It can be said that when I was 20 years old, I never wanted to leave my hometown. I thought I would eat sweet-scented osmanthus candy here, paste rice wine, and eat and drink with my good friends from childhood until I die of old age.
But when I graduated from college, I experienced a very painful thing: partly because I was not a prestigious school, and partly because the professional companies were not in my hometown and had been looking for a job for a long time. I will go to almost every job fair. I don't know how many copies of my resume have been printed, but there are very few replies and interviews.
At that time, I said I would try another city. Parents objected as usual. Said there are no relatives, relatives at home are here, who are relying on outside, what should I do if I am cheated. . Just all kinds of barabbas ... ...
Later, because my classmates settled in Shenzhen first, I talked to my parents for several months and finally agreed to let me have a try. The reason why I am so grateful to the city of Shenzhen is that it is really full of young people with ideals. The city accepted me unconditionally and gave me a lot of touch and tenderness. Even if I ask for directions casually on the road, I can make friends.
More importantly, I ran in the Shenzhen talent market for four days, found a job, and went to work immediately! This incident really gave me confidence in my life, and I believe I can really support myself! Although it's a job that doesn't correspond to my major, my boss doesn't dislike me at all. I have no relevant experience, and I was willing to teach me a lot from the beginning ~ ~ and I also learned a lot.
Although I only stayed in Shenzhen for a short time and left, I may remember the kindness it gave me all my life.
I am also very grateful to the city where I am now. It gives me opportunities that second-tier cities don't have, gives me fun friends, gives me a vision, gives me confidence and courage, and makes me firmly believe that I can eat with my hands in the future.
Facts have proved that people don't have to listen to their parents, especially when their understanding of the world is not so consistent with ours.
Whether the water is warm or cold, you won't know until you jump into the pool and try.
Whether a friend is good or bad is not known until you associate with him.
You won't know whether the clothes fit or not until you try them on yourself.
Life is a choice again and again, and different choices determine different lives. Life is made up of many crossroads, whether it is left or right depends on your own choice.
There are some things in life. If you miss a moment, you miss a lifetime. As early as more than two thousand years ago in the Han Dynasty, a sickly woman pushed open the door of Mobei with one hand. She chose to leave her hometown and went to the lonely city of Nasaibei. Without singing and dancing, birds sing and flowers are fragrant, only the loneliness of the desert and the precipitation of the river. Is the anguish in her heart as boundless as the boundless Gobi? "I am alone, and it is getting more and more frequent." Her choice brought peace to the country, but who knows the sadness in her heart?
Our choices shape our lives. Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, became the youngest vice president in the history of a bank trust company in new york at the age of 25, but at the age of 33, he turned down his rich income and embarked on the road of starting a business. His choice created a wonderful life for him. Although we can't predict the outcome of the choice, every choice now is determining our future.
Life is a series of choices and decisions. Every seemingly insignificant choice is determining our future. What kind of people we will become is never an instant thing, but the result of continuous accumulation.
Happiness is a choice, so is pain. No matter what it is, you can choose to do it happily or painfully. Most people tend to think that not choosing is not making any decision. In fact, not choosing is also a choice. We always think we have no choice, but not making any choice is just a choice. You don't have to do it.
The road of life is your own choice. All the situations we encounter now are the result of past choices. Your job, your friendship and your life are all the results of your choices. Direction is always more important than hard work, so please choose your own life path carefully. The truth of life is simple: what you choose, what you give, you will get.
Choice is a process of reinventing ourselves again and again, and we constantly improve ourselves on the road of growth. If life is a journey of constant choice, then when Qian Fan finishes reading all this, he will eventually leave a unique scenery of his own.