Marx said: "When choosing a career, the main criteria we should follow are human happiness and our own perfection." These two interests should not be regarded as hostile and conflicting. "'Human happiness' here refers to social value, and' self-improvement' refers to self-value. In Marx's view, these two values are not hostile, but unified. What is the basis of this unification? He works for the perfection and happiness of his contemporaries. Marx put it well: "People can only achieve perfection by working hard for the perfection of their contemporaries and their happiness." It is recognized in history that people who work hard for the same goal and become noble are great people. Experience praises those who bring happiness to most people as the happiest people. "These discourses brilliantly clarify the relationship between human social value and self-value: social value is the basis of self-value, and people with high social value must have high self-value.
Theoretically speaking, the relationship between people's self-worth and social value is very clear, but when it comes to a certain person, the embodiment of these two value relationships is often very different. Some people often evaluate their self-worth by their own money, power, knowledge, status and even their own "self-design".
This is unscientific. Because they can't explain what contribution they have to society and what social value they have. There is no basis for evaluating self-worth without social value. In other words, if your money comes from the wrong sources, you abuse power for personal gain, you use your knowledge to do bad things, you eat, drink and even engage in corruption all day, not only can you not realize your self-worth, but you will also degenerate into a black sheep of society. As a realistic person in certain social practice, measuring his value can only be his contribution to society. The greater the contribution, the greater the value; The smaller the contribution, the smaller the value; No contribution, no value. The "personal value" theorists only emphasize "self-value" without talking about social value, and even deny and obliterate social value with self-value, which is extremely wrong.
Historical experience is worth noting. Under the traditional planned economy system, we failed to handle the relationship between self-value and social value, and often emphasized social value while ignoring self-value. Mainly manifested in: one-sided emphasis on the unconditional obedience of personal interests to the interests of the state and the collective, and insufficient attention to the legitimate interests and requirements of the individual, which encourages the individual's dependence on the state and the collective and is not conducive to the individual's enthusiasm and creativity. Since the reform and opening up, with the transformation from planned economy system to market economy system, the tendency of emphasizing self-value and ignoring social value has reappeared. Some people do not hesitate to harm the national and collective interests in order to realize their self-worth, which must be stopped and corrected.
In today's society, vanity has become a common problem. Some of the students have family background.
Very rich, and some students have poor family circumstances. After getting along for a long time, some students inevitably have vanity, thinking that since
Eat less than people, wear less than people, use less than people, in short, nothing is like people, in the long run,
There is a negative psychology that makes you depressed, withdrawn and inferior.
So, how to realize your own price?
As the saying goes: "People are not poor. Of course, you have to make up your mind first. Ambition is the pillar of career. king
Yangming said: Without will, nothing can be done. So determination is the first to bear the brunt; Don't do it for ambition.
Diligence is an important part of life.
Second, we should look at life optimistically. Although I am poor, I only have poor material conditions, and
Spiritual life is very fulfilling. Why do you say that? Because the essence of optimism is to face up to reality and take correct measures.
Policy, get out of the predicament. Although in adversity, adversity is the nutrition of career success. Adversity and suffering are tempered.
The highest school of personality. French Voltaire also said that without great difficulties, there would be no great cause.
Therefore, life without a career is dull and colorless. With a career, material life will be satisfied.
Third, establish a correct concept of honor and disgrace. Since ancient times, such examples have emerged one after another. Tao Yuanming
Don't bend over for five bushels of rice. Zhu Ziqing, a famous essayist in China, was seriously ill and would rather starve to death than eat American "rescue".
Food aid "fully shows the backbone of the people of China.
Conduct yourself first, then make up your mind. Therefore, conduct is also very important.
Self-improvement will win. Self-improvement requires perseverance and perseverance. Perseverance is a good medicine to overcome failure. Put it together.
Beating is the embodiment of self-improvement.
In a word, these views have taught us how to realize our own value. A person's value and evaluation
It exists in thought and will.