Wu Jiangling, Senior 3 (15)
My friend told me that she was very upset and couldn't find her own bright spot!
-Introduction
My friend, I was not surprised when you told me with a sigh that you were depressed today. Because I know that everyone has everyone's troubles, what matters is how we look at it. When I heard you tell me that you were worried about yourself, I had a lot to say to you.
You said you were short and ugly, for fear of affecting the city appearance. You always feel inferior in front of everyone, you can't find your own bright spot, and there is nothing to be proud of. For this, you are very upset. The first time I heard you say this, I smiled, because you have always been excellent in my eyes, both in appearance and personality!
The body is skin and bones, influenced by parents. Everyone's appearance is not for them to decide. We can be beautiful or not. I don't like people who dress themselves up or even change themselves for appearance, such as plastic surgery, which is what I hate most. When economic conditions do not allow, plastic surgery will not only bring economic burden, but also bring harm to your body and mind, and may even disfigure your face! Doing so not only wastes money, but also fails to live up to the best and most natural things our parents gave us. I want to say, to enrich yourself with knowledge, it is better to change yourself with plastic surgery and dress yourself with jewelry! A beautiful vase, no flowers, just an ornament. Life is short, and the glamorous time is even shorter. I don't object to people's pursuit of external beauty, but I am more in favor of shaping internal beauty.
Just like Professor Yu Dan, a famous scholar, her theory and conduct are admirable, and no one says she is not beautiful. When the "Top 50 Beautiful Women in China in 2007" was announced and she was elected as the third most beautiful woman in China in 2007 with "the beauty of connotation", Professor Yu Dan naturally and happily said an impressive and philosophical sentence: "Every woman lives by her beautiful appearance for the first 20 years, and depends on her self-cultivation for the rest of her life." What is true beauty? This is the real beauty! Each of us should be like her and be a person with aesthetic taste.
I see many bright spots of your beauty in you. You love learning and explore the beauty of life in the ocean of knowledge; You read poetry books, never listen to other people's advice, and really live a noble life; You have an extraordinary speech, and talking with you is a great pleasure in life ... in you, I found a brilliant light of human nature that others can't see. Self-cultivation, high spirits, in your heart, there is a bookish spirit, you always treat everyone with a sincere smile, you are the most beautiful, beautiful and natural, beautiful and connotative.
Friend, don't always ignore yourself, you should find your own bright spot. Just like pebbles, muscles are smooth and smooth, and walking out of the mountains can also decorate the highlights of life and realize their own value; Another example is a rock with rough skin and angular edges, which can also create magnificent mountains. Different stones have different values, even stones with completely opposite structures have their own uses. So do people. We can't ask ourselves to be perfect, but we should be good at discovering our own bright spots and strive to pursue and realize our own values!
Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. Everyone has a love of beauty. Look at beauty with a normal heart, and you will find:
External beauty is like a charming flower, which will soon fade.
Inner beauty is like a cup of tea, which lasts forever.
Friend, I hope you don't worry about your own shortcomings, but should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and find your most beautiful shining point!