Is a white lie against honesty? This is one of the hot topics in our debate. The following is my collection of white lies and arguments against opinions. Welcome to read.
A white lie debate +0 1. When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, lover, children and all relatives will not tell him directly: "Life is hopeless" and "How long can he live in this world at most". Although all this is true, who will tell the truth to their already miserable relatives as cruelly as a judge sentenced a prisoner to death? At this time, everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment and let patients spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind. Will this hinder integrity?
I watched a TV report that an old mother had kidney disease, and her life would be in danger if she didn't change her kidney. At this time, the eldest son stood up and asked for kidney donation, and the old mother was very painful. The old mother strongly opposes it. If so, she might as well die. There is no way but to wait for a qualified kidney, but it is not easy to wait for such a kidney. The son cheated his mother after consulting with his family for fear of delaying his mother's illness. I donated a kidney from my youth to my mother. After the operation was successful, the family kept it from their old mother. The most touching thing is that my mother and son live in the next ward, and my mother doesn't know. When my mother wanted to see her eldest son, my family just lied to her that her son was on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears. Friends, does such a lie hinder honesty?
Let's give an example. One student was not very good at long-distance running, but in an exam, the teacher told him that the speed of long-distance running was faster than other students, and that he had the opportunity to participate in the competition on behalf of the school and told him to work hard. The student was very excited after listening to the teacher's words, because he always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running and could actually participate in the competition on behalf of the school. From that day on, he really liked long-distance running and kept running every day. After a while, he was really chosen because he couldn't represent the school at all.
4. A teacher once told a lie that he could predict the future for his students: you may become a mathematician in the future, he may become a writer, and which one has artistic talent ... Under the guidance, edification, encouragement and shaping of the teacher, the children become diligent, sensible and studious. A few years later, a large number of students entered the university with excellent results, and the village became famous. People think that the old teacher can pinch and calculate and can perceive the future. In fact, the teacher's good intention is to plant a beautiful lie in the child's heart, just like planting a seed in the soil, which will eventually grow sturdily and blossom. Question: Q: When a child who is out of tune with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how can he explain to him where his relatives have gone? On the contrary, we think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say to go on a business trip in a distant place or study abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practices of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Don't such words also hinder the integrity!
5. White lies are out of goodwill, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others.
6. White lies are a way of life and a reflection of caring for others. Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you?
7. White lies are a kind of lies, but if you can't lie, it will definitely hinder honesty, so you should analyze them in detail. Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, they exist because telling the truth hinders the principle of good faith. Fourth: A world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We agree that white lies do not hinder honesty, but this does not mean that we advocate honesty. The key is the degree.
8. White lies are beautiful. This kind of lie is either cheating or ulterior motives. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and without any impurities, they have magical power. A white lie is a lie out of good wishes, the nourishment of life and the driving force of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world! White lies can make people find reasons to face life with a smile.
9. White lies endow human beings with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive. A white lie can save a terminally ill patient and give others a glimmer of hope. A white lie can restore confidence and sometimes save a person who is about to have a nervous breakdown. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. A white lie can light the flame of hope. Who can say it is not white?
10, white lies are unnecessary, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness. Mark? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will make opponents embarrassed and reassure friends. " Therefore, the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even a white lie as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty.
White lies debate opposing views 2 Hello everyone! I regret to tell my opponent that you haven't given an essential explanation to the white lie. What you said is only a superficial understanding!
We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation to be implemented at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith.
Just now, when another debater was demonstrating, he also gave some examples to illustrate some functions and benefits of white lies. We also affirmed these effects and benefits, and also affirmed the examples of white lies you just listed. However, you must not ignore that the utility and benefits gained through white lies will eventually come at the expense of honesty.
I believe everyone has heard of opportunity cost! In other words, when you do one thing, you lose the opportunity to do other things at the same time. If you want to achieve the effect of white lies, you must sacrifice honesty, which is the opportunity cost of white lies!
In addition, modern psychological research points out that white lies can be divided into two categories: one is the white lies of the object, and the other is the white lies of the subject.
The so-called white lie of the object is a white lie whose starting point is completely for the benefit of the other party. It states the object of white lies more, such as praising a mentally retarded child and saying that he is smart and giving him confidence. This kind of object lies in goodwill and undermines honesty, which is a chronic poisoning.
The so-called white lie of the subject is a white lie whose starting point contains the elements of safeguarding or seeking self-interest. It states more about the subject who lies in good faith. For example, a child does not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him if he had listened carefully. He didn't want his mother to blame him or feel sad, so he lied and said that he had listened carefully. This subject's well-intentioned lie obviously undermines honesty and is an acute poisoning.
Another debater's misunderstanding that white lies do not hinder honesty is nothing more than the hidden influence of white lies on the integrity of the object. You don't see the essence through the phenomenon, and you don't realize that this is a chronic poisoning.
Why is the object of white lies chronic poisoning? Psychological research explains that because the white lies of the object destroy the integrity, they will not be directly perceived by people, but will gradually corrode people's integrity system over time. The concept of dishonesty is hidden in their subconscious, and there is "for the good of others!" This sentence will become his inner excuse for undermining integrity in the future.
For the above reasons, we believe that white lies hinder honesty!
Thank you!
A white lie debate, opposing views, three opposing views.
When we talk about "lies", there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. People who hear a white lie will try to believe it even if they know it is a lie, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart.
How I wish I could see my son for the last time when his mother was terminally ill and dying. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of the mother who once broke his heart for his son. He regrets and misses it. The old mother understands her son very well and tells her relatives around her not to tell her distant son after she leaves and not to distract him. She should say that her condition is stable, reassure him and do her best for the country. Don't interfere with honesty with such white lies!
Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability. I suggest that you use white lies when you should, and there is not much serious conflict with honesty.
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A lie is a lie after all, even if it is well-intentioned, it still can't change its essence. There is an old saying in China: If you want to be unknown, you have to do it yourself. It can be seen that if you lie, you will eventually be seen through by the other party, and then you will regret it. So here, I advise the other debater not to be a gentleman with the heart of a villain. No matter how well you disguise your lies, they will be exposed by the eyes of the masses. At that time, I'm afraid you will lose not only your integrity, but also your opponent's debater!
Many people think that people should be honest, and the so-called honesty is the foundation of people. Without honesty, there is no dignity. Therefore, you can't lie. However, some people think that sometimes we can't live without "white lies".
Yes, people really can't lie, because lying will make people distrust themselves and stop believing in themselves.
For example, Xiaoli promised Xiaohong to attend Xiaohong's birthday, but when she got home, her parents disagreed. Xiaoli wants to apologize, but Xiaohong is ready, which leads to Xiaohong's bad birthday. This incident gradually alienated the two, and Xiaohong no longer trusted Xiaoli.
Therefore, dishonesty will make two people lose friendship and trust. This shows that no matter when and where, you should be honest and do what you promised others. If you can't do it, don't promise others easily.
Lies, as the name implies, are lies, deceptive words and unfounded words. As the saying goes, life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies. Although lies and honesty are incompatible brothers, adding three words before lies becomes "white lies", and then we can live in harmony with honesty.
For example, a student is not very good at long-distance running, but in an exam, the teacher told him that the speed of long-distance running is faster than other students, and that he had the opportunity to participate in the competition on behalf of the school and told him to work hard. The student was very excited after listening to the teacher's words, because he always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running and could actually participate in the competition on behalf of the school. From that day on, he really liked long-distance running and kept running every day. I can't believe I was chosen.
In life, we should be honest people, but sometimes we can't live without white lies. When others lie, we should not insist that the purpose of others is bad, but should look at the situation and purpose of others.
Honesty and white lies are essential in life. A white lie will not hinder honesty.
A well-intentioned lie debates the opposing side's point of view article 5 1, the opposing defense friend, there is such a sentence in Zhao Benshan's sketch, "I don't even know you in a vest?" Today, why can't you use a good coat to identify lies?
Just now, we played a joke in the debate. Now, let's put aside the vest and go back to today's debate. Isn't a white lie a lie
You have been saying that white lies have changed qualitatively, so where did you get them?
4. White lies are good motives, but aren't your motives subjective?
Since motivation is subjective, your motivation cannot be said to be absolutely good, but it is good from your point of view!
6. Although a white lie is out of consideration for human nature, is it true?
7, no, so, it still violates truth-seeking, and white lies violate honesty! Haven't other debaters heard that short pain is better than long pain?
8. Didn't the other debater hear that paper can't wrap fire? What will you do in case of fire?
9. Human nature is the perceptual knowledge of most fevers. In this displayed society, why doesn't the other party be rational on the basis of sensibility?
10, the other party's repeated white lies do not violate integrity. Do white lies follow the truth? Do white lies follow objective facts?
1 1. White lies are also harmful to others, but they will be exposed to some extent one day. How can you avoid talking about the harm caused by this process?
12, white lies have become the habit of some people, a common means to avoid responsibility. How does the other party explain the vicious dependence of white lies on people's hearts?
13. What the other party has been demonstrating is that white lies do not violate the principle of good faith. Please show us how a white lie does not violate the principle of good faith from the perspective of good faith.
14, knowing that it will bring pressure, but only when there is pressure will there be motivation! As a medical student, I can tell my opponent and patient the truth from a more professional perspective, which is more conducive to the development of his illness!
15, must we educate our children with white lies? Why can't we be more honest? Haven't you heard of Ceng Zi's godson? Ceng Zi is not only educating his wife, but also telling the world that white lies are not allowed, and honesty is the last word!
16, white lies are a minority after all, in today's harmonious and honest society. The other debater, what we need more is the sincere truth! Can't you be good without lying?
17, the other debater's eyes are too emotional, but too much emotion masks your rationality? Can't you clearly know a wolf in sheep's clothing or a wolf?
18, violation of honesty means that some actions violate the truth, but we don't arbitrarily say that he is a dishonest person! Please don't label us!
19, I tell you honestly, how can it be unreasonable to share joys and sorrows? Opponent debater, this is a personal attack!
It is terrible to tell the truth regardless of the situation, but it is even more terrible to tell a white lie regardless of the situation!
2 1, integrity requires us to tell the truth!
22. White lies are not a supplement to honesty, but two opposite aspects. We don't deny that white lies are desirable, but at the cost of honesty!
23, white lies can only feel the "goodwill" should be evaluated by what? Your standard? My standards? The standards of the parties? Or is it a popular standard? Since there is no fixed standard for white lies, how to evaluate the "good" and "bad" white lies?
We didn't say that it is not advisable for him to tell a white lie, let alone that he is a dishonest person because of this white lie. We just said that a white lie is against good faith!
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