On the road of life, we will always encounter twists and turns. There are also dark corners in the bright sunshine; In a clear sky, there will be dark clouds floating over; When a huge ship sails at sea, it often meets the challenge of strong winds and waves; Vehicles driving on the earth are often blocked by mountains and rivers; In the process of getting along with others, you will also meet all kinds of people, or be considerate and knowledgeable; Or narrow-minded and unreasonable; Or cynical and emotional; Still tolerant, calm and calm. ...
Xunzi once said: "A group of wise men can tolerate ink, knowledge can tolerate fools, knowledge can tolerate shallowness, and essence can tolerate miscellaneous." The western proverb says: "The biggest thing in the world is the ocean, the sky is bigger than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." What is said here is the truth of tolerance. Tolerance is a broad mind and a lofty virtue. Don't be self-centered in life, understand and respect different opinions and behaviors. Even if you are reasonable, you can't be aggressive. You have to be reasonable, impose your opinions and actions on others, and respect others' free choice. Respecting others means respecting yourself and tolerating others, which will bring you a vast sky.
Tolerance is not easy, you need to have a broad mind. What should you do when your sincerity is regarded as childish, your courage as reckless, your flexibility as smooth, your concession as weak, your caution as conservative and your praise as irony? Hiding and crying badly? Crying can't change other people's views, but it's yourself who is sad; Talking about defending yourself? That can only be people's jokes after dinner; Shy to change yourself according to other people's opinions? That will make you lose confidence and lose yourself. Where there is no understanding, it will stimulate the power of self-esteem. Don't beg for understanding. If you don't understand, you won't have the trouble of not being understood; Without understanding, you will have a more open mind and the courage to turn back. Only by learning to be tolerant, be able to tolerate different opinions and let the wind and rain interweave together can we see the beautiful rainbow; Only by interweaving love and hate can we understand the value of true feelings; Only by keeping praise and criticism in mind can we shape ourselves completely and maintain a good character.
Tolerance is the best way to solve problems. When your courage overcame difficulties, your caution avoided mistakes again and again, your true feelings melted the ice in others' hearts, your flexibility turned us around, your concessions brought a vast world to both sides, your praise was unanimously recognized by the public, and people would understand you more and trust you more.
People need tolerance and understanding. Tolerance is a catalyst, which can eliminate barriers, reduce misunderstandings and resolve contradictions; Tolerance is a lubricant, which can adjust the relationship, reduce friction and avoid collision; Tolerance is a refreshing agent, which will make people feel comfortable, warm, confident and beautiful in this world.