The extreme of "staying"

A clever decorator knows how to leave a little space properly and leave enough space for the combined materials to avoid arching caused by extrusion. Similarly, as a decorator of life, we should also learn to leave room in the process of interacting with others.

Looking back at history, those successful people who are famous in history know how to leave a gap between others and themselves in dealing with people and political diplomacy.

In the era of the Warring States Period, which shows that there is a fierce competition, among many legends, Chu Zhuangwang can stand out and become the overlord of unifying the Central Plains because he knows how to be a man. At a celebration dinner, King Zhuang asked his favorite concubine to offer wine. A general offended Ji Xu because he was drunk and rude. Ji Xu tore off the feather from his hat and gave it to Chu Zhuangwang to punish the general. However, to everyone's surprise, King Zhuang ordered everyone to take off their hats and have a good time. King Zhuang thus forgave the rude general. In a later battle, Zhuang Wang was trapped, and a general tried his best to protect him, eventually saving Zhuang Wang and helping him achieve great things. This man is the once rude general. Chu Zhuangwang knows the art of dealing with people. He left a gap between others and himself, which saved him at his most critical moment and laid the foundation for his success.

German Chancellor Bismarck is a famous figure in world history. He led the people of the whole country to complete the great cause of national reunification, established a powerful German empire, and became the overlord of the European continent. Bismarck has extraordinary military talent and flexible way of dealing with people, which was fully played in the war against Austria. When everyone advocated to deal with Austria severely, Bismarck pushed his way through the crowd and forced Austria out of the German Federation, leaving Austria with room for development. Therefore, in the subsequent Franco-Prussian War, Austria's "neutral" position greatly promoted Germany's victory and eventually made Germany the master of the European continent. Bismarck was right. He knows that the enemies now may become friends in the future. Leave a gap, let him live, and one day he will repay the favor.

In this world, people usually like to do things "perfectly" to reach the highest level, but "perfection" and "perfection" of things are two levels. Moreover, doing things too full and too extreme often leads to the opposite result. So, why not leave some space between others and yourself? At that time, we will unconsciously become perfect and move towards success and victory.

Test analysis: how to determine the meaning of metaphor "gap" first look at the meaning of the keyword "gap". The "gap" mentioned by carpenters and decoration masters refers to a blank and narrow space. It is not perfect on the surface, but it actually plays a huge role-it can adjust the expansion and contraction caused by environmental changes, such as cold, hot, dry and wet pressures, so that the overall structure will not change. In other words, the subtle imperfection of the gap is actually to maintain the perfection of the whole. Thus, the "gap" should be compared to a "room" or "space" for maneuver and adjustment. Leave a gap: keep a distance, leave enough space, just right, enough is enough.

The key to "leaving a gap" lies in the word "leaving".

Why "leave a gap"? (Leave room, buffer maneuver, adjust running-in, relax moderately, and create harmony)

How can we "leave a gap"? (gentleness, restraint, peace and tolerance)

Where should I "leave a gap"?

1, being a man and doing things, if everything is calculated, interests are paramount, mutual concessions are not made, and everything pursues "group fullness", the relationship between people will be tense and divided. Similarly, if a person makes all his actions purposeful, he will crush his ideals. Leave a gap, give yourself, give others, and leave a suitable interpersonal space for society.

2. "Going backwards" is both physiological and human. "Physical properties" include gaps in road construction, gaps in lighting and ventilation for planting, gaps in spawning and reproduction for fishing and hunting, etc. "Humanity" has the gap left by the ancient founding monarch to the people, the gap left by modern family education to the children's hearts, the gap left by colleagues, and the gap left by personal life to enjoy life and precipitate the soul.

Reference Concepts and Writing Skills: Topic Vacancy and Happiness

1, environmental protection, limited development of natural resources, leaving a gap for future generations.

2. When dealing with the friction in life, leave a gap for others. Tolerance to others is also tolerance to yourself, leaving a way out for yourself.

3. The gap between friends and husband and wife is a sign of respect and love.

4. Leave a gap for people who are different from themselves, which can form cultural compatibility.

Writing an article can be subtle, leaving room for others' imagination, but it will have unexpected effects (appreciation of such works).