Many times, we don't fall on our own shortcomings, but on our own strengths, because defects often remind us, and strengths often make us get carried away.
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Since you have signed the contract, you must strictly abide by it, which will not only appear honest, but also avoid unexpected losses. It is unacceptable to only see the immediate interests without strictly performing the contract.
Three travelers
Three travelers went out in the morning. One traveler brought an umbrella, another traveler brought a cane, and the third traveler brought nothing.
When I came back in the evening, the traveler with an umbrella was drenched with water. The traveler with crutches fell down and was injured, but the third traveler was safe and sound. So the traveler in front was puzzled and asked the third traveler, "How can you be all right?"
The third traveler didn't answer, but asked the traveler with an umbrella, "Why did you get wet and didn't fall?" ?
The traveler with an umbrella said, "When the rain came, I walked boldly in the rain because of the umbrella, but I didn't know how to get wet;" Walking on the muddy and bumpy road, I walked very carefully because I didn't have crutches, so I chose a flat place to walk, so I didn't fall. " ?
Then, he asked the traveler on crutches, "Why didn't you get wet and fall?" ?
The man on crutches said, "I didn't get wet when the rain came, because I didn't bring an umbrella." Walking on the muddy and bumpy road, I walk with crutches, but I don't know why I often fall down. " ?
The third traveler smiled and said, "That's why you got wet with an umbrella and fell down with a cane, but I was safe." When the rain came, I avoided walking. When the road was bad, I walked carefully, so I didn't get wet or fall. Your mistake is that you have the advantage of relying on it, and you think that if you have the advantage, you will have less trouble. "
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Many times, we don't fall on our own shortcomings, but on our own strengths, because defects often remind us, and strengths often make us get carried away. ?
Persevere in overcoming all difficulties?
If someone tells us that a young man who is paralyzed in the central nervous system, severely weakened in muscles, unable to move, unable to write by hand, and unable to speak clearly, has been in a wheelchair all his life, relying on a small bookshelf, a small blackboard and a former student as an assistant, he has made great achievements in the research of black hole explosion theory, a frontier field of astronomy, by analyzing the specificity of the "black hole" critical line. However, this is an indisputable fact, for which he won the Einstein Prize of 1980. ?
His name is Stephen? The Englishman Hawkin is only 35 years old. More interestingly, as an astronomer, he has never used an astronomical telescope, but he can tell us many secrets about the movement of celestial bodies. He is pushed to the studio of Cambridge University every day to do his interesting research work. ?
We often marvel at those "ghosts" who have a weak professional knowledge base but have made outstanding achievements in one or some special aspects and fields. In fact, Hawking's research methods and means, as well as his high achievements, show that there is another kind of "ghost talent" in the world, that is, special insight or special talent inspired by unfortunate torture such as disability and fierce will to survive. They are a kind of smart people. They know that as long as the thinking brain, the essence of human beings, is still working vigorously, there will be unlimited life hopes and creative potential, and there will be no insurmountable difficulties. Here, pessimism or optimism, strength or cowardice, progress or retreat, persistence or independence, like efficient and reliable valves, open the way to success or self-destruction for the survival wisdom of the disabled. ?
Hawking won the highest honor of theoretical physics research recognized by the scientific community. How many theoretical physics researchers with sound health and first-class working conditions can win such an honor?
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For a real winner, no matter what his living conditions are, he will never erase his hidden wisdom or belittle the possible height of life. He will persevere to overcome all difficulties, explore the best growth point of his talent, and make steady progress towards the highest goal of life. ?
If you don't lose hope, you can do something.
When Jones was a farmer, he was healthy and worked very hard. Run a small farm near Atkinson. But he can't seem to make his farm produce more products than his family needs. This kind of life lived year after year, and suddenly something happened! ?
Jones is paralyzed and bedridden, but he is old and has almost lost his ability to live. His relatives are convinced that he will always be a patient who has lost hope and happiness. There is nothing he can do. However, Jones did make a difference. His behavior brought him happiness, which was accompanied by the success of his career. ? In what way did Jones create this miracle? Yes, his body is paralyzed, but he can think. He is really thinking and planning. One day, while he was thinking and planning, he made his own decision. He wants to learn from himself.
Turn creative thinking into reality where you are. He wants to be a useful person. He wants to support his family, not be a burden to his family. ?
He told his family about his plan. ?
"I can't do it by hand anymore," he said, "so I decided to work with my brain. If you like, each of you can replace my hands, feet and body. Let's plant corn on every acre of farmland on the farm. Then we raise pigs and feed them with the harvested corn. When our pig was young, we killed it, made sausages, and then packaged the sausages and sold them under a brand name. We can sell this sausage in retail stores all over the country. " He smiled in a low voice and then said, "This sausage will sell like hot cakes." ?
This sausage really sells well! A few years later, the brand name "Jones Little Pig Sausage" has become a daily language in the family and the most appetizing food.
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People often use "the heart is willing but unable" to excuse their unwillingness to work hard. In fact, nothing is difficult in the world, and positive thinking can overcome almost all obstacles in the world. ?
Heart disease is more harmful than physical illness.
Tucao is a young computer sales manager. He has a warm home, a well-paid job and a sunshine avenue in front of him, but his mood is very depressed. He always thought that some part of his body was sick and dying, and even bought himself a cemetery to prepare for his funeral. In fact, he just felt a little short of breath, his heart beat a little fast and his throat was blocked. The doctor advised him to rest at home and not do sales work for the time being. ?
He stayed at home for a while, but his mind was still restless because of fear. His breathing became more rapid, his heart beat faster and his throat was still blocked. Then his doctor told him to go to the seaside for his holiday. ?
Although the seaside has a healthy climate and magnificent mountains, it still can't stop his fear. When he came home a week later, he felt that death was coming. ?
Spit's wife saw him and sent him to a famous hospital for a comprehensive examination. The doctor told him, "The crux of your problem is inhaling too much oxygen." He immediately smiled and said, "How should I deal with this situation?" The doctor said, "When you feel difficult to breathe and your heart beats faster, you can exhale into a paper bag or hold your breath for a while." The doctor handed him a paper bag and he followed the doctor's advice. As a result, his heartbeat and breathing became normal, and his throat was no longer blocked.
He was very happy when he left the clinic. ?
Since then, whenever he is ill, he will hold his breath for a period of time to make his body function normal. After a few months, he was no longer afraid and his symptoms disappeared. Since then, he has never seen a doctor.
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Many people feel that their bodies can't support them, and often the crux lies in psychology. Keeping a happy mood is very helpful to your health. "If you are not afraid, there is hope", which is true for dealing with difficulties and diseases. ?
You have the right to control your life.
Carl. Dr Saimon is an expert who specializes in treating patients with advanced cancer. He once treated a 6 1 year-old laryngeal cancer patient. At that time, affected by the illness, the patient's weight dropped sharply, only 40 kilograms. The spread of cancer cells prevented him from eating. ?
Dr. Saimon told the patient that he would try his best to treat him and help him fight evil diseases. At the same time, tell him the progress of treatment in detail every day, clearly describe the treatment situation of the medical team and his internal reaction to treatment, so that patients can fully understand the condition, relieve anxiety and try their best to cooperate with medical staff. ?
The treatment turned out to be surprisingly good. Dr. Saimon thinks this patient is really an ideal patient, because he fully cooperated with the doctor's instructions, which made the treatment process smooth. Dr. Saimon teaches patients to use their imagination to imagine how the army of white blood cells in their bodies fought against stubborn cancer cells and finally defeated them. Results Two weeks later, the medical team really suppressed the destructiveness of cancer cells and successfully defeated cancer. Even Dr. Saimon was very surprised by this outstanding treatment result. ?
In fact, Dr. Saimon achieved such a successful result because he treated the cancer patient with psychotherapy.
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Dr Saimon said, "You have more control over your life than you think. Even a incurable disease like cancer can be under your control. " He also said: "In fact, you can use this spiritual power to decide what kind of quality of life you want." ?
Turn your shortcomings into opportunities to develop yourself.
Romulo, who has served as Philippine Foreign Minister for a long time, didn't put on his shoes until 1? 63 meters. Like everyone else, he was ashamed of his figure. I used to wear high heels when I was young, but this method finally made him uncomfortable and mentally uncomfortable. He thought he was deceiving himself and threw it away. Later in his life, many of his achievements were related to his "short", that is to say, short actually promoted his success. So much so that he said, "I hope I will be a dwarf all my life." ?
1935, most Americans still don't know why romulo is a man. At that time, he was invited to the University of Notre Dame to receive an honorary degree and give a speech. That day, the tall President Roosevelt was also a speaker. Afterwards, he cheerfully accused romulo of "stealing the limelight of the President of the United States". What is more memorable is that 1945, the inaugural meeting of the United Nations was held in San Francisco. Romulo, as the insignificant head of the Philippine delegation, was invited to give a speech. The platform is almost as high as him. When everyone calmed down, romulo said solemnly, "Let's regard this field as the last battlefield." At this time, the audience was silent, and then burst into warm applause. Finally, when he ended his speech with "defending dignity, words and thoughts are more powerful than guns" ... the only unbreakable defense line is the defense line of mutual assistance and understanding ",the audience burst into stormy applause. Later, he analyzed: If the great man said so, the audience might applaud politely, but the Philippines is a dwarf one year away from independence. From that day on, the little Philippines was regarded as a fully qualified country in the United Nations.
Therefore, romulo thinks that short people have a natural advantage over tall people. Shorty was always looked down upon at first, but later, with his performance, others found it unexpected and could not help but admire him. In people's minds, his achievements are so outstanding that once ordinary things reach his hands, they seem to be amazing.
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Although there are some shortcomings, there is still a chance of success. As long as you are willing to admit your shortcomings and actively strive to surpass them, you can even turn it into an opportunity to develop yourself. ?
Don't flinch or get depressed when facing the defects.
American President Roosevelt was a flawed man. He was a fragile and timid student when he was a child. He always shows the expression of fear in the school classroom. He breathes as if he were exhaling air. If you are asked to recite, your legs will tremble and your lips will tremble at once. Will you be vague and hesitant when answering? Then throw up Then he slumped down and sat down. Because he showed his teeth, the embarrassing situation made him even more unhappy.
A child like him must be very sensitive to himself. He often avoids any activities between classmates, dislikes making friends, and becomes a person who only knows self-pity! However, despite Roosevelt's shortcomings in this respect, he has a fighting spirit-a fighting spirit that anyone can have. In fact, the defects prompted him to work harder. He didn't lose heart because his companions laughed at him. His panting habit turned into a firm hiss. With a strong will, he clenched his gums to prevent his lips from trembling and overcome his fear. ?
No one knows himself better than Roosevelt. He knows his physical defects. He never deludes himself that he is brave, strong or handsome. He proved by his actions that he can overcome the congenital obstacles and achieve success. ?
He overcomes any shortcomings he can overcome and makes use of what he can't. Through his speech, he learned how to hide his fangs and the posture of his piling worker with falsetto. Although there was nothing surprising in his speech, he didn't fail because of his voice and posture. He has no loud voice, no powerful gestures, and no amazing words like some people. However, at that time, he was one of the most powerful speakers. ?
Because Roosevelt didn't flinch and feel depressed in the face of defects, he fully and comprehensively understood himself, and he was able to correctly evaluate himself while recognizing his defects, and struggled with perseverance. Don't be discouraged by shortcomings, even use it, turn it into capital, turn it into an escalator, and climb the peak of fame. In his later years, few people knew that he had serious shortcomings.
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Self-confidence is one of the essential qualities of all successful people. If you want to succeed, you must first build self-confidence. If you want to build self-confidence, you should clean up your inferiority complex, which is equivalent to the darkest corner of the street, just like sweeping the street, and then plant and consolidate your self-confidence. After confidence is established, new opportunities will follow.
Strive to overcome one's shortcomings
Napoleon's father was an extremely proud but poor Corsican aristocrat. His father sent Napoleon to an aristocratic school in brenner, where he interacted with his classmates, who boasted about their wealth and laughed at his poverty. Although this unanimous ridicule of him aroused his anger, he had no choice but to give in to power. ?
Later, I couldn't help it anymore. Napoleon wrote to his father and said, "I am really tired of explaining my poverty in order to endure the ridicule of these foreign children." The only thing they are above me is money. As for noble thoughts, they are far below me. Should I be humble under these rich and arrogant people? " ?
"We have no money, but you must study there." This is his father's answer, which made him suffer for five years. But every kind of ridicule, every kind of bullying and every kind of contemptuous attitude made him increase his determination and vowed to let them see that he was indeed superior to them. How did he do it? Of course, this is not an easy thing. He does not brag at all. He only secretly plans to use these brainless but arrogant people as a bridge to gain skills, wealth and fame.
When he arrived at the army, he saw that his companions spent their spare time chasing women and gambling. And his unpopular physique made him decide to change his policy and try to compete with them by burying himself in reading. Reading is as free as breathing. Because he can borrow books from the library without spending money, which makes him gain a lot. He doesn't read meaningless books, nor does he specialize in reading and entertaining himself, but prepares for his ideal future. He made up his mind to let people all over the world know his talent. So when he chose books, it was this determination and the scope of his choice. He lives in a small and stuffy room. Here, his face is bloodless, lonely and dull, but he continues to read. He imagined himself as a commander-in-chief, and drew a map of Corsica, which clearly pointed out which places should be guarded, which was accurately calculated by mathematical methods. So his ability in mathematics has been improved, which gives him the first chance to show his ability. ? Seeing that Napoleon was knowledgeable, his officers sent him to the training ground to perform some jobs that required extremely complicated computing power. He did a good job, so he got a new opportunity, and Napoleon began to take the road to power.
At this time, everything changed. People who used to laugh at him are now flocking to him and want to share a piece of it; People who looked down on him before want to be his friends now; I used to make fun of him as a short, useless and hard-working man, but now I have become respectful of him. They all became his loyal fans. ?
Is this a strange change caused by genius? Or is his success because he has been working hard? He is really smart, and he is really willing to work hard, but there is another power that is more important than knowledge or hard work, and that is, he transcends the ambitions of those who tease him. ?
If his classmates hadn't laughed at his poverty and his father had allowed him to drop out of school, he wouldn't feel so embarrassed. He became such a great man because of all his misfortunes. He learned the secret of winning by overcoming his shortcomings.
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Great men never admit that life cannot be changed. He may be dissatisfied with the environment at that time, but this dissatisfaction will not make him complain and unhappy, but will make him full of enthusiasm and want to make a career.
Willpower is the core strength of a person's personality characteristics.
Boxton used to be a simple-minded urchin with developed limbs. What makes him different is his strong willpower, which is manifested in his love for violence, domineering and stubbornness in his childhood. He lost his father when he was a child. Fortunately, his mother is very knowledgeable. She urged him to temper his will, and while forcing him to obey, she always encouraged him to make up his mind and make his own decisions about what he could do. His mother firmly believes that a strong will to form valuable goals is a person's most valuable quality if guided correctly. When someone tells her that her son is headstrong, she always says casually, "It doesn't matter, he is stubborn and headstrong now, and in the end you will see that it is good for him." When Boxton was at a critical moment in his life, that is, when he formed the goal of justice or evil, he was lucky enough to marry a girl whose family was famous for her good social behavior. ?
Willpower made him an unruly urchin when he was a child, but now it makes him tireless and energetic no matter what he does. As a winemaker at that time, he proudly said, "I can brew wine for an hour first, then do math problems, and then practice shooting. I can concentrate on everything." ?
When he became the manager of a brewing company, he asked all the details, which made the company's business prosperous. Even in the case of very busy work, he still insists on diligent self-study every night to study and digest Montesquieu's comments on English law. His reading principles are: "Don't give up halfway", "You can't say that you have finished reading a book unless you master it skillfully" and "You should devote yourself to studying any problem." ?
Later, paxton was fortunate enough to join the British Parliament. When he first entered the society, he witnessed the darkness of slave trade and slavery and made up his mind to solve the slave problem as his greatest goal in life. After he entered the British Parliament, he made unremitting efforts and struggles with the goal of completely liberating slaves in the British mainland and colonies. To abolish the slave trade and slavery in Britain and its colonies, we must not only fight against the traditional forces, but also fight against the nobles who safeguard their own interests. The difficulty of this work in promoting the historical process can be imagined, but Boxton did it. ?
In fact, in every pursuit, as a guarantee of success, it is not so much talent as indomitable will. Therefore, willpower can be defined as the core strength of a person's personality characteristics. In a word, willpower is man himself. Will is the source of strength for human action. Real hope is based on it, and it is the hope to make real life colorful.
Philosophy of Life 054 If a person is determined to be what kind of person he wants to be, or what kind of things he wants to accomplish, then the driving force or motivation of his will will will enable him to get what he wants. ?
Disabled people can also achieve something like healthy people.
Robert? Barani was born in 1876 in Vienna, the capital of Austria-Hungary. His parents are both Jews. He suffered from bone tuberculosis when he was young. Because his family is not well-off, the disease cannot be cured, which makes his knee joint permanently stiff. Parents feel sorry for their son, and Barani is certainly very painful. However, although the sensible Barani was only seven or eight years old, he hid his pain and said to his parents, "Don't feel sorry for me, I can make healthy achievements." When parents heard their son's words, they felt sad and happy. They hugged him and didn't know what to say, just Lacrimosa. ?
Barani is determined to study hard. Parents have been sending him to school alternately every day for more than ten years. Barani did not live up to his parents' hard work, nor did he forget his oath. In primary school and middle school, his grades have always been excellent, ranking among the best among the students at the same level. ?
/kloc-entered the medical school of Vienna university at the age of 0/8, and/kloc-received his doctorate in 0/900. After graduating from college, Barani stayed in the Otology Clinic of Vienna University and worked as an intern there. Because Barani works hard, Adam, a famous doctor who works in a university hospital? Poliz admired him very much and gave enthusiastic guidance to his work and research. After three years' efforts, Barani published a research paper entitled "Observation of Thermonystagmus" in May, 1905. The publication of this paper has attracted the attention of the medical community and marked the emergence of "thermal test" method in otology. Barani further studied and proved through experiments that the vestibular organs of the inner ear are related to the cerebellum, which laid the foundation of otology physiology. ?
1909, famous otologist Adam? Poliz was seriously ill, and the affairs of the Institute of Otology he presided over and the task of teaching otology at Vienna University were given to Barani. The heavy workload is on Barani's shoulders. He is not afraid of hard work. In addition to completing these tasks well, he continued to conduct in-depth research on his major. From 19 10 to 19 12, there are many scientific research achievements, and two books, Physiology and Pathology of Semicircular Canal and Functional Test of Vestibular Organs, have been published. Because of his breakthrough contribution to work and scientific research, the Austrian royal family awarded him a title. 19 14 won the nobel prize in physiology or medicine. ?
Barani published 184 scientific research papers in his life, and cured many ear intractable diseases. His achievements are outstanding. Today, medical experiments to detect vestibular diseases and cerebellar activity and experiments related to balance disorders are all named after his surname.