Good manners can not only beautify life, but also cultivate people's sociality, which is also the need of social life and communication. Montesquieu once said, "We are polite out of self-esteem. Politeness makes polite people happy and makes people who are treated politely happy. " There are many quarrels, frictions, contradictions and fights in life, all of which are caused by carelessness in the section. Elegance and generosity can deepen friendship and increase goodwill. Paying attention to speech etiquette can have a harmonious and friendly interpersonal environment, and paying attention to behavior etiquette can have a quiet and tidy living environment, promote interpersonal harmony and beautify life and society, so the cultivation of etiquette habits is an important content of spiritual civilization construction.
Learning college students' etiquette can improve their ideological and political quality. If a student knows both books and manners, and his knowledge level and moral level are seriously out of harmony, it is impossible for him to become an excellent talent. An excellent talent should not only have high-level professional knowledge, but also have good moral quality and etiquette. Etiquette is the expression of good moral cultivation and one of the important ways to cultivate good moral quality, which needs to be reflected in a polite way. At present, there is a phenomenon in many colleges and universities: students have received high-level education, but their actual behavior can't even reach the basic moral level, and a considerable part of it is related to the lack of necessary etiquette education. Etiquette is a non-legal social norm, which mainly includes moral norms, religious norms, customs and habits and life norms. It is the basic norm to adjust the behavior of social members. Systematic etiquette education for college students, so that they can master the basic code of conduct, can not only enrich their own etiquette knowledge, master the etiquette norms that meet the requirements of socialist morality, know how to express their behavior according to the etiquette norms in real life, but also organically unify their internal moral quality and external etiquette forms, and become a veritable modern civilized person with high moral literacy.
The rapid development of communication technology and means in modern information society is changing people's traditional communication concepts and behaviors. In particular, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication, and from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and mode of human social communication.
Learning college etiquette is the need for college students to establish good interpersonal relationships. Whether they can establish good interpersonal relationships with others during their college years has a very important influence on their growth and study. Psychologist John? Gotman's research results show that children who know how to solve the problems around them and deal with the troubles in life in an appropriate way are healthier physically and mentally, more concerned about others, more compassionate, more friends and better academic performance. Dale. Carnegie's The Road to Success and Jimmy? Donna and John? Maxwell's success strategies all derive the same formula: personal success = 15% professional skills +85% interpersonal and social skills. Therefore, it is an urgent need for college students to adapt to the new living environment, develop from "dependent" people to "independent" people, establish good interpersonal relationships and successfully move towards society. If college students can master basic etiquette norms and knowledge, basic communication skills, and follow the principles of mutual respect, sincerity, moderation in words and deeds, equality and friendship, they can quickly establish a harmonious and good interpersonal relationship with their communication partners.
Learning college students' etiquette well is the need to strengthen their civilized behavior and promote the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Etiquette education is the most basic content in the socialist spiritual civilization education system. Civilized manners are the most concrete embodiment of people's spiritual civilization. A person's speech, manners, appearance and clothes can all reflect his ideological cultivation and civilized quality education. College students are a group with a higher level of knowledge, so they should put forward higher requirements in terms of moral standards and etiquette cultivation. The pursuit of individuality is the characteristic of contemporary young people. In the process of pursuing individuality, many uncivilized, impolite and even ugly, stale and vulgar things are regarded as "trendy" and "chic". Around us, we can often see disheveled people, misbehaving people, swearing people and spitting people. The existence of this bad behavior has seriously damaged the image of college students and become an obstacle to their healthy growth. Therefore, it has become a compulsory course to carry out etiquette education and training, standardize college students' behaviors through etiquette, correct vulgar and ugly behaviors, and cultivate college students' good image, elegant temperament and demeanor, which must arouse the general attention and concern of college educators and college students.
It is necessary to popularize etiquette education for college students. Under the tide of market economy, the society puts forward higher standards and more specific requirements for the personal quality of college students. Under the background of increasingly fierce employment competition, it is necessary to popularize and standardize college students' etiquette. Popularizing college students' etiquette is helpful to improve their comprehensive quality. In the process of popularization of higher education in China, an extremely important task is to continuously improve the overall quality of college students. Popularizing college students' etiquette will directly contribute to improving their civilized quality. Specifically, strengthening etiquette training is helpful to improve the cultivation of college students. Popularizing college students' etiquette will prompt college students to start from small things and their own behaviors, and gradually improve their self-cultivation; Help to maintain the image of colleges and universities. In society, the personal image of college students is often equal to the image of colleges and universities, so the maintenance of college students' personal image will directly contribute to the maintenance of the image of colleges and universities, and even contribute to the maintenance of the image of the whole higher education; Help to improve interpersonal communication. If college students want to make a difference in their future work, they must attach importance to interpersonal communication.
It is necessary for college students to learn and master college etiquette, which is meaningful for their future life or work. Standardizing college students' etiquette should not only meet the actual needs of college students, but also adhere to a scientific attitude. It is a long and arduous road to insist on doing well the etiquette work for college students for a long time.
The so-called significance of learning college etiquette is to be a good college student or to be yourself and help others.
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