That is, there is no independent source of income.
In fact, everyone who has experienced it, especially successful people, really means trying how to be a person, how to do things, how to study, and what school you are admitted to has no direct connection with your future.
Look at what schools all the great men studied in. Ma Yunxing Teachers College is a rotten school.
See how many good students there are in famous schools. Allison, the founder of Oracle Bone Inscriptions, studied in many universities, but never got a degree. . . . . Examples abound, and examples of laziness are also cited. So heroes are not afraid of humble origins. What is a junior college? It's just a name or literary criticism. What is literary criticism? This is just a piece of waste paper. People who have no skills or pursuits regard it as a treasure to make a living. People with ideals regard it as waste paper. I don't think you want to be a layman with no pursuit, so treat that Zhang Wen as waste paper.
Besides, you want to live a relaxed and happy life. If you say that as an adult now, I will give you a scolding, because it is a sign of incompetence and cowardice. As a thoughtful person, the purpose of our coming into this world is not only to live, but also to live a better life. When you are getting old, when you are about to climb into the coffin, you can look back and see what you have left in this world. Is it possible that there is nothing? The bigger a person's ideal, the happier he is. Let me tell you what the real meaning of relaxed happiness is. An engineer at Google plays games all day, works at night, writes programs until 4 o'clock in the morning and sleeps less than 6 hours. But he feels relaxed, because all he does is what he loves to do, and he is obsessed with the program. Let's give a counterexample. Neusoft's outsourcing programmers only work 12 hours a day. He feels very hard because he is not very willing to do what he does.
So it is easy to be divided into two kinds, one is to do nothing, but if you don't have a rich father, then you can't have this kind of life, and the other is to do what you like. It's simple.
The highest state of love is to love someone deeply and experience the bittersweet taste of loving others in your heart, and you can only get these, of course, these are also the best. Not the one who gets her body, because when you marry her home, you will find that she is nothing special. Like other women, she can only do laundry and cook, have children and be a housekeeper. Compared with these, the bittersweet taste is really the best when you are in love. Therefore, if you have paid for love and tasted the bittersweet taste, then you already have love, you have got the best thing in love, and the rest doesn't matter.