Due to the physiological changes in adolescence, the secretion of hermon increased. Due to the chemical action and energy accumulation in the human body, it is easy for the opposite sex to feel something, which can be called liking. This is a normal physiological phenomenon, so how to keep the impulse in a moderate range? The most important thing is to recognize the appearance of adolescence and understand the physiological knowledge of adolescence. Everyone has puberty, which is a season of vigorous life energy, and energy needs to be continuously circulated to maintain balance. So the best way to learn to release energy is to exercise. Through proper exercise, you can not only release the accumulated energy, but also release your mood.

How should adolescent boys and girls communicate?

Influenced by the open social culture and adult marriage scenes, the interest in the opposite sex has expanded rapidly, which is a new feature of the development of young students' sexual consciousness today. Some students (boys) imitate the lifestyle of adults, write love letters and send flowers to girls he likes, and start secretly dating. This kind of "love" came too early, so it can't be said that it has not been affected by "unhealthy information", nor can it be said that "improper behavior" has occurred. I'm afraid "misconduct" is more appropriate.

Students who are budding in spring like this only think about and show their affection for the opposite sex, which is different from the love and marriage of adults. However, they choose adult communication methods to express their love by sending roses, writing courtship letters, dating and other ways that are not suitable for their age and status. As teachers and parents, although we should not make a fuss, we should not let similar phenomena go unchecked. They should warn students in time and point out that male and female students should communicate with adults. Friendship is extensive and can have multiple conditional objects; Love is exclusive, exclusive. The conditions of adolescence are not yet mature, and the time to cultivate love has not yet arrived. Therefore, it is necessary to educate boys and girls to master the following aspects in communication:

First, measured communication

We should not only oppose "giving and receiving by men and women", but also distinguish between men and women and try to avoid the practice of separating boys and girls. The contact between boys and girls should be different from that between the same sex, generous, sincere and measured.

Second, moderate communication.

When you have a good impression on a classmate of the opposite sex, you should be temperate and pay attention to the timing and occasion. Don't send messages or write to each other rashly, don't date casually, and don't tease students of the opposite sex at will. You know, interfering with other people's study life at will is a disrespect for others, and of course it is also a disrespect for yourself.

Third, polite communication.

Boys and girls should be United and friendly in communication, and pay attention to manners. Being polite, amiable and caring for each other is a concrete manifestation of politeness. Students should be measured when joking. An interesting joke can make the group full of energy, and an excessive or ambiguous joke will cause everyone's displeasure. If you keep joking too much, you will even ruin the good atmosphere of the class.

When boys and girls communicate, they should pay attention to personal cultivation in appearance, manners and language. Elegant manners, no debauchery, no teasing each other. The language should be humorous but not obscene, and the appearance should be neat and tidy, and no makeup is allowed.

In short, young students should cherish their beautiful youth, study hard their culture and skills, enrich and adjust themselves with rich life, learn to think rationally and improve their self-control ability. Only in this way can they correctly handle the communication between boys and girls, establish a truly pure friendship and make their body and mind develop healthily.