At first, everyone seemed very stiff in front of some old people, but some active and outgoing students were very enthusiastic to drive everyone. Some elderly people suffer from Alzheimer's disease and so on. Students also chat with them patiently, help the old people tidy their clothes, wipe their furniture, listen to the old people tell their past and share their campus life with them. A small program was also performed for the old people, which made these lonely old people show happy smiles again.
Usually spoiled, we go out of the campus to the society and into old age. How fascinating it is to chat with old people like friends and listen to their stories. What's more gratifying is that some students actually took the initiative to go out to the canteen to buy things for the old people. We have prepared some fruits, snacks and moon cakes when we came. That's not enough. Those students use their usual pocket money to buy food for the elderly. This scene is deeply imprinted in my heart.
From morning till noon 12 o'clock, our group went to some old people's rooms. Condolences to the old people. When the old people eat, everyone will help the old people eat with the administrator who is responsible for distributing rice. Some old people are inconvenient to eat and must be fed at the same time. At this time, everyone is not as stiff as before, and students are scrambling to feed the elderly, although the movements are clumsy. But everyone smiled happily when they saw the old man's smiling face. I feel like family.
After 1 in the evening, after we have finished eating, the old people usually go out for a walk and exercise. There is a big yard in the nursing home, which contains a lot of sports equipment. Quite a few old people are walking and exercising. When they see us coming, they will play some small games with us.
Through chatting, we learned about the daily life of the elderly. Some old people can't stay at home, children are busy with work, and some are given by children. Although I was not used to it at first, I gradually got used to it after a long time.
The old man is happy here. When they have time, they will watch TV or play mahjong downstairs or upstairs in the shade, and some will do some simple sports downstairs. So the old people here are well-being in their later years.
Through this chat with the old people, we know a lot about their past experiences, their hardships, their desire for children and their hopes for us. ...
Most of the elderly living in nursing homes 1 floor have mobility problems. Many old people on the second floor have just lived here for less than a year. We went to the second floor and found some old people chatting with their children and some old people playing chess.
We felt sorry for an old woman who cried. Very sad. We talked with her patiently, and heard that she gave all her pension to her children, and the children sent her here regardless of her and rarely went to see her. A classmate and grandma said, "We are all your children." Another performance was given to grandma. Grandma just smiled through tears, and we reluctantly left.
Each of us will go through the process from childhood to youth, from youth to old age, and experience life and death. We are still in our youth, and there is still a long way to go in the future. I think everyone should know how to go on. Maybe when we finish our life journey and have a rest, will we spend our old age as happily as the old people in nursing homes?
There is a passage on the wall of the nursing home: children! When you were very young, I spent a lot of time teaching you to eat slowly with spoons and chopsticks. Teach you to tie your shoes, button, slide, dress, comb your hair and twist your nose. How much I miss these little things with you. So, when I can't think of anything, please give me some time, wait for me, let me think again ... at last I may forget what I want to say. Kid! We practiced hundreds of times to learn the first doll song, have you forgotten? Do you remember that I always have to rack my brains every day to answer I don't know where you come from? So, when I repeat the old story and hum the children's songs of my childhood, please understand me. Let me continue to indulge in these memories! I hope you can chat with me! Son, now I often forget to buckle my shoelaces and tie them. You will get dirty when you eat, and your hands will keep shaking when you comb your hair. Don't rush me, be more patient and gentle with me. As long as you are with me, there will be a lot of warmth in my heart.
Kid! Now I can't stand and walk. So, please hold my hand and walk slowly with me. Just like that year, I took you step by step.
There are always two floors in nursing homes, and there are rooms for the elderly on the first and second floors. Under the guidance of the staff, we spread out to chat with the old people. It is divided into several small suites. There are three old people living in a small suite, and there is a TV in the small living room. When we went in, we saw three mother-in-law sitting and watching TV. After sitting down, we inexperienced people are a little cold, and when we first came into contact with these old people, we were a little strange. We changed several topics, all in the form of questions and answers. "Are you used to living here?" "Are you used to living here?" "habit." "Is there any activity here?" "No." "Does your family often come to see you?" "yes." It was embarrassing. It lasted for three or four minutes. Later, when talking about family problems, a mother-in-law had tears in her eyes. We think she should remember some unpleasant things. Hey ~ ~ ~ I feel like we screwed up. Several times, we all tried to make her feel better, but the answer was basically "nothing". Later, we probably learned that quite a few of them didn't want to come here. They felt lonely and helpless to stay away from their children, in order not to provoke her pain and remember us again. We should not "chase after" the questions they don't want to answer, otherwise it would be a big mistake. .
About an hour later, we took the old man to a cool place in a wheelchair. We performed some small programs and sang some songs for the old people. Grateful heart, unity is strength. Dongfanghong also has original and modern versions of Royal Family Flowers ~ ~ ~ We have not prepared enough, and the connection between programs is not smooth enough. However, the old man is quite cooperative and willing to interact with us and have a good time. This is our only comfort. After the singing, some dances were performed to let some old people who like singing come up to speak for everyone. Near 1 1, we ended all the programs with the grateful heart chorus as the finale.
Early this morning, a group of five people from our team arrived at the nursing home with elaborate publicity pages and posters on mental health knowledge. The grandparents there are very happy to see us and are more curious about the mental health knowledge we are going to explain. Our nervousness suddenly eased a lot, and we all rallied our confidence. At the beginning of the activity, we helped some elderly people with mobility difficulties to enter the activity room. We handed them the purified water that had been prepared long ago, but those grandparents cared about giving us water to drink, which was very kind. After that, a classmate in the team explained the knowledge of mental health care to them, and grandparents kept nodding their heads to express their affirmation and approval. Grandparents kindly told us that you students should also pay attention to your health, study hard and make contributions to society. An old man sang "Dongfanghong" to us. We applauded and smiled excitedly, and the whole nursing home was filled with a happy and peaceful atmosphere. There is also a very talkative grandfather who kindly told us about their schooling at that time, and some children of his relatives went to normal universities. Finally, we took photos of every grandparents present, and promised them that we would visit them with photos after we developed them. They nodded expectantly.
It's been a few days since I practiced, but every time I think of the old man's face, I always feel moved and miss it. These people who were once as young and contributed their lives are getting old. They really need our more attention and care. I suddenly realized the burden on myself. When we grow up, we shoulder more responsibilities.
On the morning of February 25th, the sky was clear, and we made an appointment with several classmates to go to the nursing home for college students. We are no strangers to this nursing home. A few winter vacations ago, we participated in a series of condolence activities organized by schools and classes here, but today we organized it ourselves, and our hearts were full of tension and excitement.
Before the holiday, we sent blessings to the elderly in the nursing home, our living environment and days. Although we can't completely solve this problem for the old people, I hope the old people can be happy.
Five old people, uncle Huang, are in the house, reading with Ben. Compared with white hair, the wrinkles on the old man's forehead don't want to leave this land and disturb his children's lives because of himself. I thought that old man no longer knew us. After all, it's been a year. Who knew that the old man recognized us as soon as he saw us come in? Although he doesn't know our names, he remembers our faces. The old man happily called us into the house and asked if it was just the two of us. The old man looked very happy when he learned that there were more than two people coming. We told the old people that we were college students. My university is in Inner Mongolia, and my other classmate is here. When we talked to the old man, we began to clean. To tell the truth, the old man's room is neat and tidy, and there are few things. There are only a few articles for daily use and some old books on the bookshelf. He was a Chinese teacher in a middle school before he retired, and he has been in the habit of reading some essays since he retired.
The expectation of the next generation has shifted to our old man. The story is that we are constantly learning and doing many things. Judging from the old man's expression, the old man is really happy. Because I am not good at performing arts, my job is to bring tea and water to the old people here. His classmates can sing, dance and talk about Allegro, although these programs have not been rehearsed.
Near lunch, we had lunch with the old people in the canteen of the nursing home. Old people's food is always so simple, just like their daily life. We eat dumplings with the old people. Although there is not much material in the dumplings, the old man always has a bright smile on his face. Even if there is less material, the old man is still very happy because of our company.
Then we went to the nearby underground supermarket with the elderly, and bought several numbers of Spring Festival couplets for the elderly, which contained our infinite blessings to the elderly. In the new year, I am in good health and everything goes well. I took time out of my busy schedule to visit the old people and their children.
3 p.m.
We can't be angry with our parents, not serious about them. Parents love us the most in the world. How can we hurt them with selfless love?
After a long discussion and consultation, we decided that this summer practice activity was to visit the elderly in the nursing home for college students, and established the theme of this activity as "caring for the elderly and serving the society".
It's hot in August. It's unbearable. But instead of complaining about the hot weather, we are full of enthusiasm. Because we know that seemingly ordinary activities actually contain great life value, which is a virtue and a heart-to-heart communication between the elderly and college students.
On the way before coming, we were ready to visit the old people's things, with fresh fruit and milk, and took a bus under the leadership of Zhang Yiwei, a native of Wuhu. After an hour and a half of bumps, everyone came here-Wuhu Guandou Pension Center. Give the food to the staff, and the staff will make reasonable arrangements for the items and distribute them to the elderly.
We were received by an enthusiastic elder sister who was called Xiao Liu by the old people. Under her leadership, I briefly visited the nursing home, and the greening in the hospital was quite good. In addition, in the suburbs, surrounded by flowers and trees, the air is very fresh. Of course, this is of great benefit to the health of the elderly.
When we were walking around the nursing home, we saw several old people sitting in the shade to enjoy the cool. At this time, they are playing the game of fighting landlords with relish, which is a lively scene. There are also some old people who can't help but be curious about us. They directly asked Sister Liu about our history and praised us.
The nursing home is divided into two floors, and most of the elderly living on the first floor are inconvenient to move. There are dozens of rooms on each floor, and two old people live in each room. After a tour, the facilities inside are still very complete, including TV, bathroom and fan. In the center of the yard, there are some fitness equipment for the elderly to exercise. Generally speaking, this is a good place for the elderly to enjoy their old age.
Because it was already very clean, we didn't do much, which was really awkward. We can only chat with the elderly as much as possible, temporarily play their relatives, make the elderly happy, and then leave good memories for their future lives.
At the stairs, an old man asked us what we were doing here, so we chatted with the old man and learned that there were not a few caring students like us. The old man praised us a few words, but our team members made fun of the old man and patted their chests narcissistically and said, "That's necessary. We are all successors of the new era. You should do this, shh ... "Keep a low profile, not just for us.
Accompanied by sister Liu, we came to grandma's room. The hair on this old woman's head is already silver, and her once beautiful face is already wrinkled. Grandma Wang is very kind. Seeing that the weather was very hot, we were flushed and sweaty, so she stood up and brought us the fan that she and her roommate had gone out. Seeing us laughing and shaking our heads, the old man insisted on cooling the fan at us, revealing her teeth. Our group was very moved, so we spontaneously formed a circle around the old man and listened to the old man tell her past stories.
Meanwhile, I saw a cattail leaf fan beside the old man's bed. I was afraid that the old man would be hot, so I picked up a cattail leaf fan to fan the heat for the old man, just like grandma shook the cattail leaf fan and hummed when she was a child. Unexpectedly, one of them was caught off guard, and the old man was so popular that the cattail leaf fan was snatched away by the old man and left behind. While thinking about how to get the fan back, the old man shook his head and smiled and said kindly, good boy, grandma is not hot, no need, you should rest quickly. I pouted helplessly and nodded. The little friends couldn't help laughing when they saw this situation. Looking back on such a happy picture now, I still feel very kind, with smiles and memories all over my face.
When we came to another room and were talking to an old man, an old man, who was surprised, saw us and showed an embarrassed expression, trying to express something, but didn't say anything at last. For a long time, I slowly took out a pen and a notebook from under her pillow and wrote a line' I'm deaf and dumb, and I'm eighty-six years old', perhaps because I was so excited that my hand holding the pen kept shaking and my words were crooked. Through the introduction of the staff, I learned that the old man became deaf and dumb because of an accident when he was young.
Hearing this, look at that wrinkled face again. Our hearts are sour and suddenly full of respect and pity. We spend the longest time in the old man's room, just to spend more time with him. The old man is optimistic, and we are also enthusiastic and cheerful. Words can't describe it, so words have become the most powerful communication tool. When optimism collides with youth, the room is full of happiness, and for a time, the old man's room is full of laughter. We reluctantly bid farewell to the old man, and everyone took the initiative to leave a message in his notebook. The worker wrote a few words, between which were our deep love and good wishes for the old man. In a blink of an eye, it's five o'clock in the afternoon. If we don't leave, there will be no bus. We can only reluctantly say goodbye to the old man and promise to come again next time. We bid farewell to the old man, who waved to us. The parting scene is really tear-jerking.
On the way back, everyone was discussing the feelings of this practical activity, and they couldn't help feeling deeply. No one will spend his old age in a nursing home unless he has to. The old people we saw in the nursing home live a happy and comfortable life. However, what we can't see is that when the night comes and loneliness begins, the old people are still mentally concerned about their children, thinking about the past scenes of family harmony, whether their children are well now, and whether their lovely little grandson is growing taller and fatter now.
We don't know how the old man tossed and turned at night and how he cried. Who knows their melancholy and sadness, their loneliness. We know that some children can bring happiness that we can't. What society gives them is only material security, and what we bring them is only temporary happiness. However, even so, we will still contribute our strength and bring some comfort and warmth to the elderly. I hope there will be more opportunities for us to carry out such meaningful activities in the future.
Several days have passed, but every time I think of the old man or his kindness or vicissitudes, I always feel moved and miss him. The sublimation of my own value brought by this summer social practice is more about my understanding of my parents. I think in the future, although we can't stay with our parents all the time, we can try our best to make use of high-tech products and our real concern for our parents so that parents will no longer feel lonely and lonely. Fortunately, I didn't choose to work this summer vacation, but stayed with my parents, spoiled, spoiled and did housework. Because, such warm scenes will only become less and less in the future, and I should know how to cherish them.
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