1. Make friends carefully and improve your judgment.
2. Do not blindly follow the crowd and improve self-control ability.
3. Fight by legal means.
In terms of enjoyment:
1. Make friends carefully and improve your judgment.
2. Do not blindly follow the crowd and improve self-control ability.
3. Fight by legal means.
In terms of enjoyment: we may face excessive pursuit of food, clothing, housing and transportation. We always want to eat better, dress better, live better, live better and use better. This is normal, but if we excessively or even endlessly pursue food, clothing, housing, transportation and use, this is.
In learning: We may be tempted to have fun (for example, we want to watch TV or play games while doing our homework, and our classmates should drag themselves into gambling or engage in other activities that interest us). Because learning itself is a very hard work, and many of our classmates don't know enough about the importance and significance of learning, and they are not interested in learning. They always feel that learning is a bitter and tiring thing. I often have a headache when I mention learning, and I don't want to study hard. I don't concentrate in class, I don't finish my homework carefully after class, and I don't review my lessons well. As a result, the academic performance is not ideal.
In terms of communication: in the process of communication with others, we often can't correctly handle all kinds of problems that we may face. For example, in the process of interacting with others, strong curiosity and blind conformity psychology often urge us to follow the crowd to participate in various meaningless and even harmful activities, such as smoking, taking drugs, gambling, browsing unhealthy books and websites or playing video games. For another example, in the process of interacting with people, we often have the psychology of taking advantage of small things, which makes us often become unwelcome people, and even it is this psychology that makes us deceived and even go astray.
Legend has it that there was a channel witch in ancient Greece. She lured all the passing ships with her own songs and let them hit the rocks and sink. The wise and brave captain Odyssey bravely accepted the task of crossing the English Channel. In order to resist the witch's singing, he thought of a way. The captain told all the crew to plug their ears with cotton, and then the ship never hit the rocks again. This story tells us that bad temptations can be rejected.
Ways to reject bad temptations:
I forgot doing my homework yesterday. Before the teacher comes, I will copy it quickly! The method is: Lenovo consequences resist temptation.
Many students wear brand-name sports shoes, and my parents are laid off. I still want to buy them! Methods: Avoid the inducement method, that is, don't compare with classmates wearing brand-name shoes.
Examples of bad temptations:
(1) Teacher Chen: I am a junior one student, and my academic performance has always been in the top ten in my class. By chance, my friend took me to play online games last semester. In front of the computer, I can do whatever I want and live a good life! At first, it was only played on weekends, and then it gradually developed into all-day and all-night play. I also learned to smoke in the Internet cafe. Now, my class is full of game scenes. I want to smoke after class, and my grades have plummeted. And I know it's not gonna work. I have made up my mind to quit many times, but I still can't get rid of the urge to play video games and smoke. Please help me out of my clutches.
(2) Xiaogang is 3 1 year old this year. When he went to school in the first grade, he was influenced by social youth and secretly stabbed a dragon about 20 cm long on his arm. When he grew up, he wanted to join the army, but he was rejected because of tattoos. Moreover, in his life, he also encountered many troubles. I really want to wash it off now, and it costs a lot of money, but the effect is still very bad. Now, he is very upset.
These two temptations tell us that bad temptations are temptations that affect our physical and mental health and hinder our growth and progress.
Prescription 1: Lenovo consequences specific practice: addicted to the network? Don't want to study, and your grades drop? Can't get into the ideal school? There is no good future.
Prescription 2: Take the initiative to ask others to help you refuse bad temptations.
Specific practice: sign an online regulation with parents: surf the Internet for one hour every week. If it can be strictly implemented, the reward is less than half.
Time; Otherwise, the online qualification will be cancelled this week, and the supervision record will be made.
Prescription 3: avoidance of induction
Specific measures: hide the computer, out of sight, out of mind. Actively participate in class sports activities, do meaningful things, enrich yourself, and actively avoid the temptation of computers.
Prescription 4: Special use. Correct bad habits.
Specific practice: In order to prevent yourself from indulging in surfing the Internet and delaying other things, you can make a time plan and strictly implement it.
Euphemistic refusal: sorry, I can't do it! Positive suggestion: Otherwise, let's play a game or go to a movie. Advice: I have worked hard for loyalty and friendship. If I have to force it, I will not be friends. If this continues, I will tell the teacher (parents). No matter which way you refuse, you should look directly at the other person and show fearlessness when you speak. Don't get upset, fidget, panic or look guilty.
As the saying goes, the blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. I believe that as long as you persist in facing your bad habits and resolutely resist the temptation to fall, you will eventually overcome them.