Because love is often inseparable from happiness, and the pursuit of happiness is human nature, all religions and philosophies in the past tried to show people the direction without exception when thinking about the road of life, but they all got lost without exception. Because love is the highest product of the comprehensive sublimation of human physiology, psychology, thought, emotion and desire, it is often inseparable from the human nature of loving beauty. Moreover, not only the love between each pair of men and women is unrepeatable and not exactly the same, but also the love between a pair of men and women, like a continuously recorded climate curve, constantly changes with the time axis. Therefore, the high abstraction, individuality, time-varying and aesthetic value of love, as well as its unique charm of "attracting countless heroes to compete for beauty", are destined to become an inexplicable eternal topic that attracts philosophers, artists and ordinary people.
From ancient times to the present, from great men to ordinary people, some people "love beauty instead of mountains and rivers", "be a beauty in a rage" and do not hesitate to "play with the prince of fire" Some people "would like to be a lovebird in the sky and a branch on the ground". The Red Mansion in The West Chamber becomes Liang Zhu the butterfly, Prince Charming, Romeo and Juliet, ... and they can't finish writing and singing, alas! "Ask the world what is love? Actually teach people to live and die together. "
Others were severely punished by the most merciful God for "stealing forbidden fruit". When others go in, they are naive, happy, infatuated and dying, longing for a beautiful paradise, but when they come out, they are scarred, bruised and hopeless, as if they have been to eighteen levels of hell. No wonder some people say that "love is predestined love", "femme fatale", "head of all evils", "great dishonor, small starvation", "women should be reliable, old sows can climb trees" and "men have no good things" ... all of them are true sighs after experiencing the ups and downs of love!
Where should love be in life? Zhou Fazhe once listed love as one of the three elements of happiness in his last article "On the Basic Elements of Happiness". After family friendship, it has become an aspect of feelings and one of the "secondary menus" of the basic elements of happiness. The author's original intention is to say that love is a necessary factor for happiness in life, even a vital condition, but it is not a sufficient condition, nor is it the first factor, nor is it the whole meaning of life.
I discussed an analogy with my children. The whole life is like living at home. Health, affection, friendship, career, wealth and social contribution are "staple foods" such as rice flour, fruits and vegetables, meat, eggs and poultry milk, while love is only "condiments" such as oil, salt, vinegar, pepper, fennel, monosodium glutamate, ginger and garlic. If a person has no shortage of "staple food" all his life, but has only eaten "light rice" and never tasted "condiments", it is undoubtedly bleak. But at a young age, it's a long way to go. If you don't fall in love for a while and fail in love for a while, it will be very painful, as if the end of the world is coming and it is unnecessary. Because life has more value and meaning to pursue, don't you eat a meal without monosodium glutamate? You won't live?
Therefore, young people generally do not lack health, affection and friendship. They should concentrate on their studies and careers. They don't have to let the complicated love and marriage problems interfere with the process of life, and fall into the confusion of "cutting and confusing", not to mention losing the courage to live! We should "turn grief into strength", make unremitting efforts, strive for self-improvement, strive for some gas for our own life, constantly improve our quality and expand our stage. Why can't we solve the problems of "love" and "marriage"?
This is Zhou Fazhe's summary of "love, marriage and happiness" in "Three Words of Success". Food and taste are indispensable. "The original intention of these words. I encourage you.
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