Independent living is a big problem for middle school students now. Everyone is spoiled by their parents at home, living a mouth-to-mouth life. Letting me live on campus this semester really gave me a problem.
On the first day of campus life, I was very excited. After reporting for school, when my parents walked back to the dormitory after school, I felt very uncomfortable. I usually see my parents when I go home every day, but I can only accompany them on weekends in the future. In the evening, we started the first day of evening self-study. Sitting in the classroom, I was thinking, I have to wash clothes and tidy up before going to bed. I seldom do this at home. When I turned off the lights and went to sleep, I was lying in bed and just saw the moon outside the window. So, I watch the moon fall asleep every night.
It's finally the Mid-Autumn Festival. How happy we are on this reunion day! When I saw other people's parents come to the dormitory and ask their children to go home for the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was very sad when I saw that their parents bought a lot of things to give to their children. I went back to my dormitory and made instant noodles. When I was eating noodles, my eyes were full of tears. I picked up the phone and called my father. I am sorry to hear my father's voice. I was sad when my father told me to go home. When my father asked me what I was eating, I was even sadder. I replied that when I was eating instant noodles, my father said in a high voice, "How can this be done?" I said, "Yes, that's good. You can give something delicious tomorrow. " I choked a little when I said this sentence, and it was not easy to say it. But when I think that it will be a long time to live independently in the future, I will become strong and be alone.
In the evening, I came back from studying at night and looked at the sky. There was no moon. I am so disappointed. I only hope that the moon will accompany me in the Mid-Autumn Festival, but I didn't expect even the moon to accompany me. Why do people have such a reaction: they usually go out and don't feel homesick. Speaking of festivals, homesickness is really painful.
This Mid-Autumn Festival, I just ate instant noodles. Although I felt uncomfortable, this night laid a little foundation for my independent life in the future. I will gradually learn to live independently.
2. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
I have been a little girl with clothes and food since I was a child. My parents will buy me anything they want.
As time went by, I grew up gradually. I thought I would be loved more like a princess when I grew up, but God seems to be against me. When I grow up, my parents are busier at work, and I have to go to school to learn all kinds of knowledge. Although I can stay with my parents after work every day, I can't avoid the troubles of living independently.
Once, the teacher sent us a leaflet saying that there was a summer camp with two routes-Beijing and Shanghai, and we volunteered to participate. Out of curiosity, I signed up for the Beijing route of this summer camp. But I later learned that the summer camp must go alone, and my parents can't accompany me. My heart was suddenly empty and I regretted signing up for this summer camp. But now that I have signed up, I can't help but go! So, I still grit my teeth.
After the summer camp started, I finally began to live independently, although only for six days. It's really hard for me to finish all our things alone in these six days. We all have to get up early in the morning, sometimes after five o'clock, sometimes after six o'clock or even after three o'clock. After getting up, you should brush your teeth and wash your face, comb your hair and braid your hair, fold the quilt and tidy your clothes. You should take care of everything when you play, and the teacher won't help you "deposit". You may lose something. At night, we have to take a shower, pack things, change clothes and charge our mobile phones ... In short, this life is not easy.
However, after two or three days, although I will inevitably miss my parents, I will gradually get used to such an independent life and learn to be independent. I find it not difficult to live independently!
3. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
In the era of rapid development of science and technology and information explosion, there are countless channels for people to contact the world, mainly mobile APP and network platform. Can an open world bring people only rich and varied lives? I don't think so. The information world seems to be drawing nutrition from people's spirit.
Judging from the ten most commonly used mobile phone applications after 00 displayed in the data, entertainment has become the theme of people. People have no mind or time to dig deep-seated content in the torrent of information, but just let those pieces of information in WeChat and Weibo that are difficult to distinguish between true and false or even false fill their loopholes-of course, this is futile. When people's faces are hung with smiles that have nothing to do with themselves, when players' family affairs become the norm, and when the spirit of entertainment to death permeates everyone's heart and becomes a creed, people will indulge in pleasure, only greedy for instant pleasure, draw a prison in their fairy tales, and can no longer bear a little pressure brought by the truth of life. Therefore, behind the entertainment bubble is the rising rate of depression and even suicide.
At the same time, easy contact with the world has also brought about the homogenization of people, especially for the younger generation. In Weibo, the United States and other places, people are too easy to see the mainstream trend of the world, too easy to realize that they are different from the mainstream, and too easy to bury themselves in it-how many people have abandoned their own ideas, abandoned themselves, and believe that the mainstream is the correct truth to cater to the world? In this way, the world cuts the unique edges and corners of people as individuals, gathers people into the same sardines, and floats with the waves in the ocean of information.
Therefore, we have to worry about the spiritual death in Proust's works. In the era of losing the other, no one doubts, no one goes against the current, only the rabble who is uniform but at a loss. People have lost their independent thoughts as individuals, thus losing the light of the collision of ideas in the group. Such a group of silent people, constantly expanding, eventually went to the abyss, bringing a stagnant society.
Some people may say that APP is not so guilty, but we only hope that everyone will maintain the right to think independently and the courage to go upstream.
How to break this situation? I hope, as Mr. Lu Xun said, it can shine and it can heat up. If everyone can find his own voice, return to his true self, and adhere to the concept of being abandoned by the times and caught by the world, then he can become a brave person, a person with courage and wisdom to think independently, and will not be overwhelmed by the flood of information, but will eventually split his own path from it.
4. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
I am the little sun at home and the apple of my parents' eye. I want everything except a free space. My parents have kept me at home like a bird since I was sensible. Therefore, books and TV have become my ways to kill time. I seldom go out, and my parents always say there are many bad guys out there. If something happens, it's too late to regret it. So even if I want to go somewhere, I am guarded by my parents, as if afraid that bad people will rush out and take me away.
I didn't agree with my parents before, because I think children all over the world are praised by their parents in this way, but since I read this article about Uta, my thoughts have completely changed. This text is mainly about a 14-year-old German girl who traveled to Europe alone. When I read this article, I was very surprised. Because in China, it is impossible to travel all over the city where you live, let alone travel to Europe at the age of 65,438+04. Especially reading that Wuta can earn money to buy gifts for his parents and younger brother, I think it is "impossible". It is beyond my imagination to earn money to buy gifts by myself, let alone buy them abroad. At home, I want to buy things, and my parents "go out" by themselves. So I know nothing about the quality and price of goods, let alone know the price of goods like Uta. The first time I bought something by myself was 10 years old. That day, in the "Good Housekeeper" supermarket, my mother gave me a "sacred" task, which was to buy three bags of red wine for my mother. After listening to this, I jumped three feet with joy. Because I finally have a chance to show my talent. Mother carefully said the name and place of origin of red wine three times before letting me buy it. She also said that she would wait for me at the cashier. I happily found the red wine I wanted to buy and ran back with three bags. But when I got to the cashier, I couldn't find my mother. I turned around like an ant on a pot. Later, I found my mother through the radio. Looking at my mother, she seems to be crying. She saw me and scolded me, "Where have you been? I am worried to death. " I haven't bought anything since then.
Now that I think about it, I feel that my mother is so tight that she doesn't even give me room to show freely, as if I were a wax figure. As soon as she let go, I melted. That's why I don't know what to do when I encounter problems. Here, I appeal to parents who can't let go of their children: please don't leave their children at home any more, it's not good for them. Only by putting them in a vast space can they fly freely and be independent!
5. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
Time flies, slipping through my fingers, I can't catch up with it and I can't pull it back. However, time has left its mark. I have changed from that ignorant child to a middle school student of 13 years old, and my parents have gradually grown white hair. When the bird grows up, it will spread its wings and fly to the vast blue sky. Turtles come out of their shells and swim to the endless ocean, but they can't be separated from their parents like flowers in a greenhouse. So, have you really grown up?
This society is complex and changeable, and everyone should have the courage to survive and struggle in this society. Even if the result is to hit a wall everywhere, we must face the difficulties. Even if life gives up on you, you must never give up on yourself. In everyone's heart, there will be a piece of ice solidified by difficulties, waiting for its owner to melt it with the will of never giving up, even if it is strong. So, are you afraid of this ice?
The bitterness of life lies in choice; The difficulty in life lies in giving up. We are our own masters, don't be puppets of others, learn to be independent, learn to dominate ourselves, learn to distinguish right from wrong and choose independently. So, have you learned to control yourself?
Parents are our eternal teachers, but they can't accompany us forever. Sooner or later, dandelion seeds will leave their mother's body, be carried around the world by the wind girl, and then land, take root, sprout and live independently in this world. And its "mother" may have lost all her hair. Our parents will be gray-haired one day, too. At that time, maybe you have achieved something; Maybe you are still looking for a job, but you were rejected because you can't live without your parents. So, you are like a dandelion seed? Or are you still inseparable from your parents?
So, are you such a person? The answer is self-evident.
Life now is like a gambling game, and your dreams are extremely precious chips. And firmness, independence, not giving up and a little luck are your playing cards, which will help you succeed. However, if you don't use them, even if you have great skills, you are doomed to lose to life. So, for the sake of dreams and success, don't lose this long and difficult gamble.
Let's sail in the boat of life, steer and sail in person, and sail in the ocean of society! Let's be brave and strong like gladiolus!
6. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
Dale Carnegie once said: "If young people want to live successfully, they must learn to stand on their own feet, remove the obstacles lying in ambush everywhere, educate him at home, and let him have an independent personality recognized by people." We can see that whether a person has the capital for success depends on whether he can accomplish everything independently.
Nowadays, children are spoiled by their parents as "the apple of their eyes" and have no idea of independence. One of Sun Yunxiao's works is "Summer Camp Competition", which mainly records1August, 992, a summer camp for grassland exploration held by Chinese and Japanese teenagers in Inner Mongolia. The activity fully exposed the survival ability of children in China and many problems existing in youth education in China. Why do children in China lose to Japanese children? Are children in China really inferior to Japanese children? Sun Yunxiao's article is intended to warn Chinese people to get rid of the strange circle of doting on education and cultivating "little emperors" and "little princesses" and let people really learn to stand on their own feet.
There is a legendary entrepreneur, perhaps you all know his name, and he is Shi Yuzhu, the chairman of Giant Group. His father is the director of the Public Security Bureau, and arranged a job for Shi Yuzhu in the Statistics Bureau, so that he can live a stable life. But Shi Yuzhu didn't want his life to be too dull, so he quit his job in the Statistics Bureau and came to Shenzhen to start a business with his own software and only seven or eight thousand dollars. In order to spread the software he wrote, Shi Yuzhu planned to put an advertisement in the newspaper, but the advertising fee was 10,000 yuan, so Shi Yuzhu had to be in debt and put it in the advertisement. Shi Yuzhu made more than one million dollars after the advertisement was published. Shi Yuzhu's efforts step by step will make him a famous entrepreneur in China. If he hadn't come to Shenzhen to start his own business, he might have married and had children and lived a dull life.
This small success has made this giant a great success in the future. Shi Yuzhu's later success was due to his independent spirit. Shi Yuzhu's story shows how important independence is. We have grown up and don't need to rely on others' help. Because one day we all have to solve many things by ourselves. If you still rely on your parents' arms and refuse to be independent, then even if you step into society, you will definitely be eliminated by society.
Only by learning to be independent can we succeed for ourselves and make our country more prosperous and powerful. Teenagers, come out of your parents' greenhouse. You will never grow up in a greenhouse. Only by learning to be independent and knowing independence can we become the pillars of the country!
7. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
Gorky said: "Books are the ladder of human progress." In the summer vacation, I read a book called Robinson Crusoe, which contains many philosophies of life.
The content of this book is: Robinson is a man who loves sailing. He abandoned his rich family and embarked on a journey alone. Unfortunately, a strong wind blew on the way and blew him to a desert island. So he began to live on an island. He saved the savage "Friday"; On the isolated island, he reclaimed wasteland for planting, kept animals in captivity and learned to stand on his own feet. One morning, Robinson was awakened by Friday. There used to be an English ship moored nearby. He found a rebellion on the ship and the sailors kidnapped the captain. Robinson and Friday saved the captain, who happily promised to take them back to England. Robinson finally returned to England after sailing on this ship for half a year. Ended his 28-year island life.
I like Robinson very much because he learned to survive in confusion. He is brave and clever. In our society, many children are brought up in the doting of their parents, spoiled by their parents and will not be independent. General Napoleon once said, "Many people are not reliable enough. We have to rely on ourselves to survive." Similarly, if we rely too much on our friends and parents for everything, we can't adapt when we want to live independently. However, on the other hand, we usually live independently, and we can face some unexpected things independently and solve them with a calm and heavy mind. Just like some people, when their parents are not at home, they can't cook and eat. When mom and dad come back, they would rather be hungry than do it themselves. On the contrary, some people are not. Like Robinson, they learn to be independent and support themselves, instead of living beyond their means by asking for clothes.
Robinson is a great man and a determined man. He has lived alone on this isolated island for 28 years. He dared to fight against the harsh environment, worked hard and managed the island in an orderly way. He exercised himself in adversity and achieved an extraordinary career. This book teaches us that only persistence can win, and only hard work can get rid of difficulties. Hard work is more important than faith.
I will remember this book, and I will grow up with it and live independently!
8. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
Housebirds under the eaves will never fly in the blue sky, children around their knees will never run far, and nations that rely on others will never stand on their own feet in the world. "Self-reliance" is the need of the nation of the times, especially our teenagers. If everyone can stand on their own feet, then there is hope for the country and the nation.
We should all learn to stand on our own feet, which will help our future. Some people are used to the life of "clothes stretch out their hands, food opens their mouths" and don't want to stand on their own feet, which is very harmful to their own development. Because it will not only make people lack the sense of responsibility in life, but also cause personality defects. They just want to get something for nothing and enjoy it, so they can't adapt to social life, even endanger society and others, and embark on the road of illegal crimes. Therefore, it is very important for us to learn to stand on our own feet.
Self-reliance means doing your own thing well. Family is the cradle of our growth, and school is the greenhouse of our growth. However, we can't live in the early cradle and greenhouse forever, and we will eventually enter the society and see the world through wind and rain. Self-reliance, as a process of growth, is a process of exercising our living ability and developing good moral quality. We should constantly improve ourselves, learn self-esteem, enhance self-confidence and raise legal awareness. Gradually learn to understand and respect others, be good at communicating and interacting with others, harmoniously integrate into society, care for and contribute to society, and become a self-reliant person who is responsible for himself, others and society.
We can never depend on our parents, and we will leave them one day. If we can't consciously reserve knowledge, exercise our ability and cultivate the spirit of self-reliance with the help of our parents from now on, it will be difficult for us to stand on our own feet in the future society. Therefore, life needs self-reliance.
In social life, we need to help each other and depend on each other. Self-reliance is not refusing to help, and dependence is not relying. If you want to live independently, you should be responsible for your own affairs. In the face of all kinds of things in life, only when we are clear about our responsibilities and dare to take on their responsibilities can we become truly self-reliant. We should also cultivate our self-reliance ability. The most basic thing is to base on the problems in current life and study, start from small things, and cultivate your self-reliance ability. At the same time, you should boldly engage in social practice and practice it repeatedly in social life to gradually improve your self-reliance ability. We should bid farewell to dependence and move towards self-reliance.
9. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
Learning to be independent is a very difficult thing. Only after experiencing the test of life and understanding the truth can we learn to be independent. Growing up in a difficult situation will make you see life more thoroughly and make you more independent. The breakup of friendship made me understand a lot of truth and learn to be independent.
Xiaohong and Xiaoli used to be very good friends, but because of some things, Xiaohong and I broke up completely, and our relationship with Xiaoli will not become as good as before.
When you have a good relationship with them, go to their seats to chat and play after school. I play whatever they play. At that time, how carefree, free and happy we were. On Saturday and Sunday, they invited me to go shopping, so did I. After shopping, we all share food with each other. Xiaohong had no money when making up lessons, so I invited her to have breakfast. At school, Xiaohong saw that pineapple wanted to eat, but she had no money, so I invited her to eat.
Once, there was a basketball game at school, and she asked me to participate, so I took part. But I play basketball badly, and she plays basketball well. Then we formed a contrast. She wanted to practice playing basketball on Saturday and Sunday, but none of us had basketball, so she decided to buy a basketball for three. After a few days, they all said they had no money, and finally I bought a basketball by myself. Ming Festival is a festival. I asked them to accompany me to get my glasses. They told me that they would go to Tomb-Sweeping Day for three days without me. On the last day, I invited Xiaohong to go shopping with me, and then she told me that she was incompetent. When they called me, I accompanied them; I called them, but they didn't accompany me.
From this, I learned that they didn't really make friends with me. They just asked me to accompany them and invite them, which led me to have no pocket money and nothing to buy. After understanding, I stopped playing with them and began to learn to do anything by myself and take a bold step forward. After I stopped playing with them, only Xiaoli asked me why and continued to be friends with me. And my closest friend Xiaohong ignored me, and she ignored me. If I don't keep this friendship, will it break up? This really chills me. Ten years of friendship! I can't hold on to any setbacks.
At school, I started going to the teacher's office alone and going to the toilet alone. In short, I am alone. I also began to make friends again, to make friends who can give my heart to others, and I will never make friends blindly as before.
Learning to be independent is really difficult. It takes a lot of courage, and it takes setbacks in life to become independent gradually. Ah, let me learn to be independent! Don't be so weak as before!
10. Junior high school composition should learn to live independently.
I stared at a bus stop sign full of words, frowning and looking for something carefully. Hey! Look at my memory. For the first time in my life, I took a bus alone and forgot to ask my parents which bus to take! I suddenly have a feeling of hating iron for not turning into steel. Why can't my brain remember for a long time! Finally, I smiled after standing there for 10 minutes, and the frown that had been locked for 10 minutes finally unfolded. I found it! In a dense pile of words, I found the most lovely words-Bus No.6 Company, within the route of No.37 bus. As the saying goes, many things happen, and I just tasted it today. Speaking of Cao Yao, I just found the No.37 car and it came. When I got on the bus to pay the money, I "stood" safely on the bus, because there were not many people on the bus, but there were no seats, alas! In this society, I don't expect anyone to give me my seat!
The bus is walking slowly. I looked at the retrogressive building outside the window and suddenly felt that I had grown up and left my parents' hands. Without my parents' cage, I fly freely in the air like a caged bird. Unconsciously, the bus stopped, and a sudden brake made me stagger, just like a sapling blown down by a strong wind. Inadvertently, I felt my head hit something soft and warm. When I threw my head back, my glaring face was distorted. "Yes ... I'm sorry." My face is like a ripe persimmon-my face is blushing. Fortunately, my aunt seems to be in a good mood today. She ignored me, but turned away, and the embarrassing scene disappeared. Nervous, I suddenly thought of my parents' hands. I always hold my hand when I brake. Don't! I can't hold my parents' hands, I must learn to be independent. I set myself a goal-learn to be independent!
Today, I just took a small step towards "independence". I have made up my mind to move towards it even if it is a small step. Because the road of life can't be smooth sailing everywhere, if you cling to the dependence given by your parents, you will become fragile when you lose your parents one day. You dare not try, you can't do anything, you will be disheartened and will not face setbacks. Let's make up our minds to "learn to be independent" and remember that we are eagles waiting to take off. "Independence" is our wing. Let's sprint the sky together!