Appreciation is a manifestation of a person's broad mind and broad vision; It is also the highlight of a person's keen intelligence and calm tolerance. Appreciation is the way to be a man. If you don't appreciate and don't want to appreciate, people tend to be more critical and less appreciative. Ask more and care less. As a result, just like doctors treat patients, they persistently "diagnose" other people's shortcomings, faults, mistakes, so they have a cold eye, criticism, irony and even reprimand. The ultimate bitter fruit is the loss of trust and affinity ...
Everyone should learn to appreciate, knowing that "the deepest need of human nature is to long for the appreciation of others" (in the words of William James). And with the increase of experience, this "desire" will become deeper and more intense. A trusting smile, a positive moment, an encouraging look and an encouraging word can dispel the inferiority complex accumulated in your heart for others. Can find lost precious self-esteem for others; Can correct the lost direction of value pursuit for others; Can awaken the potential and potential that has been forgotten for a long time for others; Seeds that can induce creative impulses in others' hearts.
Appreciation lies in the adjustment of mentality. Appreciation grows in free and harmonious air and kind eyes. Appreciate the psychological fetters of abandoning the "grandfather" and "judge", listen to the pure heart in the depths of the soul with a peaceful and broad mind and a generous attitude, and capture the fleeting creative light.
Appreciation lies in the transformation of angles. Everything has its own merits; Far and near, each shows its posture. For people and things, its front may not be so beautiful, but its side may be a beautiful silhouette; Or its appearance is still a immature, ugly, clumsy and stubborn shell, but its interior contains a mature, beautiful, novel and smart core. Why don't we look at it from another angle and think about it.
Appreciation lies in the choice of standards. Beauty and ugliness, good and bad, good and bad, success and failure, right and wrong all exist in comparison. It is understandable to pursue sublimity and perfection, but it is doubtful to ask for sublimity and perfection. If we judge mortals by God's standards and others by perfection, appreciation will lose our homes. As long as we correctly choose a suitable reference object and even look at others with a slightly lowered vision, something worthy of appreciation will come to us: flashing morality.
Appreciation is not a one-way charity, but an active collision between wisdom and wisdom; Appreciation is not a cheap compliment with ulterior motives, but a fair recognition of a relative value. Learn to appreciate, the mind of the appreciator will become broader and the soul will become more lofty. With appreciation, the world will gain inexhaustible motivation to pursue truth, goodness and beauty.
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Rodin, a famous sculptor, said, "Life is not short of beauty, but of eyes to find it." Learning to appreciate is actually a positive attitude and a condiment of life. You will find the beauty of life in appreciation and let people feel the meaning of life. Michelangelo, a famous Italian sculptor and painter, once completed a masterpiece "The Portrait of David". However, it is said that the marble used to carve David's portrait has been criticized by many sculptors. Some people think that this kind of marble is not chiseled well, while others think that its lines are not beautiful enough and can never be used to carve good works of art. In short, it is criticized as an ordinary stone that is not appreciated. However, when Michelangelo met this marble that everyone thought was useless with a unique eye, it became a "statue of David" that attracted worldwide attention. Some ordinary people, things and things around him may have hidden extraordinary wisdom. Let's become other people's talents and make some ordinary things completely different because of me. /kloc-in the autumn of 0/852, while hunting in Paskoye, Turgenev came across a crumpled Modern People magazine in the pine forest. He turned a few pages and was attracted by a novel called Childhood, which was written by a beginner. He inquired about the author's residence everywhere, and finally learned that the author lost his mother at the age of two and his father at the age of seven, and was raised by his aunt. Turgenev gave great sympathy and concern. My aunt soon wrote to tell her nephew, "Your first novel caused a great sensation in Valeryan, and Turgenev, a famous writer who wrote The Hunter's Notes, praised you to everyone. He said: "After receiving menstruation's letter, the author was ecstatic. He wrote graffiti to dispel the inner loneliness caused by the depression of life, and did not have the illusion of being a writer. Because of Turgenev's appreciation, he suddenly lit the fire in his heart, recovered his self-confidence and the value of life, so he wrote it at once and eventually became an artist and thinker with world reputation. Is he war and peace and Anna? Leo, the author of Karenina and Resurrection? Tolstoy. Tolstoy succeeded because of appreciation; Because of appreciation, that shameful stone became a sculpture. This material reflects the problem of appreciation. Appreciation is a kind of understanding and trust, including affirmation and appreciation, and also an encouragement and guidance, which can make people repent, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and grow and progress more healthily. In fact, everyone in society is eager for the appreciation of others. Similarly, everyone should learn to appreciate others.
3 The ancients said, "A swift horse is always there, but Bole is not always there." What they say is to learn to appreciate. With appreciation, Maxima can show its value: Liu Bang appreciates Sean, and Sean advises him, so there is "Jia Weihai Xi returns home"; Liu Bei appreciated Zhuge Liang, and Zhuge Liang also devoted himself to Liu Bei until he died, thus making immortal achievements; Li Shimin let bygones be bygones, appreciated Wei Zhi, and Wei Zhi helped him achieve great things, so there was a "rule of chastity" in history; Successful monarchs in past dynasties are all people who can appreciate and use others to achieve great things.
Of course, you and I are not high-powered people, and ordinary people should know how to appreciate them. Life is a long road, so there will be many beautiful scenery in your world.
Appreciating nature will open our hearts.