The change of university role is an important topic in life. From high school to college, there will be brand-new feelings from lifestyle, learning methods and interpersonal communication. For this reason, in English, the word "newborn" is called "newborn" and has a fresh meaning. It means that there will be many new experiences, new hopes and new pursuits after entering the university. Only when freshmen actively understand and adapt to the environment can they re-recognize themselves in the new environment and find their new development opportunities.

First, the survival of the fittest. Freshmen have just come to university from high school, and the problems they usually face are:

1, adapt to life. Say goodbye to everything you are already familiar with, stay away from your parents and handle everything in your life independently; Freshmen come from all corners of the country, and their different personalities are tolerant of each other. Seemingly ordinary things are always testing every college student's attitude and moral cultivation towards others.

2. Adapt to learning. In universities, the concept of class is diluted, there is no fixed classroom, and one or two hundred people attend classes together, which is often like guerrilla warfare; Teachers may have to arrange a lot of extracurricular reading materials, and students also have relatively loose and free time than high school. University teachers' lectures are not as simple as high school teachers', and they often teach in an outline or guide students to learn by themselves. There are many differences in learning purpose, breadth and depth of teaching content and teaching methods.

3. Adapt to changes in emotional needs. At present, in most middle school campuses, adolescent sexual health education is still blank, and some normal male and female students are not guided or even accused; In the university, the relatively relaxed space for heterosexual communication has released the repressed sexual psychology. Due to the influence of social pluralistic values, and more importantly, the lack of knowledge and skills in adolescent sexual physiology, psychology, ethics, legal system and heterosexual communication, some college students are at a loss when facing heterosexual courtship, love for the opposite sex, lovelorn love and sexual harassment.

Second, actively adjust that college students are a special group with high social requirements, high parents' expectations and strong personal desire to become talents. Because college students' psychological development is still in an immature stage and lack of social experience, they are high-risk groups of psychological disorders, so it is necessary to strengthen psychological adjustment. Psychological quality is the synthesis of psychological quality formed by acquired education and environmental influence on the basis of innate endowment. At the time of admission, everyone's ability is not much different, but when they graduate from college, they are surprised to find that their ability gap may not be a few steps away. For college students, this gap is by no means caused by intellectual differences. Where is the mystery? A large number of studies show that the differences are mainly in non-intelligence factors, that is, intelligence, will quality, moral responsibility, attitude towards life, interpersonal relationships, hobbies, personality and other emotional factors. Facing the problems in college life, freshmen need to know, experience and learn from a new angle. Set yourself a realistic goal. There are not only academic aspects, but also personal cultivation, physical exercise and interest development. We should make appropriate adjustments to some unrealistic goals, so that we can have a better mood and devote ourselves to the new study life.

Third, learn to develop. There are many things to do in a person's life, such as studying, starting a business, falling in love, getting married and so on. The two most important things are to learn to be a man and do things. The goals set in the university stage have an inestimable influence on the future development and are closely related to the improvement of people's basic quality. Gorky said: "The higher a person pursues, the faster his talents develop." If the goal of senior high school is simple and concise, and contains more personal fantasy elements, then the goal of university stage should be more profound and long-term, and contain more complex social factors, in which personal wishes and social needs should be better unified. In other words, we should realize what I am suitable for, what society needs and what I can do. The establishment of new university goals is actually the establishment of life goals. Mr Whitehead, a famous British philosopher, said: "In middle school, students study at desks; In college, he needs to stand up and look around. " As long as we stand up and look forward to society, history, future and all aspects of life, we can grasp the appropriate goals and promote our all-round development.