Someone once said: "There are four things that are indispensable for a person, namely, self-esteem, self-confidence, self-love and self-improvement." Among them, "self-esteem" is the headline. One must respect oneself, not bow and scrape to others, nor allow others to discriminate and insult. Of course, we should also safeguard the self-esteem of others, because self-esteem is priceless.

I thought, "If a person loses his self-esteem, then his life will certainly lose its fun. Others will think that he is weak and bullying, so he will discriminate against him and insult him. " If you want others to respect you, you must first respect yourself. Once the teacher asked a classmate who raised his hand to answer a question in class, but the classmate couldn't answer it. After class, the teacher talked to this classmate and learned that he felt afraid of being laughed at by his classmates if he didn't raise his hand, so the teacher reached an agreement with him. If he knew it, he raised his left hand, and if he didn't know it, he raised his right hand. From then on, the teacher only let him know and answered questions, so the student's academic performance made rapid progress. I think it is this teacher who has safeguarded students' self-esteem and made their grades improve rapidly. This shows how important self-esteem is!

My home is away from home, and I came to Shanghai to study with my parents. On the first day of school, when I introduced myself, I said I was transferred from other places. Although there are no expressions on those strange faces, I have a sense of inferiority somehow. Is it because I am not from Shanghai? Is it because I feel that learning can't compete with them? I don't know. There seems to be a wall between my classmates and me. This wall looks thick, but it's not. It seems that I can pierce it as long as I reach out, but I have no courage and motivation. This wall is getting thicker and thicker in my mind, and even I don't know when to get along with my classmates. This mood is slowly eating away at my self-esteem. The confident smile in the past faded a little, and finally disappeared without a trace on my face, and I can't find it anymore. I live in the shadow of inferiority every day. Careful mother saw my change, and after listening to my talk, enlightened me and said, "Now you feel inferior, hit yourself first, and you will be more vulnerable in front of your classmates!" " Let alone surpass them! What you have to do now is to study hard. Don't let others underestimate you! "I was suddenly enlightened and studied harder and harder. Hard work will always pay off. In this final exam, I found that I can compete with the best in my class, which is quite different from what I used to feel. I used to be afraid to compete with these best people. Now, I dare! I will shout, "I can do it! "".I no longer feel inferior, confident smile returned to my face. I found my self-esteem and finally got out of the shadow of inferiority complex, which finally made me understand that "self-esteem is priceless!" "

I think you have to have self-esteem so that others can respect you. Before the weight of self-esteem, everyone is equal, because: self-esteem is priceless!

There is a story that a businessman in new york felt sorry for a pencil salesman who was in rags. He threw 1 yuan into the pencil cup and walked away. But he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he hurried back to get some pencils from the pencil seller and apologized for forgetting to take them. I hope you don't mind. At last he said, "You and I are both businessmen? D unloading? Gluttony? Sorry, I prefer to live in a mansion! ? A few months later, at a social occasion, a well-dressed salesman met the new york businessman and introduced himself: "You may have forgotten me, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You gave me back my self-esteem. I always felt like a beggar selling pencils until you told me that I was a businessman. "

I didn't expect a simple sentence from a businessman in new york to make a person in trouble regain his confidence and finally make gratifying achievements through his own efforts.

It is really important to sympathize with a person in trouble, extend a warm hand and give him (her) selfless help, but more importantly, we should also make him (her) aware of his/her self-esteem and value-only by fully believing in ourselves can we make up our minds to get out of trouble and prove that we are by no means a weak person.