1. Everyone wants something.

2. Due to various factors such as self, society and timing, it is often not available.

3. Learn to compromise, give in and give up.

4. When giving up, it is often "a blessing in disguise, how to know that it is not a blessing", and success is not the highest, but the most suitable; Happiness is not given by others, but comes from inner feelings.

Judging by value—

1. It is human nature to maximize the benefits, and "acquisition" is one of the main yardsticks to evaluate the success of life.

2. Discrimination: What you deserve and what you should give up.

There will be many consequences if you violate these rules.

4. To sum up, the scale and bottom line of a person's "gain and loss"

Common ideas:

1. Let me talk about a social phenomenon first. For example, Ren Changxia died young, usually at the expense of his family or even in the line of duty, giving up a lot of worldly happiness, but winning the love of the local people ... On the contrary, there are also ...

2. The relationship between "getting" and "giving up"

3. What should I do

When it comes to "giving up", people will think of negative words such as giving up and giving up, while "getting" often makes people excited: getting and winning prizes. . . . . . Full of words that stimulate people's desires, but the reality makes people gradually understand the dialectical relationship between "giving up" and "gaining". What is lost is not necessarily bad, and what is gained is not necessarily good. What principles to "give up" and "get" is a big problem in life and a big topic for the country.