It's a destructive love.

The following is a story I reprinted:

There is a fable called Happy Little Fox, which tells that an old fox and a little fox live in a cave. The old fox is the father of the little fox, and the little fox's mother died at the hands of the hunter, so the old fox and the little fox hid in this cave to live. (Tips:

Because the little fox's mother died early, the old fox loved the little fox more.

Every night when I go to bed, the old fox looks at the little fox sleeping, and tears will keep flowing downwards, thinking of his wife's smile at him, the happy life of the original family of three, and their free life. All this makes it heartache.

At this time, the old fox secretly made up his mind to make the little fox the happiest fox in the world, and not let it suffer a little, even if it was beaten to pieces.

The old fox lives in fear every day, afraid that the hunter will hurt the little fox, afraid that other animals will attack the little fox, and afraid that the food doesn't suit the little fox's taste ... So whenever the old fox goes out hunting, he should shut the little fox in the hole, seal the hole tightly, and then try his best to catch the little animal. When he comes back, he always comes home with a full load, and the little fox lives happily under the care of his father. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! )

One day, Fox couldn't stand the loneliness in the cave. When the old fox went out hunting, he planned to sneak out of the cave and catch a small rabbit by himself, so that he could see it when his father came back.

Unexpectedly, the little fox just showed his head when he saw a wolf staring at it helplessly. Fox had never seen such a scene, and he was so scared that he was at a loss. He didn't run into the hole, but ran out.

Because the little fox stayed in the hole every day and ran too slowly, he was quickly caught by the fierce wolf. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! )

Too much love did not protect the little fox, but made it lose its instinct to adapt and escape, and finally did not get out of danger and died in the wolf's stomach.

Many parents have also made the mistake of "caring" like this old fox, doing everything for their children, taking care of them too much and protecting them too much.

On the road of children's growth, there is a gentle trap dug by parents who are too protective of their children. Children who fall into the trap are deprived of the opportunity to make mistakes and make corrections, and they also lose the right to grow up.

When mom starts to think about us, we must face up to ourselves and don't take her efforts for granted. People should have a grateful heart. No matter who they are, no one is born for others, including our mother.

Motherly love, or excessive love, is not wrong, but once the loved one thinks that this kind of love is right, it is the beginning of real destruction. Only when we understand that people can not only take, but also know how to give.

Once a mother's love exceeds the level of love and constantly meets children's endless needs, then children will naturally think that their mother should give them what they should. This habit was formed at an early age, not overnight. Therefore, this is also a two-sided thing, that is, a willingness to pay and a reckless requirement.