Because what we leave behind is a part of ourselves; We must die for one life before we can enter another.

Being is transformation,

Transformation is maturity,

Maturity means constantly updating yourself.

French writer Anatole France.

First, the five senses of freshmen

Growing up in the countryside, I always dreamed of being admitted to a provincial university. Gao Gao has been working hard to realize this dream. The efforts finally paid off, and the tense college entrance examination was over. Gao Gao was finally admitted to a university in the provincial capital with the third place in the county. When I got the acceptance letter, I was so excited that I couldn't sleep for several nights. With longing and expectation for college life, she embarked on a train to the provincial capital.

Stepping into the university gate, I was fascinated by the beautiful scenery on campus. This is the place she yearns for!

However, the next thing is no longer proud and excited about Gao.

She found herself often lost in school, either unable to find the canteen or the classroom. She has never seen such a big school and such a complicated road.

One day in class, the teacher brought the projector, saw him sitting high in front, and said, "Please come and help this classmate." Gao Gao has never seen a projector at all. He doesn't know what to do at all, so he can only be at a loss. At that moment, she suddenly understood what "earth" was-she felt really earthy!

Gao went to the canteen to cook, because of his accent, he couldn't tell the difference between "four" and "ten", and was often laughed at by the canteen master. Gao Gao began to become silent, for fear of exposing his local accent as soon as he opened his mouth.

Even when I went to the hospital, Gao Gao was scolded by the doctor. Because I grew up in the countryside, I haven't been to the hospital, and I don't know how to explain my illness, or my classmates help her with the symptoms. Gao Gao still remembers the doctor's contemptuous eyes: "Look at you, look at others, how far it is!" I am still a college student and can't even speak. "

Students want to recruit new people and register twice with high confidence. However, because there is no specialty, it was rejected. This makes Gao Gao have a deeper sense of inferiority and a comprehensive doubt about himself. Gao Gao suddenly discovered that she knew nothing but exams. She can't save money in the bank, can't dance, can't snap her fingers like her classmates in the city, and doesn't know the brand of a famous car. ...

Gao Gao feels that she is inferior to others everywhere, and frustration is eroding her self-esteem more and more strongly. She thought that if she didn't go to college in the provincial capital and went to a normal school in her hometown, it wouldn't be so miserable. At the end of the first semester, she began to seriously consider whether to drop out of school.

Fortunately, Gao Gao didn't drop out of school. On the other hand, James Zhou was admitted to a key university four times and dropped out of school three times, once voluntarily and twice under compulsion. Because of the sudden "nobody cares", he is very uncomfortable, does not know how to arrange his life, and has no sense of collectivity. James Zhou felt lonely in the huge campus, so he fell in love with the Internet and games. ...

Gao Gao and I don't know, there are many people who feel as bad as them after going to college, and there are also many people who succeed today.

Bai, a famous host of CCTV. When he was admitted to Beijing from Hailar, a small border town, he was most afraid of being asked where he came from. He thinks Hailar is too small. In a TV program, Bai took out his photos of that year. In the photo, he wears a pair of big sunglasses, which covers half of his face. Bai said that wearing such a pair of big glasses is actually to "cover up something in my mind."

Yu, the famous headmaster of New Oriental. On the first day of being admitted to Peking University from the rural areas of northern Jiangsu, he walked into the dormitory with his luggage. On the upper bunk, a classmate from Beijing is reading The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich. He asked curiously, "Do you still want to read this kind of book when you go to college?" The students in the upper bunk didn't answer and gave him a contemptuous white look. At this glance, I felt deeply humiliated and inferior for a long time.

In fact, most freshmen will have a series of emotions and feelings because of the great event of "going to college".

Of course, most people will be excited at the moment they receive the university admission notice. Ten years of cold window finally ushered in "positive fruit", and a bright future seems to beckon on the horizon. The happy smiles of parents and teachers, the envious eyes of classmates and the praises of neighbors will all make the young people who are about to enter the university "feel great" unless the university or major he studies does not meet his ideal.

What is college life like? From the moment I left home and stepped into the school gate, countless information and new things came to my face. Especially those students from remote and poor areas, they have to face great environmental changes at once, as if they had entered another world from one world. Compared with the previous living environment, the world is huge and complicated, so huge and complicated that some people can't find the north for a while and feel dizzy.

Next, some students will experience the loss of "from prince to poor boy", and their former glory and pride will be eclipsed in the new coordinate system of the university. There are so many classmates who are better than me!

You're starting to have problems. But my parents are not around, and my classmates around me are still strangers. You need other people's care and help, and you are afraid to expose your shortcomings in communication, so you feel lonely.

Nobody told you that you would go through this after going to college. You entered the university with a bright future, but college life made you feel bad. You don't know that this is actually an adaptation process. You think you are the only one like this, and you don't know how to make yourself feel better. Many times, you don't know what you should do or where you should go. Confused, you may wonder if you should drop out of school. Or, lying on the internet all day, looking for success and being valued in games and chats.

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