Rockefeller educated his children well.
Rockefeller in America is a world-famous rich man. However, Rockefeller's six children did not enjoy this luxurious life. Luo's teaching method is "popularization". He stipulates that pocket money varies with age. The pocket money used should be recorded in detail. If not, it will be deducted when you get paid next week. Rockwell encourages children to take part in housework to get extra subsidies. Usually, it is the father who takes the lead in mending clothes for his children and letting them grow vegetables and raise rabbits.
In order to prevent children from eating enough, they spend money, limit bread, ban beef and even allow children to go out to play.
Legend has it that Rockefeller once asked his grandson to stand on a high place and jump. Rockwell gave a hug first. After his grandson came, Rockwell made him jump into the air and fall to the ground again. In this regard, Luo said to his grandson: Son, you have to rely on yourself for everything, and others are unreliable, including your grandfather. Only in this way can you become a great entrepreneur.
5. Different parents
David Brenner, a famous American comedian, turned to his father for help after graduating from high school. His father gave him a coin and told him, "Use this coin to buy a newspaper, read every word, then turn to the advertising column, find a job and go to the outside world." Later, David Brenner succeeded through hard struggle. In retrospect, the star thought his father's coins were "the best gift".
Unfortunately, many parents in China don't understand this truth. A wealthy parent transferred 50,000 yuan to his only child account in the first year of high school, creating a small "rich man". Therefore, the child hired classmates to help him carry his schoolbag on his way to school, and also hired classmates with good grades to help him with his homework. As a result, I got two firsts in school: deposit first and academic performance last. There is an ancient saying that "parents love their children, so they plan far-reaching", and this real "planning far-reaching" is to cultivate children's real independent ability. Lin Zexu also said: "Children and grandchildren are like me. What should I do with money?"? If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition; My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for? Foolish and rich, benefit to increase it. " This is really worth pondering.
6. Let children pursue independently.
It is said that adult African leopards will lead their children to catch up with their prey desperately, but when they are about to catch up with their prey, they will stop by themselves, meaning to let their children continue to catch up; But by this time, the little African leopard was out of breath and stopped.
So adult Africa bites the young African leopard with its mouth until the young African leopard continues to chase its prey. In nature, we can see this phenomenon everywhere. Mother yellowbird drove the feathered little yellowbird out of the nest and let it stand on its own feet. This is still the case in nature, let alone human beings.