tomorrow is better than food and clothing. Do you think this makes more sense? Xiao Li, you should always remember that a person should follow his inner voice. I think there may be a voice in your heart telling you: learn professional knowledge, apply what you have learned, earn your own living, repay the care of your parents and school, read widely, broaden your horizons and make yourself a thoughtful person. Xiao Li, am I right?

Speaking of which, I believe you already know what to do in the future, Xiao Li. Yes, think more comprehensively and follow your inner voice, so that you can handle things more appropriately! I believe you will think about this matter rationally, and then have a more reasonable aftermath (deal with the follow-up problems of the matter and properly handle the remaining problems after the incident).

Wish a better life!