Some things will have a lot of beauty for us, and how long is behind the beauty. Those lingering memories are used to cherish in our hearts. Maybe in retrospect, they are still happy at the beginning, maybe they will cry silently, just to commemorate the beauty of that moment, fearing that the beauty will be lost …
But some things can only stay in memory, maybe they can only be buried, and too much nostalgia can only become a burden. Let go, for those who don't belong to me, give up, for those who should have given up, let go, let yourself have the courage to face the reality, relax, let go in order to better accept the future, and be reborn …
Some things will become a thing of the past, and some things are just a stop for us to experience life, teaching us how to grow up, warning everyone around us to be friends and know how to choose, and our hearts will widen. Only after cleaning up can we store another memory and learn to put it down and start over …
From small to large, we will be exposed to a lot. The good and the bad are all their own, and the sad and happy are all there. At best, those can only be the post stations for our growth, learn how to deal with people, learn how to face joys and sorrows, gains and losses, learn how to choose and make ourselves mature. Everyone is not born to know everything, but through constant experience and life, and then gradually understand some important things in life! Simple life and death parting, everyone will experience, life is short, simply living once, can be great or ordinary, greatness is the focus of the world, ordinary to no one cares, even great or ordinary can not escape the cycle of life and death! Complex joys and sorrows, how many times has a person's life changed here? No one lives in only one form all his life. However, these are only the true manifestations of our growth. We can't always get carried away in happiness, nor can we always lose ourselves in sadness. People's life is always reborn after constantly letting go. Letting go is just another way to pursue, not to give up! I'm not saying how to forget, because everything we have experienced will become a part of our memory, just don't blindly immerse yourself. We should understand that everything has a cause and effect. When we lose it, God will take care of you and give you more. The world is fair, but our short-term losses will get us into the status quo.
A friend said that without happiness, you can't be happy, you can only be sad. She learned to sell her worries through wine, but she didn't know that the ancients also used wine to sell their worries. After waking up, she still had to face what had happened. It is unwise to immerse yourself in a sad atmosphere. Your sadness not only affects yourself, but also affects the people around you. Now, have you found the warmth from your friends or relatives? Compared with what you lost, you think you didn't get it.
Letting go is not a kind of giving up, but a way to face it. The process is different, but a wet result is good. At least when you can't make a decision, change your mind. The usual mentality may prevent us from making correct or beneficial decisions.
I am not a saint. When I grow up, I will meet and face what I want to experience, and then gradually mature.
I hope those friends who are still confused can find their own position in the process of growing up, face what they have to face, grow up slowly, be happy gradually, know how to choose and learn to let go.