Although every Wenzhou man was born from a different mother's womb, most of them have a basic feature. Their bodies are basically not fat. Although not everyone looks handsome, they are all handsome and delicate. Although they are not tall enough and lack a little masculinity, they are full of masculinity. Their eyes have never been dull, but they have been turning, thinking and searching for all kinds of information they want, which reflects the shrewdness of Wenzhou people. Their clothes are not too fancy, but they are decent and pursue their own personality. Jeans became their eternity. It is not unusual for a Wenzhou man to have a dozen pairs of jeans in his closet.
Second, language.
It is said that both Wenzhou dialect and Minnan dialect are called the most difficult dialects to learn in China. Many Wenzhou people basically speak with a Wenzhou flavor, especially those who speak Minnan dialect. The flavor is heavier and some are not so strong, but you can still hear some if you listen carefully. Maybe this is the characteristic ~
In addition, in the past, many Wenzhou adults spoke almost every sentence with dirty words, and the voice was so loud that people who didn't understand always thought it was a quarrel. Nowadays, in our generation, when we get along with our friends in our daily life, some dirty words still pop up from time to time, but they are not real dirty words. Although it feels a little rough, it is not wild. This has nothing to do with quality, but a teasing between brothers and friends, a free and easy attitude that disdains the bondage of life. Of course, on formal occasions, they can immediately resume their solemn behavior.
Third, attach importance to feelings and righteousness.
Wenzhou is a very human place. They attach great importance to emotional loyalty and interpersonal relationships. Therefore, Wenzhou men prefer to make friends, be brave and unite. In their view, brothers and friends are just like brothers and sisters, and they can do anything for their brothers at critical moments. They hate traitors even more because they attach great importance to feelings and righteousness. If you cheat their kindness, they will be very angry and the consequences will be very serious.
Fourth, be generous and ostentatious.
When you arrive in Wenzhou, you can deeply feel how hospitable they are. Wenzhou men are generous to their guests. Men and friends in Wenzhou basically don't talk about AA and rush to pay. If you are with girls, girls have no chance to give. They are warm and friendly to distant visitors, generous and decent. Not everyone in Wenzhou has money, but when it's their turn to spend money, they don't blink. This is their habit. They would rather make themselves poor than mistreat their friends. Empathy is a big reason for their generosity!
Verb (abbreviation for verb) male chauvinism
Yes, Wenzhou men are more masculine, which is sometimes appreciated and often makes people feel crazy. People live a breath, Wenzhou people really love face, they will give others the greatest face, but also hope that others can give themselves face, including women around them. They occasionally look embarrassed and indifferent, and occasionally they are narcissistic and even self-righteous. Even if they realize that they are wrong and have admitted their mistakes, they will still pour out words and refuse to admit defeat, and sometimes they are quite cute.
The regional environment in Wenzhou has created the male chauvinism of Wenzhou men. They know how to live, but they never give in. In fact, this is the leading thought and driving force of Wenzhou people, who have injected the consciousness of starting a business to make money into their bones since childhood. Because of their male chauvinism, most of them are hearty and friendly, like to blow harmless cows and like to talk big (you will often see such a situation: several Wenzhou men get together and blow each other! ), they won't haggle over every ounce, their eyes will be higher, they are uneasy about the status quo, they are ambitious, they all want to be their own bosses, and they hope to be in a decisive position in society, units and families forever. It is in this way that Wenzhou men are encouraged to make money at all times and achieve their successful goals.
Sixth, treat feelings
Wenzhou is located in the central region, and the temperature difference is relatively small all the year round. To put it mildly, the seasons are like spring (of course, there are occasional typhoons in summer, but they have become a part of Wenzhou people's life fun). It is close to the sea, but almost surrounded by mountains, and it is the first to open in a relatively closed area. Therefore, Wenzhou men look bold and even feel like a playboy, but they are relatively conservative in their bones. They have a strong sense of responsibility and will not form their own family with a woman at will. Many times, their career will be their first goal.
Wenzhou, coupled with the warm climate, has cultivated the unique gentleness and thoughtfulness of Wenzhou men, taking good care of the women they like and paying sincere love without stint. Their male chauvinism often requires women to be obedient and clever. At home, you may be above him, but outside, you'd better give him enough face and be a gentle and considerate woman, so that you can fully grasp the heart of this Wenzhou man. Wenzhou men value their careers, but they also love their families more. So many family-owned enterprises in Wenzhou can feel the importance of home to them. Moral restraint is also good in Wenzhou, where we rarely hear about abandoning our wives and children.