Mr. Bao's legendary life attracted much attention, and his only brother died early, so it became the best hope of Fuxing House. Although his father Jia Zheng decided that the son who caught a lot of rouge cosmetics in the Zhou Dynasty was a lecherous, this handsome young man who was born with precious stones was still loved by thousands of people, especially the chairman Jia Mu, and his love for him was beyond measure.
Jia Baoyu lives in Hongyiyuan. He lives in a pile of gunpowder all day. What did he do? Look at the author's description: "He only stays with his sisters and girls every day, or reads, or writes, or plays the piano and chess, draws and recites poems, so he is very happy." This is a portrayal of Jia Xiong's daily life. No wonder Master Zheng is worried. Coincidentally, there is also grandma's doting: "Good baby, you go, he dare not wronged you when I am here." Besides, you did that good article again. I think the queen let you in. She said a few words to you, but she didn't teach you to be naughty inside. Whatever he says, you must promise. "A vivid scene of pampering.
After reading this, I really feel even sadder. It is difficult to be a bishop, but it is difficult to disobey the mother's orders. Although he is worried and helpless about the fate of his family under the protection of his old mother, even educating his children seems to be beyond his power. In the whole family, only the strict political grandfather can do nothing about educating children and can only succumb to the authority of women. This laissez-faire of Baoyu is actually a laissez-faire of the family's fate. The book reviewer said it well. If Baoyu was a little concerned about Xifeng, he wouldn't be ruined.
The charm of Jia Baoyu lies not only in Gao Fushuai, but also in his outstanding literary expertise, especially his high literary talent, which makes him the first genius in A Dream of Red Mansions. After the Grand View Garden was completed, Jia Zheng took the opportunity to test Jia Baoyu's talent, and the result was amazing and widely praised. However, Jia Zheng is too serious. Although he was happy, he did not take the opportunity to encourage him. Instead, he repeatedly scolded him and met such a father. Let him "write lyrics", and you won't get a juren and lose a poet. Jia Baoyu finally saw through the world of mortals and became a monk.
It seems that parents should not impose their wishes on their children, but should cultivate their children's interest in their own industries. If he doesn't obey, don't force him, or he will be killed. Today, more than 200 years later, a rich boy in Jiangnan, obsessed with animation and unwilling to inherit the family business, was forced by his elders to cut off four fingers to show that he would not compromise with his parents.
Rich second generation in today's society. Parents have worked hard to earn a huge family business, but their children sleep in superior material conditions. Jiang Jiajun, who killed someone with a BMW, has a big breath, and we know how much it will cost. Nowadays, it doesn't matter whether children study or not, and whether they can go to college or not. The assets at home are enough for him to eat for several lifetimes. What else do they need to fight for?
I think whether you are an official or a rich man, you are either busy educating your children, or you don't listen to education, or you have enough strength to let your children enjoy the best school education. In short, it was your own child who was delayed and ruined. Few parents in China don't regard their children as personal property. It may be controversial for me to say this, but I still think this is a common social problem. There isn't a parent in China who doesn't give their children enjoyment first, and then leave the difficulties to others, even to themselves. The richer the family, the more they feel that their children are full of extravagance. The richer the family, the more difficult it is for them to enjoy wealth. They even think that if they are not arrogant enough, they will not have money. If they are not arrogant enough, they will not show their privileges and values. Just like Hongyi's son in A Dream of Red Mansions, maids and servants huddle together, fearing that they won't take good care of them. There were so many people to take care of, and they were afraid that the maids would win them over, so Jia Baoyu's mother killed Qingwen and Chai Jin at all costs and drove Fang Guan and others away. Not only is it scary to hold it in your mouth, but it is also scary to fly in your hand. Even marriage cannot be too popular, and love cannot be impeached by parents. We don't have enough luxuries, enough fun, and the world is not big enough. It's best to go out of China, to Asia and then to the world!
Perhaps, they can't catch up with Jia Baoyu to some extent. Baoyu just loves to live in a pile of powder and doesn't act excessively. He doesn't like studying and doesn't make progress, but at least he has something in his stomach. In a way, he did not harm the whole society. The decline of his family is due to his lack of progress, which is beyond his power.
Today's rich second generation, they are not just spending money like water, they are becoming a cancer of society, they are crazy about racing cars, gambling, indulging in gambling, and even ... the doting of their parents and grandparents is also a fertile ground for these cancers to breed.
Alas! Baoyu's "Hongyi" is still homesick. What will the madness of the rich second generation miss today? Think deeply.
In fact, both the poor second generation and the rich second generation are actually the second generation of China people. From the point of view of citizens, there is no difference. Everyone should go to the same primary school, the same middle school and the same university. The so-called aristocratic schools are mostly private, and there are no specialized aristocratic universities. Equal education is the fundamental way of health education.
A typical case of Hu Bin, a rich second generation in Hangzhou, went back and forth, and was finally jailed. The fundamental reason lies in the unified mentality of the rich second generation, that is, they are superior, they are special citizens, money can buy everything, including the lives of others, and they have the freedom to be above the law without restraint. As long as we have this mentality, cases similar to the Hu Bin case will occur frequently. Coupled with legal loopholes and artificial extra-legal "compassion", such cases will be difficult to eliminate. Then, the rich generation should not miscalculate. Special can only make children more special.
Why can't Jia Baoyu run Guo Rongfu? Because he was born in an official's family, grew up in a nest of privileges and was raised in a honey pot, such a child can only learn to eat rouge, but can't do great things. If he did anything great, it was that he left a typical rich second generation image for China people. It is precisely because of this typical "empathy" characteristic that he left a good impression on future generations. Otherwise, Jia Baoyu, a rich second generation, will accomplish nothing. "Rich but not three generations" really should be on him, and today's rich generation has to think deeply.
If we want the rich second generation to really grow up and be at the forefront, we can only make them real ordinary citizens. Do what you have to do, go to school when you should go to school, and be a soldier when you should be a soldier. Don't let children learn to play privileges first. It is not a good thing to send children to school by helicopter. It is not a good thing to let them in and out of high-end entertainment places. You climb out of poverty and have basic immunity to human feelings, but children don't. This is the fundamental reason why the rich second generation can't become a climate. Jia Baoyu has given all the answers.
Part of the rich second generation's life has fallen in the snow. Just like a dream of red mansions written by Cao Xueqin, suddenly it seems that a building has collapsed! When I was poor, I realized that I didn't even have the ability to survive! The so-called survival of the fittest, the law of the jungle, the so-called strong and weak existence is not completely maintained between power and money! When you wake up one day and let the lost morality and conscience return, you have fallen into the trap of emptiness in the world! Money education is really worrying, but the spiritual loss of the rich second generation has become a major crux of society. Perhaps at this time, the parents of the rich second generation are still immersed in false satisfaction. I hope that the tragedy that should not happen in this world will not be staged again! I hope that materialism will not let conscience lose its moral bottom line! I hope more rich second generation can truly stand on their own feet and strive for their own lives with their own hands!
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. It is better to show wealth than to accumulate goodness. The accumulation of evil is bound to harm future generations. Although the accumulation of goodness is small, it will certainly bless future generations. I don't know when the rich and powerful people who are carried away by wealth can think of introspection and reflection. It is said that children always have the shadow of their parents, who are their first teachers. Think about it! Money and power are not empty in the end, but what kind of shade parents want to leave for their children! Isn't the selfishness of human nature a sword to destroy future generations? Did the crying of Li Gang's father and son really awaken and reflect on the dignitaries? Can it shock the powerful and enlighten the conscience?