Whether living in bungalows or buildings, especially buildings. Every day, we eat, watch TV, read novels, review lessons, write papers, and even sleep with the sound of closing the security door like a mountain in the downstairs community. People who hear this kind of voice are always happy, and those who are afraid of noise are even more complaining.
Then can we consciously be lighter when we close the security door? There are two kinds of people discussing this problem.
The first kind of people are really unconscious. Because this kind of person is not afraid of noisy, he (she) has a natural numbness to the outside interference, so he (she) will inadvertently be heavier when closing the security door. Such people, as long as a little reminder, will certainly pay attention.
The second kind of person is also the focus here. This kind of person is afraid of noisy, hears the voice that should not appear, and will do something in return in anger. You slam the door, I slam the door. The vicious circle caused the whole building to hear the sound of slamming doors. If you give advice to people who slam doors, there will be two results. One is that the results are good, mutual concern is light, and the relationship is developing harmoniously; But more is another result, he (she) will have thousands of reasons to refute you, hate each other more, open the door when you don't need it, and then slam the door. The phenomenon of slamming the door is getting heavier and heavier. Rather than have such a result, it is better not to mention opinions.
In particular, the latter accounts for the vast majority.
Another situation is that people are unconsciously closed, which is considered as conscious noise. People's hearts are not buddhas, but shit.
This is a cool autumn.