We can't expect too much. If we expect too much, it will often lead to more disappointment. Just do what you can. Don't complain that leaders don't value themselves, and don't sigh that they don't have good luck. Complaining about others often leads people astray, while self-pity makes people wonder whether they are blessed or not. This will lose more opportunities and make life more difficult.
We can't be greedy, and always remember that contentment is always happy. If not handled properly, desire will overcome reason and soon become the dominant factor in life. Desire can make people greedy. You know, He Shen was also an honest official at the beginning, and it was not greed that eventually became the biggest corrupt official in history. Catch a word and you will live a good life.
We should have a tolerant heart, a big belly and tolerate what the world can accommodate. Maybe it's not a world event, but also the little things around us. We had an argument with a colleague. What we should do is not to ignore it, but to reflect on ourselves immediately, and you will find it is our fault. Even if you are not wrong, you can give her a tolerant smile and let her have a step down. Not only will she appreciate your tolerance, but your relationship will also be by going up one flight of stairs.
We should not be selfish and haggle over every ounce. There are gains and losses in life, so there is no need to force them. Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss will only be the trouble of life. People always lose something at the same time and get something else at the same time. Loss and gain are always balanced, otherwise how can there be a "law of conservation of mass"? We should overcome selfishness and form good living habits.
Frustration in life is not terrible, it depends on how we treat him. It's like the road is under your feet, just watching how you go. Find the right way, and we will be smooth!